HELLLOOOOOOO!! (Page 2)

LOL, it happened at the moment I had a break through with my Leo and could not share just yet

haha!! yeah...fluffy, empty and based on ignorance at times.

but i don't care cos i am already in possession of the last laugh. while dxp has been fucked up, things have changed rather dramatically in the REAL WORLD. i no longer care what anyone has to say on the subject of the leo.

seraph: you underestimated everything which was probably because he's a grown-up MATURE leo. but you're welcome to persist with your smugness just as i shall mine.

huntress: i am thoroughly disappointed with you. your adoration of seraph is ridiculous...your multi posting of lmao summed that up. you're young though so i'll put it down to that.

yeah...i knew that elle. i'm not defensive. just pissed off and disappointed. no-one likes being the object of others' amusement.

Posted by ellessque
I don't believe that Seraph is amused by your predicament. I believe there is a level of sincerity in his advice.

Might not be what you wanted to hear but.....Que Sera Sera.

I'm one that agrees with what he is saying based on what you've shared with us. Can't really go beyond that because we don't have a live cam in to your life.

It's no different than when Tiki ripped me a new one about the cap man.....I totally "needed" that at the time (don't dare tell her...aqua doesn't need a BIGGER head). Sometimes we need others to see from the outside in. Even if we're sitting on the couch with a pint of ice cream and a spoon, with old cruddy pj's and our hair tied back.

It's never fun, it's just necessary.

no you are missing the point. what seraph says has no bearing on what is actually TRUE in someone else's situation and he has to make allowance for that possibility when passing judgement - which is a whole different ballgame to giving an opinion. i've just been talking to the leo who is central to this whole thing and the que sera sera of it all is actually very different from what is transpiring with him.

yeah...rip me a new asshole if i deserve it and it has happened loads of times. it's all part of the fun here and i'm not the precious type. but in this thread, i felt like i was being told WITHOUT DOUBT what had gone on and what to expect and his delivery was completely unnecessary. i was even more disappointed with him as we have spoken privately and i thought he knew me better or at least had a bit more respect.

you can agree with what he says as i appreciate it is based on the facts given but even though i actually went through the experience with the leo, i hadn't factored in his side of the story...obviously cos i didn't know it but now i do and it's nothing at all what i expected.

people here have even less to go on than someone involved in a situation and so opinion and insight is useful, yeah...but cut and thrust judgements?

so it's not actually necessary elle. the TRUTH is necessary but a third party opinion? nah....i'll stick with my gut instinct in future if it's all the same.

Adoration? If he was only so lucky. And the disappointment is mutual, love.

ok.

Lmao.

Lmao.

Lmao. 😛

BAHAH NOW 'M JUST MESSIN' BBY~

stooopid dxp. i've tried deleting this thread and it won't go 😢

i just want to formerly close this subject cos it's all resolved in real now (at last). i don't have any bad feelings for either seraph or huntress. people can be pissed off with each other and still be good friends and you have to admit, it makes for a more entertaining thread when there's a bit of mud-slinging going on LOL.

why! i was tempted to grab some popcorn MYSELF!!!!!

damn lions....you just can't be mad at them for long 🙂

Instead of mud slinging, let's mud wrestle and then have a mud group hug.

Since this thread is 'deleted' there should be a thread titled 'GOOOODBYEEEE!!'.

ily chickadee.

uote>Posted by Pecheresse
I am always amazed at how easy it is for men to like play games and be passive-agressive & get away with it. It is so flipping wrong. I have witnessed so many strong smart women fall for the games of such players that I think it is really something women should fix about themselves : their self esteem.

you know what they say, smart with everything else except being inlove..(*guilty as hell with the "being inlove part)

Posted by Pecheresse

For being in the shoes of Rig, kinda, I know that these guys treat women's attention like supply of attention. If one is not around, there's another one. Facebook or any social network is really the best tool for attention. Anythin goes as long as it flatters the ego. That guy does that trick with many women, leaves hints, and then it's women beating their heads on the wall to decypher wtf he meant. Well he meant NADA all along.

that's why i rarely go on fb anymore (only to check messages and chat is always offline.) to ward off stalkers, i even changed my name. after a month, peace..a little piece of heaven. ^__^

Posted by Pecheresse

Sometimes the sole purpose of such people walking into our lifes is to force us to reclaim our own power, as women, our entire power to say yes or no. We can decide for ourselves. So decide for yourself what you want from him. And learn from it. Make peace with him mentally, accept that he'll never be the way you wish he was, forgive him, move on. The Universe will set things in motion for you then.

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+1 (this is gonna be my new mantra now)

you know what? i think some people need to chill out a whole lot more actually. what happens, happens anyway so you have to just respond or react to things as they occur rather than second-guessing the reason behind everything. i know i disappeared up my own backside viz-a-viz the leo formerly known as the knobhead, but really it all served no purpose at all but to get me to dwell on the negative for months on end. the reality of the situation was beyond recognition to the scenario i had in my head of having been used, abused and discarded and so largely, my time was wasted feeling things that weren't necessary. to be honest, had i not come to dxp, i would've handled things the same way but i wouldn't have given it the headspace i did. that's what happens when there's no communication between two people...it's normal to want to fill in the gaps and find out what happened.

but all i'm saying is that ultimately, no-one knows what's gonna happen between two people - even the two people themselves, lol. you have to trust in your gut instinct or female intuition, call it what you will...that's why we have it 🙂