Help With A Leo Man that's mad.

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Pisceslady1
@Pisceslady1
13 Years

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My ex leo looked me up on Facebook after 15 years. I am a Pisces woman and the relationship we had before was DRAMATIC! My leo was jealous and would disappear for weeks, I finally got tired of it and packed his clothes for him. He fell off the face of the earth. Now he's back. He is telling me his life is not good, he can barely function and tries to keep from blowing his brains out. He won't call me he only chats with me on facebook. So about a week ago (during a chat) he tells me I'm the only woman he has ever loved, he feels guilty for the way he did me and my kids and he still loves me. We made plans to met 3 days later and when the time came he bailed. He said he doesn't trust me. I tried telling him the good I see in him but he always comes back with something very negative. He has lived alone for 7 years and still blames me for the past. I finally got tired of it and told him I wasn't gonna play his head game that he is only concerned with himself. He said he is "Vulnerable" when it comes to me but yet he has no problem blaming his problems on me. I'm afraid he will do something stupid so I wrote him an apology e-mail and laid my life now down to him. I told him I was seeing someone and I would always be his friend. I wasn't capable of anything more at this point. The truth is he was then and is now the love of my life! What can I do to fix this? He has deleted me from facebook but not blocked me, I have this sneaky suspension that he creeps on my wall. Can someone please help?
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BigGirlPanties
@BigGirlPanties
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Oh my God.....do you not see the intense manipulation that is going on? His life is shit, its all your fault, he doesnt trust YOU...but he lovessssssssssss you. He has your head wrapped around a vise with his blatant emotional manipulation.

How in the world is this guy even remotely attractive to you? He must be pushing your "savior" button....he plays the victim, you feel sorry for him...your mothering instinct wants to fix, save, rescue him. This man is nowhere near healthy.

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Pisceslady1
@Pisceslady1
13 Years

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Thank you ladies I had my suspension's about him. Your right Big girl, I panicked and tried everything to make him feel better. Then as soon as he saw an once of concern from me it was like you flipped a switch. (sadlioness) I did tell him to eff off and he came back with the killing himself thing and how he only considers his own emotions and lives in the moment. This man stalked me to find me, I had been re-married since I was with him and moved 300 miles away from my home town. He put an effort into finding me. I'm sure when I told him I was getting divorced and I was also seeing someone that was a reality check that he was no longer the center of my world as he once was. I do love him but my heart can't handle him. It's almost like he is a sociopath. He said he should have shot my ex husband in the back of the head and left him laying in a ditch. Why? Then he calms down and starts talking about the things he remembers about me, and ladies he remembers EVERYTHING! Anything from birth marks on me to the first and last time we had sex. Now that I'm ignoring him do you think he will go away?