How Much water Is Too Much Water---

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Posted by seraph
If anything is missing for your chart it's Air. So focus your attention in that area. But you might already be doing a fine job of compensating for that.

Nothing to really worry about.



Seraph is absolutely correct.

Shah, don't judge your character by the contents of the chart; rather prove your character in being the person you want to be.

If you worry about it, you become the worry. Once you embrace it, you become the prized. Let yourself become the prized. Do everything in the image of what you've always wanted to become. If something feels 'off', take note of it and adjust. Repeat until you find yourself feeling in control of your life and fulfilled by all of your surroundings - people, culture, and life. You know you're capable, and by second guessing it.. you are restraining yourself. Nothing but yourself is holding you back. Release those chains, love.

A Lioness can swim within the Water and stalk upon the entire Earth. We don't drown, my fellow feline. 🙂 And we ALWAYS land on our feet.

My chart is elementally similar to yours. Don't let it define you.

Now a group of us Lions is called a PRIDE, right? Let that be enough of a definition for ya 😛 You're strong and eternally growing. Never drowning. A plant needs Earth and Water to grow - not just the Sun 😉
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Posted by seraph
If anything is missing for your chart it's Air. So focus your attention in that area. But you might already be doing a fine job of compensating for that.

Nothing to really worry about.



Seraph

Thank you for looking at my chart.🙂

I am saying this, not to debate for the sake of debate, but from an educational point of view.

We all can and do school our responses, with passage of time we learn how to bridle our emotional tendencies, so as not to make a fool of ourselves, especially in our own eyes.
But this is a conscious learning process, isn't it ?

I did not have to do much to acquire it as I grew up in almost uncomfortably close proximity of nuns , so it became second nature to control all the emotions--anger, impulsiveness,temperamental swings. My convent life has ruined my fashion sense for ever but taught me never to run amok with my emotions.

You said to pay attention regarding the lack of air in my chart. Did you mean what I said above---schooling yourself to acquire a calm and detached state of mind ?

Does "lack of air" in my chart signifies my potential incompatibility with a person whose chart comprises at least 90% air ?



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Posted by seraph
Bano:
But people are different. There's desire and willingness to change, or to accommodate certain aspects of a relationship in order to enjoy and accentuate other aspects. But in this sense, it all comes down to desire. How interested are you in making something work? How much of yourself are you willing to give? This individual in your life with 90% Air keeps popping up in your threads. You're searching for answers about that relationship. It runs like a river through a lot of what you write. And it's a source of anxiety for you. So, maybe it might be a good idea to apply a good dose of Air to your situation. I'll refer you back to a post I made in a previous thread. Give that post some consideration:

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I've 4 planets in Water, 4 in Fire and 3 in Earth, none in Air, not sure if you count lilith in Gemini.

I agree with what Seraph says here. In my marriage I could have made it work and produced a very semi-contenedness relationship (very very semi) - whilst feeling dead myself at the same time. But my desire, or interest, in making it work gave up eventually, I was no longer willing to give. I notice you refer to the Air individual a lot too Shahbano but I don't think lack of Air in your chart makes you incompatible with a person with a lot of Air, I'd imagine they should be giving you something you are lacking, and if they are not then.... you need to deal with yourself on this first and foremost and work out how much of your life you can continue to pour into a bucket with holes in it.
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CelticLioness

I would not pretend to understand the agony of emotional inertia you might has gone through while trying to live through those days of forced effort with minimum heart in it. But I do feel for you, if not through experience than through the ability of empathy.

I am happy that your crab is safe with you and restored to health .

BTW I am babysitting a 4 years old crab and his 5 years old lioness sister now a days and each day with them makes me swing between the extremes of either wanting a baby of my own right now or resolving to myself never to even think of having one ever.