I love this Leo man which things won’t work out

So to make a long story short. I asked him to come over he said he can’t because he’s still talking to his ex which he explained that to me before. But in my mind I thought he would still wanted something with me because every time I saw him he would hug me and make himself known to be in my presence, text me, and flirt. He doesn’t post pics of this ex on Facebook and on instagram he made a post about him being single. I cried my eyes out. I asked him if he was even interested in me. He said “any man that’s not interested in you would be a fool.” But yet he still turned down my invite to come over. I’m so sad right now but I have to move on I love him and I barely know him like that. But I guess it’s meant to be

Awww I’m sorry, it sounds like he’s not over his ex. She probably hurt him. It takes us forever to move on, sometimes a couple of years if we were in love. He thinks highly of you though or he wouldn’t of even responded. You never know what can happen in the future so it's good to be on good terms since nothing major happened between you guys. Don’t be sad! You’ll be ok.

Awww I’m sorry, it sounds like he’s not over his ex. She probably hurt him. It takes us forever to move on, sometimes a couple of years if we were in love. He thinks highly of you though or he wouldn’t of even responded. You never know what can happen in the future so it's good to be on good terms since nothing major happened between you guys. Don’t be sad! You’ll be ok.

Thank you very much for your kind words

Why does this new generation always rely on social media as a precursor to a relationship? Let me tell you something, it means N O T H I N G.This guy told you from the beginning he was talking to his ex, that should have been a dead giveaway that he still had ties. A person who has ties like that with their ex, isn’t over them. You put yourself in a situation where you fell in love with a man who was never available to you from the very beginning. You sold yourself short and now you’re suffering. Move on to someone who would be interested in you and not just use you as a rebound.

The reason I stated to make a long story short...When he told me about his ex the first time I cut off all contact from him. After two weeks he contacted me I never initiated any contact with him. I finally after 2 months of his flirting and making himself known asked him to come over. I was very well cautious. I didn’t put myself in anything because I loved this man when I first met him. I know my worth. Never been the type to sell myself short. So you can kiss my ass for that bull crap comment

Don't be a Plan B, best to let go until he figures out what he really wants. Either to be back in the toxic relationship or chase hard after you.

If he can prove to you that he can block his ex gf, share his phone messages openly with you and etc, it is best to just move on and find a mature man that can be your rock. Never be a person's cushion, they'll leech off both side until one decides to give up and the person will just settle for the one that goes through thick and thin.

This is too crushing for a person, unless you like pain and sadness. 😢

Don't be a Plan B, best to let go until he figures what he really wants. To be back in the toxic relationship or chase hard after you.If he can prove to you that he can block his ex gf, share his phone messages openly with you and etc, it is best to just move on and find a mature man that can be your rock. Never be a person's cushion, they'll leech off both side until one decides to give up and the person will just settle for the one that goes through thick and thin. This is too crushing for a person, unless you like pain and sadness.

Thanks girl. Oh I plan to move on for sure this time. it will take me a couple of days to rejuvenate but once I’m fine, I am fine, trust me. I won’t contact him anymore and even if he does reach out I will not respond

I don’t get it. He was straight up honest

Yep he was...that’s what I admire about him just didn’t see why he had to still act like he wanted something with me at the same time so i got the wrong impression but I’m moving on. In public People even thought we were together that’s how much he would make himself available to me. But I just wanted to vent on here doesn’t matter now because I will be moving on now for sure

Why does this new generation always rely on social media as a precursor to a relationship? Let me tell you something, it means N O T H I N G.This guy told you from the beginning he was talking to his ex, that should have been a dead giveaway that he still had ties. A person who has ties like that with their ex, isn’t over them. You put yourself in a situation where you fell in love with a man who was never available to you from the very beginning. You sold yourself short and now you’re suffering. Move on to someone who would be interested in you and not just use you as a rebound. The reason I stated to make a long story short...When he told me about his ex the first time I cut off all contact from him. After two weeks he contacted me I never initiated any contact with him. I finally after 2 months of his flirting and making himself known asked him to come over. I was very well cautious. I didn’t put myself in anything because I loved this man when I first met him. I know my worth. Never been the type to sell myself short. So you can kiss my ass for that bull crap comment

So you loved him when you first met him? How can you fall in love with someone who sells you short? And you did sell yourself short otherwise you wouldn’t be here wanting a confirmation. Asking him to come over is holding on to hope, which essentially is selling yourself short. You’re setting yourself up as an emotional blanket.

There’s plenty of people that fall in love at first sight you don’t know anything about me. The post didn’t include a question so I wasn’t looking for confirmation I don’t need validation or from any one. Don’t have your head so far up your ass that you can’t smell your own sh**. Because you’re LOOKING real sh**y right now.

I’m a woman I have emotions I feel things but the last thing I am is a weak. I asked him over because I that’s what I thought he wanted after him making himself available to me but I was wrong. If you like something you’re going to want it and not just give up on it the first time. I tried once, then tried again I’m disappointed but I’m still happy. I don’t have a problem with displaying my emotions and putting myself out there because I’m not afraid like the rest of the world and he likes that about me. When I’m sad I’m sad but better believe I know how to brush it off and move forward. Somethings aren’t meant to be and everyone gets disappointed every once in a while. Mr sh**face

We don't move on from people or jump from one relationship to the next unless we're ready to let go. I hooked up with a previous ex who lives in another state a month after i broke up with my recent ex. The whole time, i was thinking of him and feeling like i was betraying him even though we weren't together anymore. If our heart is somewhere else, we can't be with someone new. It doesn't feel right.

That makes a lot of sense. And I understand that too. Once I was in love with this man and after we broke up I wouldn’t dare talk to anyone else because I felt like I was betraying him because deep down inside I felt he would come back. Took me three years to get over him then I met this guy lol. Thanks for your comment 😉

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Lol I knowww. When I click on it my phone doesn’t do it correctly it’s doing it like what you see here😕.

Hahaha! thanks Lioness18881

Yeah he’s very honest and I respect him for that