I want this Leo Male!!! Please help with our chart

Hello,

I have been lurking for quite some time but I need some help. Could I have someones insight on our charts please? I have known this Leo for a couple of years and was instantly attracted to him but I ignored it because he was not my normal "type". We worked in different departments so it was pretty easy to do. Now however, he is my boss and the sexual attraction on my end is through the roof! I don't know if he feels it at all. At first I thought it could be mutual but all the damn women in our department swoon and want his attention whenever he is near, so now I'm starting to think it is his magnetism and I'm just reacting to the pull he has. My problem is he acts so professional and I want to get his attention in a non professional way. He has started inviting us out after work for drinks but he invites the whole department and never singles anyone out. He pays attention to men and women and all of them seem to fight for some attention from him. I usually end up ignoring him (just because I will not fight for attention, it seems pathetic) and still talking and then he ends up calling my name and we talk for a while until someone interrupts us and he gives them attention. Here are our charts, can someone please tell me if I am crazy to think there was an instant attraction or if it was only in my head? Can you also give me insight on what type of personality this Leo has?

Me:

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Sagittarius 8.06 Ascendant Libra 5.59
Moon Cancer 29.04 II Scorpio 3.12
Mercury Sagittarius 29.00 III Sagittarius 3.50
Venus Scorpio 25.25 IV Capricorn 6.41
Mars Leo 10.35 V Aquarius 9.25
Jupiter Cancer 3.57 R VI Pisces 9.39
Saturn Virgo 0.26 VII Aries 5.59
Uranus Scorpio 13.41 VIII Taurus 3.12
Neptune Sagittarius 15.35 IX Gemini 3.50
Pluto Libra 16.01 Midheaven Cancer 6.41
Lilith Gemini 24.39 XI Leo 9.25
Asc node Libra 13.37 XII Virgo 9.39

Him:

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Leo 4.15 Ascendant Aquarius 19.05
Moon Leo 5.28 II Aries 4.16
Mercury Leo 16.39 III Taurus 9.08
Venus Leo 14.59 IV Gemini 5.01
Mars Virgo 12.20 V Gemini 27.08
Jupiter Taurus 26.42 VI Cancer 19.56
Saturn Leo 6.15 VII Leo 19.05
Uranus Scorpio 3.08 VIII Libra 4.16
Neptune Sagittarius 11.23 R IX Scorpio 9.08
Pluto Libra 9.21 Midheaven Sagittarius 5.01
Lilith Aries 29.55 XI Sagittarius 27.08
Asc node Scorpio 8.25 XII Capricorn 19.56

Holy lord, he is King Leo. 5 leo placements!!

I'm hiding 😛

How do you pull someone's EXACT chart if you don't know what time they were born?

Posted by Jynja
I don't seeing any clashes at all... am I being blind?

Jynja,

Can you give me your opinion please? I don't think we clash either. I am usually pretty good on picking up who I have chemistry with and who I should avoid. With him it was instant and has only got stronger as we have been working together but he is just so professional and I don't make first moves ever so it bugs me that he looks at me a certain way but doesn't say anything. I want him to make some sort of move, but now I've starting doubting how I have interpreted the chemistry. I haven't felt this type of chemistry in about 6 or 7 years.

Posted by Saggicappigal
How do you pull someone's EXACT chart if you don't know what time they were born?

I knew his ascendant because we talked about it so I based that on what time he was born.

Posted by Jynja

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Jynja
I don't seeing any clashes at all... am I being blind?

Jynja,

Can you give me your opinion please? I don't think we clash either. I am usually pretty good on picking up who I have chemistry with and who I should avoid. With him it was instant and has only got stronger as we have been working together but he is just so professional and I don't make first moves ever so it bugs me that he looks at me a certain way but doesn't say anything. I want him to make some sort of move, but now I've starting doubting how I have interpreted the chemistry. I haven't felt this type of chemistry in about 6 or 7 years.

Astrologically, you are right on the money about the chemistry. Your Venus and his Mars are sextile so he is likely also drawn to you. His Venus and your Mars are great together (conjunct) and your moon to his Mars are cool too. So, unless something is holding him back, I think he would have made a move by now.

Knowing these Leo placements personally (Leo sun, Leo moon, Leo ascendant and Leo Venus) on a man, he would have let you know by now if he's interested.

There could also be the case of your Cancer moon being shy so never giving him the hint that you might be interested in him enough for him to make a move. Sometimes, we get so wrapped up in our emotions, we don't plug in directly (don't know how else to phrase that) to the other person.

If I'm feeling anything off of this though, it's that he's afraid of rejection because he's not getting any hints off of you. That, or he is already committed somewhere else. BUT - astrologically, he should be a great compliment to you.

Please bear in mind that astrological trines and sextiles make for easy relationships, and sometimes people gravitate towards quite challenging relationships to keep things more "interesting." Another scenario stemming from my own experiences might be that he feels so cool with you, he doesn't see a relationship in the works.

Hope I helped somehow 🙂

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Thanks Jynja,

I'm a optimistic, happy go lucky type that is drama free and he seems to be the same. He has tons of patience and I have never seen any type of anger flare up, even when someone was out of line. I was

Posted by seraph
All personal planets in Leo, plus Saturn (which is not the greatest placement, but probably balanced out nicely by all that other Leo.)

You can probably corner him. But tame him?






Your advantage, on paper, is that you're a Sag. But all that Fire + Water can make you a little volatile.

I wish I was bold enough to corner him!!!! In my mind it plays out well but in reality I'm a complete chicken!!! lol

Posted by virgology83
You two clash to much. Your very well rounded, he seems more cocky. Your moon's clash a lot, mars and venus clash..I think you guys would butt heads a lot..My best addvice is keep it professional. Everything just clashes.

WOW his sun moon venus and mars are in leo? first 4 planets? CRAP! I'm not to sure on the houses yet..But the only thing you have in common is Pluto, you both are diplomats...I'm also a Libra/Pluto. Maybe someone can further help!

Thanks for trying to help, I avoid drama at all cost and wont put up with it at all. I will completely shut down and walk away, but he doesn't seem like the dramatic type. He is very secure and he acts like the boss. I don't mind it at all and whenever he tells me what to do, it is reasonable so I just do it. I kind of like the macho-ness of it. I don't know the significance of having so much Leo in his chart either and why it is so astonishing.

Posted by seraph
^^^

Also, all those signs in Leo are FIXED Fire.

Further reading on that:

http://astrology.about.com/od/thequalities/p/FixedSigns.htm

http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TheSigns.htm

Thanks for the links, they were great reads. I am very adaptive when it comes to men but I've never had a man that was stubborn. I don't see that side to him but I don't know him personally so....... I don't like possessive men and I don't know if he would be that type either. I guess I will just wait it out and see how things go. He does always talk about his "friends" and not relationships and he has also told me he is picky when it comes to women. It could be that I'm just not his type.