I'm a cancer and My Leo friend is not talking to me

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Mahil
@Mahil
8 Years

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He doesn't want to talk with me. On the contrary, earlier we exchanged conversation, feelings, views. We used to flirt and one day he said move on. I tried to let go. I cannot forget him. I felt good understanding with him and he could say what's in my mind without even knowing that he is right. I care for him. He is the first to capture my heart after 5 years of being single. i want to understand him unfortunately he isnt giving me a chance. Please anyone can help?
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Nameless Nemean
@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

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Love Cancers, you guys NEVER give the full story upfront. Going to make us dig a little right? From what I can gather you probably took too long engaging in mental stimulation which isn't a lengthy process for us Leos. We have a bit of Aries in us and love it when people cut directly to the chase. While we do appreciate intelligence, we also need physical stimulation as well. Our requirements are emotional, physical, and intellectual all rolled into one. We're Leos, we want it all.

For a Cancer I know this can be hard since you feel so deeply. I think Cancers are one of the few signs that can really bring that deep side out in a Leo. We generally try to avoid it ourselves.

If I had to guess, you had his interest for a bit, but probably lost it to another person who came on a lot stronger. From my experience with Cancers, a Leo can get frustrated if he tries to pursue you directly, only to have you side step away from him. My guess is he either tried to pursue you or couldn't gauge you. So he eventually gave up. Also Leos don't easily give up on those we care about, so there's a part of the story that's missing here. Feel free to divulge the full story.

Astrology aside, never get hung up on someone who doesn't want to keep you in their lives. If he can't adore you and cherish the connection you had with him, move on with your life. The worst thing you can do is chase a Leo once they create distance between you. We respect strength. He COULD be testing you as well, but then again if he expects you to chase him, that shows he's not emotionally mature. At the end of the day, you should only be around those who want you.