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I've noticed Leo's and leo women in general tend to talk about their past a lot especially regarding their relationships. Why do you leo women bring up a good quality of your ex husband or ex boyfriend? He's an ex for a reason. It makes me insecure as we both go for a nice romantic walk lots of chatting laughing and giggling. A make out here and there. A good conversation came up of me cooking for my family and immediately my leo just starts talking about her ex husband how he's a good cook and all. In my mind as an aries I'm like fuck him! He's an ex for a reason if you liked his cooking you should've stayed with him! But I didn't show my anger instead I praised his ways of cooking. I'm an aries and we are sensitive!

The past simply doesn't disappear you know. If that person was a big part of their life and has impacted them in such a way, there is a high chance that that person may be brought up in conversation. Remember its your past that helps mold the person they are today

Now if they were speaking of a past love in excess and used the words " I miss the way we fucked" then I would be worried.

Other wise, don't take it too personal. If they wanted to be with their ex they would. But they chose you

Posted by crimsonxsoleil
The past simply doesn't disappear you know. If that person was a big part of their life and has impacted them in such a way, there is a high chance that that person may be brought up in conversation. Remember its your past that helps mold the person they are today

Now if they were speaking of a past love in excess and used the words " I miss the way we fucked" then I would be worried.

Other wise, don't take it too personal. If they wanted to be with their ex they would. But they chose
you

Your right thank you for opening my mind up. She doesn't talk like that thankfully. Ya she's got alotta "good" things to say about him. I'm more than happy to hear but hey she's with me so shouldn't she say something that makes me better than the rest of the men she's been with? That's what makes me think stuff

I don't compare or tell stories about exes to a current interest.

It's rude.

Did you say something that made her jealous (or could have)?

Posted by Montgomery
I don't compare or tell stories about exes to a current interest.

It's rude.

Did you say something that made her jealous (or could have)?

+1

No talking about exes, unless asked.

Posted by Markov23

Posted by crimsonxsoleil
The past simply doesn't disappear you know. If that person was a big part of their life and has impacted them in such a way, there is a high chance that that person may be brought up in conversation. Remember its your past that helps mold the person they are today

Now if they were speaking of a past love in excess and used the words " I miss the way we fucked" then I would be worried.

Other wise, don't take it too personal. If they wanted to be with their ex they would. But they chose
you

Your right thank you for opening my mind up. She doesn't talk like that thankfully. Ya she's got alotta "good" things to say about him. I'm more than happy to hear but hey she's with me so shouldn't she say something that makes me better than the rest of the men she's been with? That's what makes me think stuff

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*rolls eyes* why I'd never date an Aries man... what'd you expect? You want her to put you on a pedestal? Get over it princess.

Posted by xtina


*rolls eyes* why I'd never date an Aries man... what'd you expect? You want her to put you on a pedestal? Get over it princess.

HAHAHAHA. 😆

I don't talk about my ex-husband to often but things do come up as we are in a serious committed relationship. My ex was in my life for pretty much my entire adult life. 14 years of it. And just like things come up about his ex's. (He is a Leo too) Yes they are ex's for a reason, but that doesn't make them horrible people. We were with people for a reason. I don't think a lot of people will get into a relationship with someone they believe is a horrible person.

I think this is more of a self conscious issue for you than anything else. Ease up and control that green eyes monster.

Posted by DarkFire
I agree. Me and my Libra best friend are opposite when it comes to exes. He hates and even despises the existence his exes with a passion. Me on the other hand, even once the fire has died and love has ended I still respect my ex lovers and will admire our memories forever. That doesn't mean I'm going to go behind new lovers backs and cheat because I'm loyal to only one love at a time.

We are very sentimental creatures. I firmly believe an ex is an ex for a reason and will stay there. If we can't work it out while we are together then we have no point to be together. If I walk, I walk for good. But I do cherish the good times. Do I want to go back..nope. I can sit there and say in my old age, I have loved and been loved. Even out of those not so good relationships and they taught me a lesson. I consider myself lucky.

haha, guilty as charged! Sorry about this. I've noticed I do this to anyone I'm dating. I don't mean any harm by it though. I respect my exes, even when they were horrible. I never, ever feel like going back to anyone.
But for me, I come to understand myself through association with others I guess... so by bringing up past relationships, I'm also bringing up who I used to be in the hopes that I'll be more understood. Of course, I guess there would be no need if I felt that my partner understood me without my needed to hash out my past. But unfortunately, I have yet to find many people who understand fixed fire.

I'm sure she didn't mean anything by it. If I say something like, "my ex used to have a jacket just like that." It is the equivalent of saying, "the sky is blue." Aries and jealousy... ease up unless your concerns are warranted. Leo is very Loyal... at least I am, haha