Jynja's Chains, Ropes, Cuffs, Whips, Ect. Thread

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Posted by Jynja

LOL, Ninja Fish, where's the drama?

I think it's a little like this: lots of women don't want to wonder if the log has been delivered to the beaver, they want to feel that treetrunk break through the dam. Power exchange gives the person hogging the chains, ropes, cuffs etc the chance to wait feverishly in delicious anticipation for that invasion... over and over again. It's not drama per se.

But that's just the physical side. Mentally and emotionally, this thing gets addicting - like a drug to the mind. And for someone who's been a bit wild before, no drug compares.

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LOL, Ninja Fish, where's the drama?

I think it's a little like this: lots of women don't want to wonder if the log has been delivered to the beaver, they want to feel that treetrunk break through the dam. Power exchange gives the person hogging the chains, ropes, cuffs etc the chance to wait feverishly in delicious anticipation for that invasion... over and over again. It's not drama per se.

But that's just the physical side. Mentally and emotionally, this thing gets addicting - like a drug to the mind. And for someone who's been a bit wild before, no drug compares.

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Mars: Scorpio







No.

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I don't get it. Do you have a problem with Austin Powers? 'Twas a joke.

And no shit, it's charizard.
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What I find somewhat interesting is that it seems as though the S&M type of... experience can create a captor/hero dualism where the sadist punishes the masochist who cries for mercy and then can turn around and be the one saving them from the pain with pleasure. (I'm sure it all depends on their personal style of course, some may just abuse basically the whole time)
But it's almost as if there is a deeper connection and respect maybe even reverence from the masochist for the sadist after they hault the beating and beaver cram them in a more romantic way. I think because the pounding sorta straitens up a snotty attitude, so in a ways, as violent as some more conservative people may see it, it could be healthier for some relationships.
I know nothing, that's just a guesstimation. Unless, of course, you hold the view that maybe the abuse causes a sort of resentment but I think if the two engaging in it are lovers, that's probably not the case. However, idk, are S&Mers more about doing it with strangers or closer acquaintances? Or is it merely about the naughty factor? Like getting off with your boss or something...
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I see. Hmm. It seems to me like although it's not for sure and there are probably a number of exceptions, girls tend to lean a bit more the subordinate/maso side and men are probably more leaning to the dominant/sado side just by nature.

I already know I'm pry more the latter just cause I like to mess with people in a bullying sort of way. Out of the kindness in my heart of course. :3
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Just saw this documentary on TV, I thought I'd share it with you.. 😄


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Just saw this documentary on TV, I thought I'd share it with you.. 😄





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SO.

MANY.

CONTRADICTIONS.


No wonder it never really caught on to me.

What you're describing here is the family friendly version of sub/dom. There is no true loss of control here for the submissive party, which pretty much contradicts the whole point of engaging in such a relationship. And that's just the tip of the iceberg. I mean in certain paragraphs it seems that the submissive party has more power than the dominator/-ix. And that's just not right....




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I happened to come across a few d/s clips and uh, actually liked 'em. Some aspects more so than others. Some of the contraptions seem rather elaborate and they are always in a very cellar/dungeony/liar thing. Is it common that people into d/s all prefer surroundings that look like a scene from Saw 3 or do some prefer more relaxed, modern atmospheres?
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That makes sense I guess...

I'm interested but I find that I'd wanna tone it down as far as not such elaborate mechanisms to hold her down. Just cuffing her to a beam or the bed is enough. And I just don't like vibrators. I know girls do, and some of them sadly may even prefer them to their partner's vibrator, but it just seems so inorganic to use a vibrator on your partner when you're right there. When she's home alone and you're on a business trip, then, yeah, I mean, better that then the mail man but, from a reverse perspective, it's the equivalent of you getting a dude to strip down completely naked just to give him a hand job.

I like the mindset it promotes though. It's as if it creates another type of relationship. You and your partner may be lovers, but also best friends, but also, master and servant. It's like a whole other dynamic, but idk, maybe it isn't like that. I wouldn't know cause I haven't tried this whole d/s life style thing. But I imagine it to be.

Part of me likes the karma sutra sort of approach but thats in like the total opposite direction because it makes sex a sort of yoga/spiritual/consciousness awareness raising thing.

I don't think you can really merge the two, but I find them both interesting.