Leo and Aries need help

OK....never did this post stuff before but I need help because I don't want to screw anything up. Here's the situation. a year and a half ago I met a leo man on facebook that lives far away. He was in a long time relationship with someone at that time. Our conversations were practical and friend oriented but interracted with each other everyday someway or another on fb. a few months later his relationship came to an end very harshly. he was completely heart broken and crushed and I was there for him when he needed to talk. after a little time our conversations started becoming more personal.after about six months he asked me for my phone number, but it took a few weeks before he actually called me. then we started talking on the phone once in awhile, and txting, and still interacting on fb. I got so interested in this man that I decided I wanted to take to the next level and so I decided to fly to his hometown and meet him face to face. By this time him and his ex have been broken up for about a year, but keep in mind they were together for 10 (she cheated, and left him) NOW comes the problem. I went to see him and stared for 2 days, and it was an AMAZING 2 days, our sexual chemistry was right on, our conversations were endless, lots of affection and attention, just a very awsome weekend. Now I'm in love, but he is not ready to committ right now and I understand. Traveling to see him or vise versa is not a problem except when his schedule is hectic. I was very straight forward with him and told him that I really liked and was willing to wait till he"s ready. We are like the perfect match, but he is afraid because he is "damaged goods" that I might end up getting hurt. I told him that I wanted to walk down the "waiting road" with him but was afraid that there was chance that when he was ready he might not pick me to have that committed relationship with. He told me if I was afraid to go down that road, then don't, even though I was am his only interest and have been for awhile even before we met face to face. I'm an Aries I go after what I want very strongly but I don"t want to be to pushy. But when I back down and start having doubts, he surprise me with somekind of positive thought, or that he wants to see me again. I'm just finding it a little hard to read him, and I don't want to push him away by being to pushy. Any suggestios Leo's?

Hello Lisa, Im not a leo or an aries...however i've witnessed this pair in action for almost 10 yrs. Me, the leo man and aries girl grew up together. They had been together off and on. I was his best friend...so i have a little in-sight on how they interact. They are very passionate in love, i mean when they love you there is ABSOLUTLEY no question about their feelings for you...you will know. Like my cousin(the aries, that was with the leo) says that she KNEW for a FACT he loved her...he just wasn't very good at making time to show it. He just wouldn't make her the center of his world, however he wanted to be the center of hers...(sound familiar?) and for a long time he WAS her world. Until she gave up and moved on, and would you believe leo man had the nerve to act like he was dramitically hurt, like he never had a fair shot at her? What a BRAT!lol. They are VERY spoiled by nature, and sadly your going to have to spoil them more than they spoil themselves(quite impossible) with not just material things, but love, emotion, support, everything.If not then be prepared to feel his HORRIBLE and i do mean HORRIBLE wrath...and it wont always be him yelling and ranting, it will often be him dissapearing on you. He will began looking for someone who will make his/her world revolve around him. However it's important to remain as confident and sexy as you did when you first met him, which means no letting yourself go, or going completly nuts over him...spoil him with a tight leash, but give him just enough rope to make him "think" he's your everything. This sign falls in love very easily, when they feel safe and adored PROPERLY and un-conditionally. However, i suggest you continue to do you on the side...nothing major or disloyal, but enough so you wont get hurt if this guy is running game and giving you the run-around about a relationship. But for the love of GOD DO NOT let your leo find out. HE must be the center of your universe rememeber, nothing wrong with letting him think that...but if i were you i wouldn't give it 100% until he gives me what i want. Good luck

Thank you Pink..... but my question still remains, will being pushy push him away. I mean he's I can"t stop thinking about him but he does have a stubborness, and do you Leo men like sentimental gifts?

okay...not sure if you skipped over this part of my advice...lol so i'll re-type it

"However, i suggest you continue to do you on the side...nothing major or disloyal, but enough so you wont get hurt if this guy is running game and giving you the run-around about a relationship. But for the love of GOD DO NOT let your leo find out. HE must be the center of your universe rememeber, nothing wrong with letting him think that...but if i were you i wouldn't give it 100% until he gives me what i want."

Meaning, you can be pushy...all you want, but if he's not ready then you'll be pushing for days...if it's really THAT deep for you, then i would say, lay it out there be ready for whatever...but after you lay it out there, sit back and see what happens