Leo finally confronted me about my silence

I grew silent with my leo ex (the one I was going to try to start dating again, but he didn't seem to be putting his all into it). I grew silent because I found someone else (scorpio) who treated me with more respect than I've ever been treated with (a complete gentleman) and very agreeable, which the leo is not.

I told him the reasons why I stopped talking to him. (didn't have time for me, not affectionate, etc), but didn't mention the scorpio. He never asked and I didn't feel that piece of info was needed. He tried to plead his case, and normally I would have given him another chance, but I now know there is something better out there for me cus I have him. And I'm not letting go just because I feel bad for the leo.

I feel bad for him because he has such a hard life, but the scorpio is a better fit for me. I have to do what's best for me. I still care for him tho...

The conversation ended with him being done with talking about it. and wishing me a good thanksgiving before saying good night.

So you guys think he took it pretty hard or will he get back from this and still be my friend? I've dealt with him getting into relationships before in the past and still being his friend..
...but I'm wondering what you all think he'll do when the situation is turned around on him

He'll find another girl and move on....

So I would say instead of thinking too much about him you should do the same.

yeah, he's probably taking it hard and has gone off to think and analyse it for a while. He'll move on pretty quickly left to his own devices - what will he do when he finds out about scorpy?- from a leo lady perspective, no competing, when I find out a special interest has someone else i'll leave, I never compete with other women, i'm happy to "chase" when there is no-one else in the picture but if I find out or am told about another then that's it, game over - not sure if its the same for the leo guys though, maybe it is, its a pride thing. yeah he can still be friends, we get over things completly and are happy to remain friends - once the gotten over is done.

Glad to hear about your scorpy, you sound happy.

Posted by celticlioness
yeah, he's probably taking it hard and has gone off to think and analyse it for a while. He'll move on pretty quickly left to his own devices - what will he do when he finds out about scorpy?- from a leo lady perspective, no competing, when I find out a special interest has someone else i'll leave, I never compete with other women, i'm happy to "chase" when there is no-one else in the picture but if I find out or am told about another then that's it, game over - not sure if its the same for the leo guys though, maybe it is, its a pride thing. yeah he can still be friends, we get over things completly and are happy to remain friends - once the gotten over is done.

Glad to hear about your scorpy, you sound happy.

Thanks. I'd like him to move on as quickly as he can. Just hoping the 6 yrs we've known each other is enough for us to remain friends still. It would be nice if he could find someone to make him as happy as I am though

Hun, cut your losses. For right now! U matter. You're with someone who is treating you well!..eventually, if indeed, its meant for a friendship between & leo man..it'll happen ...right now concentrate on you..

Posted by bibiana
Hun, cut your losses. For right now! U matter. You're with someone who is treating you well!..eventually, if indeed, its meant for a friendship between & leo man..it'll happen ...right now concentrate on you..

It's interesting seeing what everyone has said. I'm curious to see what happens.

Yes he is treating me well 🙂 I'm happy I picked him. I do still care for the leo, but I know how being friends with someone who was once your ex can hurt. I would understand if he couldn't cope. It was very hard for me

Thanks. I'd like him to move on as quickly as he can. Just hoping the 6 yrs we've known each other is enough for us to remain friends still. It would be nice if he could find someone to make him as happy as I am though

But are you? Or do you want the Leo back?

Posted by LionBlood

Thanks. I'd like him to move on as quickly as he can. Just hoping the 6 yrs we've known each other is enough for us to remain friends still. It would be nice if he could find someone to make him as happy as I am though

But are you? Or do you want the Leo back?

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Yes I really am 🙂
The Leo and I just make better friends. I really like this Scorpio. He's the sweetest

This is very true...my ex well who i am back with .. has done this once he has found out i had moved on he had stopped contacting me for a while then sent me a one last mssg...by then i stopped talking to this new guy anyways so i was free again ... and my leo told me ..he was not going to bother being my friend or talking to me in any way if i found someone new...

OH MY GOODNESS GAGA! I hope this time around, you'll respect yourself, in order for this leo guy to respect you ...
As for happykitsune: Let things run it's course..you now have someone in your life ( which he sounds wonderful)being a better mate to you! that's what matters...

sometimes we dont like to hear the truth but we know when others are right so i have heard alot of stuff on here that changed my ways of thinkig...so yes i just got a new job and all so i am happy before i was not working or nothign had to much time on my hands ..right now i dont care if he do or dont text or call .. nothing

MEAN IT GAGA! Trust me, it's all going to work out at the end!