I met this leo guy 1.5 months ago, everything was going well, we saw each other once a week initially, each time, he would say we need to see each twice a week, once is not enuf, but 3 weeks ago, when i asked about hanging out, he would not reply, when he did that for 2 weekends in a row without replying if we would spend weekend together. I had it and had a talk with him on skype, he said he was out of a 12 years relationship and was in a very controlling one and he was afraid of anything serious, plus he was recently lost his job but he also doesn't like to sleep around, so i asked if we should just be friends, or if he was looking for FWB, he said he would never be FWB with me becos he know it s not what I want. Then i asked if we're exclusive, he said yes. by then, i told him if so, i do not want to deal with his no response about meeting up and we will make it routine to see each every Tuesday and 1 day on the weekend. so last night on Tuesday, we had a small argument and sensed he might be cheating on me cos of his MIA. so I said we could be friends and i made up a BS and said I slept with someone before we became exclusive, he then confessed he had slept with another girl while seeing me (he met her before me), and the very next day when we agreed on being exclusive, he slept with the girl but he said he never cared about the other girl and it was all physical, he has felt so bad that he planned to tell me and her and intended to break up with her and continue to see me. and he told me he felt nauseous hearing me having slept with my friend, so i told him then that I never slept with the guy and was the only way I could find out if he has been cheating on me, i showed him my cell phone messages with my friend that noting sexual between us. i forced him to show me his messages with the other girls, the conversation has been daily and very sexual. I also said i lost trust and i needed him to show me proof that he broke up the girl and he would need to call me once each day to let me know what he has done the day. I'm sad and lost. he cheated on his 12 year relationship,at the time he said he learnt his lessons and would never cheat again clearly its a lie.
