leo&LEO

What are your experiences with leo males?
I've met a leo myself-I kind of like him,but I am afraid that he might be a me-in-the-mirror.
Hey,you-leo guys out there-what are you looking for in a woman?
waiting anxiously to read all about.Thanks

I went out with a Leo male ONE TIME. It was maddening, it made me really question my faults b/c we were SO much alike, I can understand what you mean about the me in the mirror feeling. I think the guy I went out with will make a great man one day after he figures out what he wants and grows up. If you guys can remain aware of your egos, and adjust them accordingly, you should be ok. One advantage to this combo is you never have to wonder what the he** the other is talking about.

Hey,thanks,Lionesse!The me-in-teh-mirror feeling makes me sometimes realize how opnoxious can I be in certain moments.But this makes me find him cutter because of that.
What about you,guys?Aren't there any more leo males ?

i'm leo male, and I wouldn't mind having a girl who understand what I'm thinking and feeling. oh well..

pc man,the leo guy I was reffering to is 24 years older than me ,but looking young and fit and sometimes with a childish behaviour.He courtshipped me for 2 months and I kept on rejecting him-giving he the alterantive of being friends.He thinks highly about himself and was very flamboiant in his choise of words,so I kind of mocked him a bit-and as a consequence he withdrew.He used to call me to say nice things-like "I miss your laugh " and I was kind of cruel to him,but not out of meanness,but I felt intimidated and also not used to this kind of relationship.
Now I regret my behaviour and miss him as a caring friend.What should I do?

yo bella, it was cold for being like that..but i understand how you feel. I mean, ya gotta show ya true color. Ya gotta understand why you feel this and that before you go on. In any case, ya better get in contact with him..and you probably think that it's easy for me to say then do...but really, ya got to get to him since ya blew him off.
It wouldn't be wrong to be a childish person. Ya know? Everyone has this kid inside them, and if you are one of those people who have that, man..ya might had a bad childhood history. Being a kid shows a side of passion. In real life, there is no such thing as "FRIENDS." Those Friends that you think you have...well, it's only temporary.
They will dissappear eventually..and they be doing their things with their lover. They will get married and have kids and stuff like that. THis man who "likes" you, well, maybe you might wanna consider of giving him a chance..ya never know. But, what i told you is based on my knowledge and experience....ya shouldn't be rejecting people at all..it's like rejecting ya self..ya know?
well, good luck.

pc, you are a very wise person...I learned something from you today...thank you. Never, reject anyone! I don't think I do but your reminder was very nice.

Hey Bella, just call him and say you are sorry and that you are learning about life and would like to talk again. Nothing wrong with that. If he says, no...then no big deal, wasn't meant to be. He may be really excited that you were thinking of him and will be glad that you called. Go for it, you have NOTHING to loose.

Ditto the Good-luck.

no problem, freebird..
because i want everyone to know that we as the individual is the most selfish person than any others(regardless of signs).

You spoke like a wise man,pc!That is so true!
"ya shouldn't be rejecting people at all..it's like rejecting ya self..ya know?"That is exactelly what I was doing:rejecting myself,because I thought it was inappropiate for me to engage into a relationship-any kind of-with a man that was being nice and attentive to me,and having a not-so-caring boyfriend in the same time.My interest in this man is purely intelectual-he is very inteligent and knowledgable-and also caring and sensitive to the my moods.
Thank you both for your advice,you both did helped me see things.
Bella

no problem, Bella.

Guess what?I did call him and he was really happy and surprised to hear from me!He said that I 've forgotten about him and abandoned him for such a long time!We have shared our achievements for the time we haven't communicated and we enjoyed very much conversating!I thought he cut the connection between us,but in fact he didn't want to "bother" me !
Guys,thanks again!

i'm knew this would happen, good job!
Now that ya learned your lesson, don't try to blow people off. anyway. take care as always.
if ya got problem..post it up!

Secrets to a Great Relationship


It is important to find a man who works around the house, occasionally cooks and cleans and who has a job.
It is important to find a man who makes you laugh.
It is important to find a man who is dependable and doesn't lie.
It is important to find a man who's good in bed and who loves to be with you.
It is important that these four men never meet.

True?

I'll reply each one

1) A man having a job is esstential. Once in awhile, man gotta clean house and stuff..or at least help the woman clean the house. Cooking...hmm...well, not all men knows how to cook. Maybe ya can have a man take you out for a dinner. That would be nice. Is this mean that you are going to hate a man just because he can't cook? Wouldn't be fair..that's flat out bias.

2)Make you laugh..yea, i guess. That is really your preference..however, a man who just be himself is what's important. But, having a man who can make you laugh can be enjoyable.

3)A man has to be the one that a woman can rely on. A man has to honor the woman by being real and never lie. That shows that a man cares for her.

4)A man good in a bed? Well, don't you think you are being selfish right there? I mean, what if a man is great, but never experienced much or at all in bed? Is that mean that you going to hate him?

5)..i don't know that means.."4 men?"
I can't reply that one.

there you go..this is what i think

I am a leo female and i dated a leo male for almost five years. it was the most beautiful and real relationship i have ever been in. i am 25 soon to be 26 this year and he really helped me to come to terms with who i am and what i really wanted. things were rough when both of us thought we were right but when we finally came together on a decision it was like no other experience whether we were just talking or we couldn't control our emotions anymore (because even though we are both very strong willed we loved each other a great deal) we would make endless passionate love. my mate loved to be dominated and i usually do to but that was part of what we had to get through because we definitely ended up accomodating each other. if you are a leo and are skeptical about dating another leo. dont be. it will be an experience you will never forget

Leo men have been nothing but trouble for me, and all of my girlfriends, so I say screw ALL of you. IF you would get your heads out of your ass, and keep your thing in your pants, you might be ALRIGHT, notice I said ALRIGHT. Believe I know this I live with my father whom is a true Leo, and yeah he buys all the expensive stuff, but hes a pervert, and he has a gambling problem. Again, leo men are not even worth the trouble. LEt them be single their whole lives, thats what they secretly want anyway!!!

lol, you sound rather angry untouchable!!! Not ALL leo men are that way!!! I know some perfectly lovable ones, and my father was a leo as well, and I is a wonderful dad!

What I have noticed about Leo men, and I've had plenty of dealings with them to know, is that you will only be happy in a relationship with them if you keep them happy 24/7. As soon as they're not happy in any way for any reason at all, then you will feel the brunt of it. The bad parts of Leo men include their tempers, their jealousy, their apathy toward your own life (there's that "it all revolves around me" thing), their insensitivity, their bluntness, their showiness, their need to be in control, their sense that their opinions and brains are superior to yours, and their womanizing tendencies. HOWEVER, *if* you can and are willing to keep your Leo happy, you will be rewarded with a kind, protective, encouraging, warm, funny, gregarious, ambitious partner who will then be your biggest ally. I haven't had problems with infidelity with any of my past Leos nor my current one, with the exception of ONE who I believe had mental problems anyway, and was a pathological liar to begin with, so I don't really even wish to count him as a relationship. I do know that they are impressed with beauty, and they can be a little too friendly with members of the opposite sex (if you're a jealous person), but their natural tendency is to be warm and funny and outgoing with other people, so you have to be careful to not misinterpret their motives. You have to be pretty flexible sometimes to be with a Leo. You have to realize that when it comes down to it, they'd sooner have it their way rather than your way, and sometimes simply out of spite. They are somewhat vain and compliments are soaked up like freaking sponges by them, they need them and enjoy them to a high degree. They will talk about it forever too. Can't tell you how many times my boyfriend will go on and on about "so-and-so said that I was very intelligent and funny" and blah blah blah...lol. Over and over again. They sometimes try to dominate the conversation (my leo does it ALWAYS), so you must stand your ground, and sometimes you might even have to say, "excuse me, I don't believe I was finished".

And that is all just my personal experience with male leos.

And don't let them intimidate you, or they won't respect you. They like you to be able and unafraid to stand up to them...in the long run, they will see you as more of a challenge and this is something that appeals to them. My boyfriend once said that I always keep him on his toes, that he's never bored with me, and that every time he takes me out he never knows what to expect. I assumed it was a bad thing he was trying to say, but then he told me that it was one of the reasons why he loved me. Go figure. lol

who are you dating now just outa curiousity?

ima leo girl and ive never dated a leo guy, see ive dated my opposite and every other sign in the rainbow but have always wanted to know what a leo would be like so i could get myself better.