Leo little girls

My daughter is a Leo. I'm a Virgo and I dont understand her sometimes. I just want to know for the Leos on this board, I would like to know what were the best moments that you had with your parents, and was there anything that you needed emotionally from them that they did not give to you. Thanks.

For me the best time with my parents where the special moments. My dad is an aries so my special moments with him where those that focused on just us two hanging out. My special moments with my mom a tarus where the ones of us making candy apples for halloween. As you can see its those times that we spent together just me and my parent that stick out the most for me

As for emotional needs I wish that sometimes my parents didn't yell at me so much. I also sometimes felt like I had to be the best for them to love me. I will say that as a leo child you have to be a little hard on us because we will want to do our own thing, but I wish that sometimes my parents would have just seen me more. However thats probably the leo in me wanting all the attention.

I don't have kids but I would suggest to just spend mother daughter time with her. Get to know her as she gets to know you.

Posted by GeorgiaPeach
My daughter is a Leo. I'm a Virgo and I dont understand her sometimes. I just want to know for the Leos on this board, I would like to know what were the best moments that you had with your parents, and was there anything that you needed emotionally from them that they did not give to you. Thanks.

Normally I've seen from my friend's relationships and from my own that Virgo female + Leo female = disaster.

Thanks Lovelyleo for your comments. I definitely have mother daughter time with her. I am just wondering from a Leos point of view if there is anything I could do better.

I think with leo girls growing up, they need unconditional love, not obligatory love. And I doubt that need has something to do with your sign.

An example would be my mother and my grandfather (Both sagitarius). Growing up I always felt as If my mothers love was conditional, and that she only loved me because I am her daughter, and her responsibility. I got the total opposite from my (grand)father. He didnt express his love directly [Like she did], but he was always there for me, no matter what. Nothing was more important than my needs, or my crisis at the moment.

Leos need attention when they want it, and as we get older we want our privacy when we want it. Most of us arent terribly emotionally dependent, so we may not always want your attention, but if your looking the other way when we do need it, we're likely to resent you for it.


In our minds we dont ask for too much, but when we do make our demands they should always be met.{Or there will be hell]

Posted by Twnelson
I think with leo girls growing up, they need unconditional love, not obligatory love. And I doubt that need has something to do with your sign.

An example would be my mother and my grandfather (Both sagitarius). Growing up I always felt as If my mothers love was conditional, and that she only loved me because I am her daughter, and her responsibility. I got the total opposite from my (grand)father. He didnt express his love directly [Like she did], but he was always there for me, no matter what. Nothing was more important than my needs, or my crisis at the moment.

Leos need attention when they want it, and as we get older we want our privacy when we want it. Most of us arent terribly emotionally dependent, so we may not always want your attention, but if your looking the other way when we do need it, we're likely to resent you for it.


In our minds we dont ask for too much, but when we do make our demands they should always be met.{Or there will be hell]

Uhhhh, yeah...
You know,
If you treat others like trash, you can expect to be treated like trash.

This is the problem with the leo.... they think they are owed something. They are not owed a damned thing.
To the OP: Love your kid but don't spoil her.
Otherwise, when they grow up, they will be thinking garbage like "We don't ask for much, but you better do what we want when we demand it." and "Leos need attention when they want it and their privacy when they want it" Notice a pattern— It's called being SPOILED Brats.

My mom is a virgo and she used to criticize me a lot, and sometimes when I speak to her she still does. Criticizing me a lot has made me very shy, skeptical of people, and sometimes withdrawn. I read an article which mentions that Leo children learn best by getting rewards for their efforts rather than punishment.

http://www.no1starwoman.com/ParentingArticle.htm

Posted by MrFirebird


Uhhhh, yeah...
You know,
If you treat others like trash, you can expect to be treated like trash.

This is the problem with the leo.... they think they are owed something. They are not owed a damned thing.
To the OP: Love your kid but don't spoil her.
Otherwise, when they grow up, they will be thinking garbage like "We don't ask for much, but you better do what we want when we demand it." and "Leos need attention when they want it and their privacy when they want it" Notice a pattern— It's called being SPOILED Brats.

For me it was never that. I actually never asked for too much. If you notice I mentioned that my father never gave me much direct affection, like most kids need to feel confident about themselves. I was confident on my own, but even the most stubbornly cocky kid needs someone to support them.

I dont think you read my first post carefully, but I will elaborate.

Leo kids never want to feel as if your love is coming in because YOU think you owe US something.[The opposite of what you stated] It's a bit disrespectful in nature to tell a lion that your doing THEM a favor by loving them. They will be quick to say "eff you, and the horse you road in on", and throw whatever "gift" you thought you were giving back to you.


We are genuine people, so we can usually spot if a person is sincere with their expressions, and children seem to be more aware of this, unlike adults who have [usually] been desensitized.

Even though everyone tries to make all leos seem like superficial brats, at heart, we are really just sentimental brats. 🙂

Posted by sweat.lioness
My mom is a virgo and she used to criticize me a lot, and sometimes when I speak to her she still does. Criticizing me a lot has made me very shy, skeptical of people, and sometimes withdrawn. I read an article which mentions that Leo children learn best by getting rewards for their efforts rather than punishment.

http://www.no1starwoman.com/ParentingArticle.htm

Naturally, reward for efforts, also patience, understanding, encouragement for failures and
punishment for misbehaviour.
All have to be administered when and where it is appropriate. Failure to do is the
shortcoming of the parent and not the child.

Constant (negative) criticism "might" be called emotional abuse, especially where there is little or no positive
criticism.

I had a very rough childhood...don't really want to go into it but what I will say is the only thing I ever really wanted was for my parents to be there for me & be proud of me.

When I was in the school play, when I had a band concert, when I had a tennis match it would have meant the world to me to have them there...to have what almost everyone else had.

Be there for her, let her know you are proud of her and love her and you'll be on the right track! Good luck

Leo girls need encouragement. They need to be told, that they can do it! Tell her she is beautiful and smart. That way she will believe it herself and can speak that over herself. I think its also important to spend 1 on 1 time with her doing what she loves. Engage in her favorite past time with her. Most of all, listen to her without passing any judgement sometimes.

LUV LUV LUV & ADORE MY LEO DAUGHTER!!!