Leo Men?

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_??_... Hello Lions,

Meet a Leo male not to long ago and we are in the introduction phase of getting to know one another. He is 33 and seems established... Used to be a ladies man... May still be. He seemed pretty afraid of me at first... Saying he didn't think he could get me and that he had been wanting to pursue me but I look like I only "date guys with money"... Whatever!? After spending time with me he said I was cool and he constantly tells me he likes me, how pretty I am, and how "soft" I am... ( is that good or bad)? Anyway, it's been about 4 weeks and we made out on Saturday... Just kissing and I let him go up my shirt lol... That was IT!! But, since the make out session... When I texted him jokingly "We where bad friends yesterday, I may have to stay away from you lol"
He responded : "If that's how you feel :-)"
I then asked him what he was thinking... And he responded with... Just thinking.
Before the make-out he was always all over me and telling me how sweet I was begging for kisses. He told me " I just Love you" but then thought about what he said and looked a bit embarrassed... I don't smother him or contact him too much... But now I'm afraid that we went too far and he thinks I'm skanky? Lol... It's only been 2 days though... Am I over reacting... Why did he respond like that when I tried to play with him like we normally do? Does he want me to chase him? Him thinking he couldn't get me and he has me... So is he thinking I'm easy? After one make out!?! Leo men please HELP!?! Lmao
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Never too skanky for a male playboy.

I don't think you went to far. I believe he was blowing smoke up your ass.

The playboy types (former or not) will say anything to get up your shirt and into your panties.

You probably didn't give him enough feedback and ego strokes so the lion has moved on to new but easier territory. Some leo men can be so damn lazy when it comes to certain situations, my leo brother included. He probably felt he was working to hard for the p***y. He's a KING don't you know?

An interested guy would not act like jackass when he doesn't get to drill in your ass all night.
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It's only been 4 weeks and he's already started with the silent treatment nonsense. Prepare youself for a rollercoaster ride of mind games, disappearing acts, jealousy, resentment and heartache with this fella. This is what Leo men are all about! Most women don't have the energy or mental capacity to deal with this exhausting bullshit and eventually they just give up and find themselves a real man. My advice, run for the hills before it's too late!
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+1 Noo & Nikki

No do not reach out to him. Stay firmly on your side. He'll give a little.

You're not playing cat and mouse games he is. But really with a Leo it's really okay to send mixed signals, he sure will if he's just looking for some ass. Confusion will and can get him in the panties quicker, we women (a lot of us) fall for the confusion game. The more you fixate on what to do and what not to do and fixate over him and his behavior the easier it is for him.

Honestly Leo males can be very affectionate but that doesn't mean anything but it can create a strong bond. Another weapon, show her off, well Leo men do that, means nothing, they can be very proud of their catch, wave you around like a brand new trophy. Another Leo weapon, be romantic, they are very romantic creatures, love and dove all day long.

Pay attention to his words and his actions. If they not matching up consistently he is blowing smoke up your ass. If he is blowing hot and cold, ignoring you, not keeping up with communication consistently, dropping off and out of sight, move on.
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Posted by TaurusNikki
Cat and mouse game

And the Leo is winning

And I need you to see where you went wrong at, read your statement again and you will see it trust me



Is the following quote what you were referring to?

Posted by BadGalVirgo

He already made it very clear he wants me... When we are together he is always all over me!! Hugging and kissing on me...

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Yea, he completely gave her what she asked for, playing games, she teased him, and he teased her back, he said he wants her, but before that he gave her a cheesey ass line that he didn't think he could get her, he already knew he could, the part he wasn't sure of is how much he can get away with, and if she is queen material or easy material, she gave up half the cookie and he didn't have to try, then she didn't even bother to keep in contact just to give off that she is not easy and that she wanted to get to know him the right way, which gave off easy prey, booty call category, Then states WHEN they were together they were all over each other, I mind you you are not the GF yet, Leo's are not stupid, far from it, they will treat you like you treat yourself, no more or no less
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Posted by iRunthisTOWN
Lol being a guy, all I can think of when putting myself in his shoes is "yup im still good at this."

Though u haven't gone very far with him so hes not done, but it depends if u can keep his interest or not.

In my eyes the most interesting women are the ones that dont need men.



I'm thinking about it like this... But, then again... I'm just a Virgo.

First off, we know each and have for maybe 2 years... He had always liked me but knew I was in a relationship... Fast forward to now, I'm single with a heavy work schedule... I don't crowd him or chase after him... After we texted on Sunday and he seemed dry, I stopped all contact.... He comes texting me Wednesday bright and early
"Hey Pumpkin, I haven't heard from you, I haven't scared you off have I—"
I politely told him no, and that had been busy with 2 midterms... Which I have. I teased him about missing me, he confesses he couldn't "wait" to see me again... I suggested we hang and watch a movies or get a bite to eat....
I don't need a man. I definitely don't need him... And, he knows for certain that I am not some loose woman... He thinks I'm so sweet and "soft" but like typical ppl.. He doubts the soft, shy, reserved Virgo. We see this coming... I personally think he's a bit scared and maybe unsure...

He has also gotten a little comfortable because if our make-up session. I sincerely hope that a 33 year old man touching and feeling boobs makes him feel as though he is the king of the pride. Lmao... I mean seriously, give me a break?

Either he's scared or intimidated. If he plays too long... I'll have to ice him out.
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Posted by TaurusNikki
Posted by champranger
Posted by TaurusNikki
Cat and mouse game

And the Leo is winning

And I need you to see where you went wrong at, read your statement again and you will see it trust me



Is the following quote what you were referring to?

Posted by BadGalVirgo

He already made it very clear he wants me... When we are together he is always all over me!! Hugging and kissing on me...




Yea, he completely gave her what she asked for, playing games, she teased him, and he teased her back, he said he wants her, but before that he gave her a cheesey ass line that he didn't think he could get her, he already knew he could, the part he wasn't sure of is how much he can get away with, and if she is queen material or easy material, she gave up half the cookie and he didn't have to try, then she didn't even bother to keep in contact just to give off that she is not easy and that she wanted to get to know him the right way, which gave off easy prey, booty call category, Then states WHEN they were together they were all over each other, I mind you you are not the GF yet, Leo's are not stupid, far from it, they will treat you like you treat yourself, no more or no less
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Lol... I continued contact. That's the primary question of the thread... Because I let him tongue kiss me and peek at my boobs... For Christ sakes, it's 2014 and he is 33 and a former player... That's pretty PG for him. He knows I've been single for about 8-9 months and just focusing on building my life to where I want it to be

I texted him the day after the make out saying we where "bad" friends... To jokingly say, maybe we went a little to far... Also, "I may have to stay away from you" as if to say let's slow this down...

After him texting me on Weds... I went to a friends book signing event and out with the girls... I posted photos on Instagram of me dolled up and sipping a spritzer lol... He began texting me saying he was thinking of me... Sending me lossy faces... Asking me what I was doing... I replied went out with the girls....

He goes out a lot. Me... Basically never... He seemed so sho
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Posted by TaurusNikki
Posted by champranger
Posted by TaurusNikki
Cat and mouse game

And the Leo is winning

And I need you to see where you went wrong at, read your statement again and you will see it trust me



Is the following quote what you were referring to?

Posted by BadGalVirgo

He already made it very clear he wants me... When we are together he is always all over me!! Hugging and kissing on me...




Yea, he completely gave her what she asked for, playing games, she teased him, and he teased her back, he said he wants her, but before that he gave her a cheesey ass line that he didn't think he could get her, he already knew he could, the part he wasn't sure of is how much he can get away with, and if she is queen material or easy material, she gave up half the cookie and he didn't have to try, then she didn't even bother to keep in contact just to give off that she is not easy and that she wanted to get to know him the right way, which gave off easy prey, booty call category, Then states WHEN they were together they were all over each other, I mind you you are not the GF yet, Leo's are not stupid, far from it, they will treat you like you treat yourself, no more or no less
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The 33 Leo has already put you in a category, he's not stupid, and he clearly has not given up the player card yet, at least not with you, not to be mean, and I'm not but your beginning your life, he has already been where you have been, not much to worry about, your 24, and you have already showed the Leo how you are

If you know this Leo for 2 years, it's not enough unless you 2 were close friends during those 2 years straight to at least know what your dealing with

And I'm sure you not communicating enough for him, cause if you were that cheesy azz line would have never been given at all, if you 2 know each other, again not good enough

I get why you said you must stay away from him, but again your dealing with a GROWN Leo, he has passed that level already, and he reason I said game is because you already open the cookie jar, you gave him a sample of some of the goods, then turned him away from the bakery, so now he is doing the same back to you

And I'm not trying to be mean here, but your in a category already
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Posted by BadGalVirgo
Shocked because I never go out or do anything. He goes out quite often... Me. Basically never. It seemed as though he was checking on me... But I don't know if I like it... It he checking if I'm still interested ... I don't like these games... They will bore me very soon. Oh well, plenty other signs in the zodiac lol




I hear ya, I just want you to be careful with this one, his player card is not over yet
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Posted by TaurusNikki
The 33 Leo has already put you in a category, he's not stupid, and he clearly has not given up the player card yet, at least not with you, not to be mean, and I'm not but your beginning your life, he has already been where you have been, not much to worry about, your 24, and you have already showed the Leo how you are

If you know this Leo for 2 years, it's not enough unless you 2 were close friends during those 2 years straight to at least know what your dealing with

And I'm sure you not communicating enough for him, cause if you were that cheesy azz line would have never been given at all, if you 2 know each other, again not good enough

I get why you said you must stay away from him, but again your dealing with a GROWN Leo, he has passed that level already, and he reason I said game is because you already open the cookie jar, you gave him a sample of some of the goods, then turned him away from the bakery, so now he is doing the same back to you

And I'm not trying to be mean here, but your in a category already



Smh. Tsk. tsk. That's precisely my point while he is busy categorizing me and trying to be my "match" and tease me back.... I'm just being. If he's still playing games like this at 33 then the end was meant to be the beginning of he and I... And, if he has already stored me as loose and not withy the effort... Then why bother and pester me when you see I'm finally coming out for air. Virgo is no fool.. He will reap what he is sowing right now. You always do when you misunderstand or underestimate a virgin.

For our sign is this virgin, we so everything our if purity... I maybe should not have made out with him... But, what a little boy.
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Making out was fine in my book,

The teasing might have spiked him into categorizing

The cheesy line he gave and how he's acting states player

I figure if you might have communicated what kind of woman you are, would have made him think twice about how to approach you,

You know what I mean, it's like you open the candy store early, advertised what kind he could have for free, them when he touched it, the store was closing, and you told him maybe next time

I'm sure that's not how you meant, but again, look at it from the opposite end