Leos and Geminis friendship

Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14

How do you see these 2 in friendship? I do not get along very well with geminis. What about you leo? These guys/girls are not faithful. They seem very superficial and attention seekers. They can't keep a secret for too long. I think that they are the perfect "new friend" for leos, but the worst long friend for a leo. I also think most of them hate us in some point of our friendship. What do you think?
Profile picture of Delyhla
Delyhla
@Delyhla
11 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 139 ยท Topics: 0
Posted by leo500

How do you see these 2 in friendship? I do not get along very well with geminis. What about you leo? These guys/girls are not faithful. They seem very superficial and attention seekers. They can't keep a secret for too long. I think that they are the perfect "new friend" for leos, but the worst long friend for a leo. I also think most of them hate us in some point of our friendship. What do you think?



I heard gem saying the same thing about leo lol except they added arrogant
Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14
Posted by Delyhla
Posted by leo500

How do you see these 2 in friendship? I do not get along very well with geminis. What about you leo? These guys/girls are not faithful. They seem very superficial and attention seekers. They can't keep a secret for too long. I think that they are the perfect "new friend" for leos, but the worst long friend for a leo. I also think most of them hate us in some point of our friendship. What do you think?



I heard gem saying the same thing about leo lol except they added arrogant
click to expand




lol maybe. I respect them tho. My mom is gemini and i love her, but she is the unique gemini that I love lol All the other ones couldn't stand me and they didn't explain why or how, probably due to our arrogant nose?? but it only shows that they can't understand us i believe.
Profile picture of MoonshineLeo
Firefly
@MoonshineLeo
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Comments: 1413 ยท Posts: 2819 ยท Topics: 78
I've dated a couple of geminis (ended horrible) but I'm friends with a gem female and she's pretty awesome. One of the gem guys I dated did get jealous a lot which I thought gems didn't get jealous but they do. But I thought Leo's getting attention that gems liked that about us, it's what drew them into us, thennnn they start not to like it too much anymore...
Profile picture of UntamedLeo
UntamedLeo
@UntamedLeo
11 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 233 ยท Topics: 4
I've had a few Gemini friends in my life and... no, didn't work at all. Their personalities would rub mine the wrong way more often than it didn't, and mine probably did the same for them.

Couldn't say what it is, maybe I'll meet more Gems in the future and we'll get along fine. I always suspect there are other things in people's charts that can cause conflict/bat-crap crazy between people lol
Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14
Posted by UntamedLeo
I've had a few Gemini friends in my life and... no, didn't work at all. Their personalities would rub mine the wrong way more often than it didn't, and mine probably did the same for them.

Couldn't say what it is, maybe I'll meet more Gems in the future and we'll get along fine. I always suspect there are other things in people's charts that can cause conflict/bat-crap crazy between people lol



yes, true 100% . i think that they like our charm and by the time they get jealous of what they once loved about us.. We have our disadvantages too of course. They blame us because of our attention 24/7... lol I think that they are being superficial one more time when saying this crap. Obviously we don't need any attention since we know that we are awesome 24/7 lol.. That's their pain. If people choose to tell us that we are great then we feel happy, why not? I think every sign likes it, so, they are superficial when they say this about attention. In my opinion they are also attention seekers, because they simply can't stop to talk just for the attention purpose. We leos, we have lot of websites saying that we want everyone eyes on us, and so they pick those stupid articles and blame us superficially, and this what i dislike about people. Getting advantage of unrealistic things. Of course, there are wonderful gem, and horrific leos though.
Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14
Posted by MoonshineLeo
I've dated a couple of geminis (ended horrible) but I'm friends with a gem female and she's pretty awesome. One of the gem guys I dated did get jealous a lot which I thought gems didn't get jealous but they do. But I thought Leo's getting attention that gems liked that about us, it's what drew them into us, thennnn they start not to like it too much anymore...



yes. They have pride too! They hide it but they have. They are very jealous to us. I attract Gem everyday, don't know why. Because they are very social, that's what we like them and they like us too, I meet new Gem very often but I put a stop signal because they want to enter in our life entirely like an anarchy, like they can go in and go out whatever they want. When you put your feet on the ground, it is too late, because you already told him some secrets about you, personal situations and your aqua friend just told you what the Gem told him about you... lol! And then you enter in the screen, revenge mode, like a leo, you fk** him up with ignorance and distance, and they don't understand why we are doing this.. and they think that they are intelligent omg, so wrong, for me one of the most intelligent sign is the scorpio. We leos and Taurus are next..
Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14
Here is my balance with Geminis.

My mom - Perfect, I adore her

My ex (first serious girlfriend) - betrayed me with one friend. I betrayed her too lol

First best friend (supposed) - owed me 17 euros and avoided me during the next weeks just to not pay 17 euros lol. HE lost a friend for life. Once again he was not smart like they like to show us, because if he was smart he doesn't need to run away because of 17 euros. I didn't care about the money, he just could told me that he couldn't pay me and everything was ok. but no, the smart gemini avoided me.

Second best friend (supposed), (University room mate) - told him some serious things about my personal life. Next day the aqua and the scorpio knew all the story lol.. Revenge - I said a humiliation that happened in our house (he sh** himself when he was drunk) while we lived together for the whole class listen to witnesses. He was sad and did not understand why I said that lol. Still tried to say it was fake lol


Now a new guy are constantly boring me for friendship. This guy is lunatic, i keep distance from him.. he just wants to start doing everything i do. He wants to be like me, basically. Because of past experiences this guy is paying lol yep, this sounds very imature but it is true. Geminis with me, only for work relations and very few and short.

Stories like these happened to me a lot with differents geminis, some of them not so serious but with the same coincidence.
I know them very well, and i know that they are selfish, superficialists, have pride but hide it, and they aren't good friends, at least long term friends, and at least for us, leos. On the other hand, I know that there are good Geminis but I am happy without them, end of story.
Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14
Forgot to say:

My cousin who is a leo - has a Gemini friend, also cousin, who literaly hated her. she did very sad things to my leo cousin just because she couldn't stand the atention that my cousin had from our family. Her atention was obviously natural, and she couldn't stand it. She (leo cousin) moved for a new city and then she felt very happy because that gemini finaly went out of her life. For many years this Gemini tried to rob her personality. Very sad. This Gemini has everything she wants because of her father who is rich. My leo cousin, had nothing because her parents wasn't so rich like the gemini father, and she needed to study a lot and work. Because of that, our family saw her as a nice lady, and a fighter and she naturaly got attention from all of us, inclusively me, but I never felt anger, or jealous because of the success of my cousin. The Gemini, wow.. horrific
Profile picture of justhewayouare
justhewayouare
@justhewayouare
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 58 ยท Topics: 0
Posted by leo500
Posted by UntamedLeo
I've had a few Gemini friends in my life and... no, didn't work at all. Their personalities would rub mine the wrong way more often than it didn't, and mine probably did the same for them.

Couldn't say what it is, maybe I'll meet more Gems in the future and we'll get along fine. I always suspect there are other things in people's charts that can cause conflict/bat-crap crazy between people lol



yes, true 100% . i think that they like our charm and by the time they get jealous of what they once loved about us.. We have our disadvantages too of course. They blame us because of our attention 24/7... lol I think that they are being superficial one more time when saying this crap. Obviously we don't need any attention since we know that we are awesome 24/7 lol.. That's their pain. If people choose to tell us that we are great then we feel happy, why not? I think every sign likes it, so, they are superficial when they say this about attention. In my opinion they are also attention seekers, because they simply can't stop to talk just for the attention purpose. We leos, we have lot of websites saying that we want everyone eyes on us, and so they pick those stupid articles and blame us superficially, and this what i dislike about people. Getting advantage of unrealistic things. Of course, there are wonderful gem, and horrific leos though.
click to expand




superficial for saying the truth ? lol most leo get mad when they are not the shining star not all of them .The type of person who will throw you under the bus and they are so egotistical that they would like to think everyone are jealous or whatever when in reality some should just get over themselves .
Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14
Posted by justhewayouare
Posted by leo500
Posted by UntamedLeo







superficial for saying the truth ? lol most leo get mad when they are not the shining star not all of them .The type of person who will throw you under the bus and they are so egotistical that they would like to think everyone are jealous or whatever when in reality some should just get over themselves .
click to expand





Look, I don't need any attention, at least the attention that are mentioned all over the web. Yes, i like to be noted for positive and intelligent things, not by clothes and perfume and talks that are useless... But, since I am not a pure Leo (cancer moon, cancer asc) I often prefer the second place, and not the usual first place that you think that we leos are always seeking (which is not always true). Since I do not need that, sometimes I received positive notes about myself from others naturally (physically and for what I am doing, professional or social) and even these few notes, if there was some of my past geminis around and heard that, they got jealous. So, even me, I do not need too much attention like you think that we need (even a pure Lion doesn't need that because he knows his value, a king, no matter if you think he isn't, he still thinks that) they got jealous, so could you imagine how woould it be with a true lion? lol The worst thing is: You do not need any lion to feel secure of yourself because you are special, like every sign are, but you are not better than anyone as a gemini, and we leos too (tought we think we are, not in an arrogant view, but we keep this for us) but because of your insecurities and because of what you see in us, leos you feel that you are not unique in the world.. because the damn leo exists.. For my gemini cousin the worst feeling that she felt for many years was my cousin, because only of her natural charm that she never had.. I am not saying that your are like that. As i said above, my moom is gemini and i love her, but since i had bad results with past friends i prefer keep some distance from the majority of geminis.
Profile picture of justhewayouare
justhewayouare
@justhewayouare
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 58 ยท Topics: 0
doesn'T seems like it. I could almost think you're not this typical leo .. but this part starting from You do not need a leo to fell secure...but because of your insecurities ..etc. just show how it's true at least for the ego aspect(I wonder if they even notice that themselves ) this is the main reason why I don't like leo they are very egotistical. Btw gemini are very confident about themselves and I don't need attention , it comes naturally and unlike some gemini I don't being the attention maybe because of my scorpio rising .
Profile picture of UntamedLeo
UntamedLeo
@UntamedLeo
11 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 233 ยท Topics: 4
There are a lot of stereotypes and inaccuracies about every sign and I think personal biases, misconceptions & personality clashes often lead individuals or groups of people to be written off as things like 'attention-ho', 'egotistical', 'flighty', 'over-emotional', 'closed off' etc. Figuring out how people (and signs) work on the inside usually helps to make sense of what's seen on the outside.

But most people don't bother to do that, which is why there are so many comments on DXP saying "Oh pffft, watch the (insert sign) act all (insert behavior), typical stupid (insert sign again) LOL!"

I think it says more about the people who do that than anything else. Way easier to point and snigger and act superior than it is to try and understand people.

It'd be like me saying ALL Gemini must be like the few I've encountered. I'm sure they're not, and the Gemini I met had some really positive qualities, but overall we clashed. No harm, no foul. Either way, I won't hold my experiences with others against any new Gemini that might waltz into my life ๐Ÿ™‚

Profile picture of justhewayouare
justhewayouare
@justhewayouare
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 58 ยท Topics: 0
Posted by MoonshineLeo
hahah this is funny because the geminis ive dated all NEEDED attention, they throw a fit if they dont get it or they think you "forgot about them", but they wanna leave and come back whenever they please...if you do that news flash, we WILL forget about you. Its just natural. gems are wayyy needy they just hide it very well, but leos dont fall for it...



yup leo don't fall for it .. they are known to be the MOST attention seekers of the Zodiac and my experiences๐Ÿ™‚ .Although we all have different experiences .
Profile picture of leo500
leo500
@leo500
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 185 ยท Topics: 14
Posted by justhewayouare
doesn'T seems like it. I could almost think you're not this typical leo .. but this part starting from You do not need a leo to fell secure...but because of your insecurities ..etc. just show how it's true at least for the ego aspect(I wonder if they even notice that themselves ) this is the main reason why I don't like leo they are very egotistical. Btw gemini are very confident about themselves and I don't need attention , it comes naturally and unlike some gemini I don't being the attention maybe because of my scorpio rising .



I don't agree. You may appear confident but most of you aren't. You are so afraid that others ignore you that you just can not admit that at any cost. Do not forget that i have a huge history with geminis. You may apear to have lots of friends but the reality is very diferent. You are alone, you just simply talk to lots of people but you do not have too many friends, whose we leos usually have. One good friend for you could be the leo, we like you since the moment we meet you but then.. you just can't. The best thing to do to infuriate a gemini is just simply ignore him completely.
Profile picture of justhewayouare
justhewayouare
@justhewayouare
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 58 ยท Topics: 0
Posted by leo500
Posted by justhewayouare
doesn'T seems like it. I could almost think you're not this typical leo .. but this part starting from You do not need a leo to fell secure...but because of your insecurities ..etc. just show how it's true at least for the ego aspect(I wonder if they even notice that themselves ) this is the main reason why I don't like leo they are very egotistical. Btw gemini are very confident about themselves and I don't need attention , it comes naturally and unlike some gemini I don't being the attention maybe because of my scorpio rising .



I don't agree. You may appear confident but most of you aren't. You are so afraid that others ignore you that you just can not admit that at any cost. Do not forget that i have a huge history with geminis. You may apear to have lots of friends but the reality is very diferent. You are alone, you just simply talk to lots of people but you do not have too many friends, whose we leos usually have. One good friend for you could be the leo, we like you since the moment we meet you but then.. you just can't. The best thing to do to infuriate a gemini is just simply ignore him completely.
click to expand




Most gemini ARE confident maybe not an outsize ego like leo but we are confident YOU would like to think we are not .And I have cross a lot of leo in my life.Talking about me having a lot of friends for me no I'm not the typical gemini because of my scorpio rising so I don't have many friends but the ones I have are very close and I know I can trust,are 4 life, the number doesn't count(I also don't mind to be alone because of my independance, however in general gemini doesn't like to be alone they prefer contacts) .Even if there's people drawn to me. I don't get involve with a lot of people because of my ascendant, .On the other hand ,I could say the exact same thing except the crap about being alone .YOU talk to a lot of people but you do not have many friends as it seems to be , .You make it seems to have with your popularity but there's a difference between having alot of real friends and a lot of (FOLLOWERS).
Profile picture of Emilia
Emilia
@Emilia
10 Years

Comments: 0 ยท Posts: 10 ยท Topics: 1
Gems and I (Leo) always gravitate towards each other and get on great- until there is an integrity issue with the Gem. And there always is. I have a Gem sister, gem ex husband (hurt and lied to me like no other, in the most insidious ways before he cheated and left with her) and Gem friens. Ex friends I can have a good laugh with but can't trust as far as I can throw them. I read that Gems are the "Leo Whisperers" somewhere and in my case that has proven true.
Profile picture of Tete
Tete
@Tete
11 Years

Comments: 1 ยท Posts: 248 ยท Topics: 13
Posted by Emilia
Gems and I (Leo) always gravitate towards each other and get on great- until there is an integrity issue with the Gem. And there always is. I have a Gem sister, gem ex husband (hurt and lied to me like no other, in the most insidious ways before he cheated and left with her) and Gem friens. Ex friends I can have a good laugh with but can't trust as far as I can throw them. I read that Gems are the "Leo Whisperers" somewhere and in my case that has proven true.



What you mean when you say "Leo Whisperers"?
Profile picture of Tete
Tete
@Tete
11 Years

Comments: 1 ยท Posts: 248 ยท Topics: 13
Posted by Emilia
Hi Tete, Leo Whisperer as I interpret it = natural, uncanny ability to know exactly what to say and act like to influence Leo's in some way.



Oh I think I get it ๐Ÿ™‚, thanks Emilia.... I'm currently seeing a Leo.... Complicated situation... But I'm crazy about him.... Leos normally attract me, I can spot them from afar.
I would love to think that he sees me that way, I'm not really sure about his feelings for me to be honest and some days I find myself wanting to remove him from my life for good... Then I cool off and decide to give him more time....

I think gems+Leos are a really great pair, I have several Leos in my life and I love them all and get along great with them... I have a much more younger than me Leo female friend and she is so full of life and energy that I love to talk to her on daily basis.... She always amaze me and gems love that ๐Ÿ™‚
Profile picture of WildHHeartGemini
WildHHeartGemini
@WildHHeartGemini
10 Years

Comments: 9 ยท Posts: 143 ยท Topics: 6
I disagree as well. Depends on the individual Gem & Leo you are referring too. What they have been through in their lives, where they are currently and how much they have grown and learned about themselves and life. I am a 31 year old Gem woman and recently came together with a 33 yr old Leo man I've known for years. Well......even though our life circumstances are preventing us from being together I have found in him my soul mate. I know how that sounds but from the moment we came to be around each other there was this force that drove us together no matter how hard we tried to fight it. We laughed SOOOOO much together and could talk openly and honestly about anything & everything. Literally nothing was off the table. We see and understand each other in a way not most people can. We see into each other. We know what the other is thinking and feeling without any words at all. Gems & Leos seem to be on the same level as far as life, energy, curiosity, intellect, and all that good stuff. They both have this natural love for life and people. They are also both fairly care free and like to have fun and when they tap into all that together, it is quite powerful. They also compliment each others strengths & weakness'. I digress as I could go on here. LOL! And like Leolady89 said, INSTANT connection and yes, instinctual.