@LadyLionness
14 Years
I think that for a lot of Gems, sex isn't at the top of the list as far as the important things in a relationship. It never was for me...until I met a Pisces who blew my mind in bed. Do that, and you can bet his priorities will shift.
Ya.. In my experience with a gemi fem.. Talkin bout sex to early with eachother was the deal breaker. I think that gems want a more secure vibe in the beginning so they know they aret wasting their time... a relationship based on sex isn't very secure. He may just be testing u tho to see if ur a slut or not (He may have been cheated on before). He IS a guy tho... Sex IS important to us. Or he's trying to protect his pride. He may not have gotten laid in a while and probably has doubts about his performance. He doesnt want the embarrassment of not being able to get u off. If you like him say somthin like, 'sex isn't the most important thing, but if this goes any further I would like to be intimate with u at some point' and smile real big and giggle a little.
I'm not a stallion until someone unlocks the stall door and offers to show me a new meadow
I have Mars in Gemini and I could live an entire lifetime without sex
well observed lovebucket
i think as a whole they dont have it top of their list. what i noticed with previous gemini men is that sometimes its not personal, like my gem bf tends to cause his own anxieties by feeding his fears. THE ONLY thing we can do is use the ability to calm their brain. help them not think of the stresses of work, life, social pressures, insecurities. they unconsciously expect the partner to do that. whether or not they are sexually adequate with the partner, what is this person feeling? are they enjoying it? im pretty sure some of them have these stresses ADDING on top of all that...life stresses.
Posted by LoveBucket
I have a Gemini sister and she STRESSES that it's the mental connection that does it for her -- STRESSES. So I'm guessing if anyone wants good sex with a Gemini, that there MUST first off be a mental connection where mentally, you two can just vibe. While the shape of your hips and the curve of your breast may entice him, if you can have GOOD conversation with him then he'll *eff your brains out*!! lol
This! But most people don't seem to even understand what a mental connection is. It can't come and go, it has to stick or we move on.
Posted by P-Angel
I have Mars in Gemini and I could live an entire lifetime without sex
You've gotten off to a good start. 4 more years and your journey will be complete.
I like setting the scene throughout the day, gimme something to look forward to...receiving little text messages throughout the day adds to the anticipation of what to expect...(the whole talking during sex for Gems are a little overrated if you ask me..)I don't think full blown conversations are necessary in the bedroom! at least not for me...ONLY!! if the conversation is geared towards what is about to take place..Otherwise!! LETS GET BUSY!!!lol..
GEMINI & LEO CAN WORK!!! B More trusting Of Your Gemini &
Happiness can Last!
@Gemini mind,LOL and what does planets in Mars have to
do with it ha ha ha ha....
I am passionate & very sexual but the mind must be
turned on first before it goes anywhere that is why
aries men do it for me,the mental & the physical
are always both on non stop excitement!
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Are gemini men boring in bed, the reason i ask is because, i met a gemini a few weeks ago, he asks me during a phone conversation, how important is sex in a relationship. Then tells me that he is not a stallion or anything and that sex is of little importance. Well...i am a lioness...so..ummmm, that statement was a bit of a turnoff, however, he seems like a really nice person.