iolanthe683
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Long distance Leo-Pisces: do we have a chance?
(continued from part 1 above) We always have lengthy messages, but sometimes several weeks will pass between his responses and I convince myself he's no longer interested/is over me/I should move on. But then he'll reply out of the blue and drop hints about how much we have in common or how he misses me, etc., or send me photos from his vacations, etc. The very first message he sent, he signed "with love", but I'm not sure if that's a cultural misunderstanding (English is not his mother tongue, he's from a Scandinavian country) or if it was a genuine attempt to reach out.
There's also quite a significant age difference of 10 years between us, which worries me. I don't want to be played for a fool, but as far as I know he's not married and never has been and is looking to settle down.
So.. sorry for the long post, but what are your thoughts? Can anyone enlighten me as to what could be going on/if we have a chance together? I want to make it work long-distance if it's really love, because I know I have feelings, but don't want to assume there's something between us if it's really not there after three dates.
thanks, all. xx
There's also quite a significant age difference of 10 years between us, which worries me. I don't want to be played for a fool, but as far as I know he's not married and never has been and is looking to settle down.
So.. sorry for the long post, but what are your thoughts? Can anyone enlighten me as to what could be going on/if we have a chance together? I want to make it work long-distance if it's really love, because I know I have feelings, but don't want to assume there's something between us if it's really not there after three dates.
thanks, all. xx
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDivaI'm reluctant to do so, for obvious reasons, but I haven't met anyone in my immediate circles/city thus far and sometimes wonder if I ever will. There's not much in common there, so that precedent and the fact that he's a really great guy are the only reason I'd entertain this being LD.
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
Posted by iolanthe683Yeah sure, it definitely stands a chance if both of you are 'in love'. However, both need to make efforts to visit each other occasionally. I've seen it work in many couples 🙂Posted by EvatheDivaI'm reluctant to do so, for obvious reasons, but I haven't met anyone in my immediate circles/city thus far and sometimes wonder if I ever will. There's not much in common there, so that precedent and the fact that he's a really great guy are the only reason I'd entertain this being LD.
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
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Good to keep in mind re: the long distance aspect.
What are your thoughts on the sun sign compatibility? Any insight as to how he truly feels in light of his being a Leo?
What are your thoughts on the sun sign compatibility? Any insight as to how he truly feels in light of his being a Leo?
Posted by EvatheDivaI agree.
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LDR doesn't last long I notice, even if two people have already met and loved eachother and they have to be apart for a long time.
something happens. and if you are not with your loved one, the distance is too unbearable.
I just saw on the news that Lady Gaga and her fiancé, Cancer sun Taylor Kinney couldn't stay together but they are PENDING and maybe will get back together...
it was due to the LDR.
they are two ambitious people and they can't do it, due to the LDR back and forth and hardly seeing eachohter.
so you see....in the long run it will KILL you both.
Posted by lisabethur8Exactly! And she reminded us she and Taylor are human too. She asked we pray for their relationship to work out. I have (prayed for her and Taylor). I almost cried when I heard they broke off their engagement.Posted by EvatheDivaI agree.
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LDR doesn't last long I notice, even if two people have already met and loved eachother and they have to be apart for a long time.
something happens. and if you are not with your loved one, the distance is too unbearable.
I just saw on the news that Lady Gaga and her fiancé, Cancer sun Taylor Kinney couldn't stay together but they are PENDING and maybe will get back together...
it was due to the LDR.
they are two ambitious people and they can't do it, due to the LDR back and forth and hardly seeing eachohter.
so you see....in the long run it will KILL you both.click to expand
Cyber hug! 🤗
Love,
Eva
Posted by MarchPisc3sUnfortunately I haven't tried a long distance OR a Pisces 😕
I'm curious to hear from a Leo's perspective. @wagtail do us the honors.
Just from my personal perspective, Long distance is not really something I would consider.
A Leo needs constant physical playtime.
We thrive on the little things, like doing dishes together, sharing a blanket on the couch watching Netflix.
Holding hands in the car while driving to and from dates.
Spontaneously jumping in the shower with you in the morning 🙂
It seems more feasible to meh if there's a plan to get closer, sooner rather than later.
6 months LDR with a target of moving in together or at least same city is the only way I would consider it a worthwhile investment.
There are usually too many shiny toys right in front of uth I'm afraid
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by lisabethur8Exactly! And she reminded us she and Taylor are human too. She asked we pray for their relationship to work out. I have (prayed for her and Taylor). I almost cried when I heard they broke off their engagement.Posted by EvatheDivaI agree.
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LDR doesn't last long I notice, even if two people have already met and loved eachother and they have to be apart for a long time.
something happens. and if you are not with your loved one, the distance is too unbearable.
I just saw on the news that Lady Gaga and her fiancé, Cancer sun Taylor Kinney couldn't stay together but they are PENDING and maybe will get back together...
it was due to the LDR.
they are two ambitious people and they can't do it, due to the LDR back and forth and hardly seeing eachohter.
so you see....in the long run it will KILL you both.
Cyber hug! 🤗
Love,
Eva
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I was sad too, he sounds really wonderful, but they are two busy ambitious people. One has to make more sacrifices.
edit - weirdly she is pisces dominant and he has leo venus.... (so this couple applies)
so they couldn't do LDR even with five long years, without some sacrifice.
Posted by lisabethur8Her sun is in Aries....she's the tigress in bed and his Leo Venus?! WoW!Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by lisabethur8Exactly! And she reminded us she and Taylor are human too. She asked we pray for their relationship to work out. I have (prayed for her and Taylor). I almost cried when I heard they broke off their engagement.Posted by EvatheDivaI agree.
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LDR doesn't last long I notice, even if two people have already met and loved eachother and they have to be apart for a long time.
something happens. and if you are not with your loved one, the distance is too unbearable.
I just saw on the news that Lady Gaga and her fiancé, Cancer sun Taylor Kinney couldn't stay together but they are PENDING and maybe will get back together...
it was due to the LDR.
they are two ambitious people and they can't do it, due to the LDR back and forth and hardly seeing eachohter.
so you see....in the long run it will KILL you both.
Cyber hug! 🤗
Love,
Eva
I was sad too, he sounds really wonderful, but they are two busy ambitious people. One has to make more sacrifices.
edit - weirdly she is pisces dominant and he has leo venus.... (so this couple applies)
so they couldn't do LDR even with five long years, without some sacrifice.click to expand
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
Posted by EvatheDivamaybe her Cap Mars had a lot to do with it too. And that midheaven pisces. lolPosted by lisabethur8Her sun is in Aries....she's the tigress in bed and his Leo Venus?! WoW!Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by lisabethur8Exactly! And she reminded us she and Taylor are human too. She asked we pray for their relationship to work out. I have (prayed for her and Taylor). I almost cried when I heard they broke off their engagement.Posted by EvatheDivaI agree.
I don't believe in long distance relationships...but to each his own. 🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
LDR doesn't last long I notice, even if two people have already met and loved eachother and they have to be apart for a long time.
something happens. and if you are not with your loved one, the distance is too unbearable.
I just saw on the news that Lady Gaga and her fiancé, Cancer sun Taylor Kinney couldn't stay together but they are PENDING and maybe will get back together...
it was due to the LDR.
they are two ambitious people and they can't do it, due to the LDR back and forth and hardly seeing eachohter.
so you see....in the long run it will KILL you both.
Cyber hug! 🤗
Love,
Eva
I was sad too, he sounds really wonderful, but they are two busy ambitious people. One has to make more sacrifices.
edit - weirdly she is pisces dominant and he has leo venus.... (so this couple applies)
so they couldn't do LDR even with five long years, without some sacrifice.
🤗 cyber hug!
Love,
Eva
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but she always comes off weird and freaky. (11th house sun)
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I didn't expect much to come of our encounter, because I was leaving the country to go back home in three weeks' time. As a Pisces, I also felt like I'd finally begun to blossom and was enjoying being social and playing the field, so to speak, at least at a platonic level. (I find it difficult to take things a step further and pursue a physical or emotional connection unless I really, really like and trust someone.) But I couldn't deny that I felt an unusual connection with this Leo and secretly hoped we'd be reunited.
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The next morning, he messaged me saying he wanted to see me again and asked me to dinner at his place, with champagne and homemade Italian. Once again, I had to decline, as my flight was leaving the following day and I had to pack all my stuff and move out of my flat. We keep in touch on Facebook now, but I feel like I'm getting mixed signals. (see part 2 in comments)