my heart is broken

Am a virgo...me and this leo man were friends for almost a year now...we started it online and we met once in real life as we both live in 2 different countries....it started casually but recently we become closer and he started flirting and complimenting me...we were both flirting to the extend I thought we were together...I even joked about feeling jealous of his female friends and he didn't seem like it bothered him ..he was reacting actually to me pursuing him...thats why I thought it was time to ask him if I was special to him...his answer shocked me because it was too honest and direct...he said: you are a special friend! And that its a very nice and respectful friendship that he is proud of...I cant explain the pain i felt...I didn't expect that this is how he feels and didn't expect it to be so easy for him to say it...I acted cool and told him I have to go...its been 2 days now I haven't logged in facebook or contacted him...he didn't contact me either...now am stuck between:
1- the usual pathetic excuse the one got rejected think of.. that he doesn't want a relationship with anyone not only me because his ex got married 7 months ago and that I think he still loves her even though he assured me he is over her..and that he will change his opinion n think of me with time if I remained his close friend
2- cut contact with him completely because I have lost one whole year of my life waiting for someone who doesn't reciprocate my feelings. .and him being that man who sticks to his decisions will never change his mind or think of me romantically (this is the most difficult option for me but I think I should go for it for my dignity ..and again..maybe he will realize what he lost and re-think if I disappeared!)

I know that this sound too pathetic. .but I was and still am in love with this man....he is my addiction I can't live without

Help my broken heart with a solution please!!

Forgot to mention that right after our conversation he wrote few comments on facebook where he was laughing and joking on his friends topics...I mean..he just broke his friend's heart..at least he should be a little sorry about it! I think he didnt even notice he hurt my feelings...He used to be sarcastic at the beginning of our friendship but his attitude has changed over time and he became more soft and gentle with me...I don't know why he reacted like this....

I do not understand how anyone could think they are in a serious "relationship" with someone online in another country! People wake up! It's so easy to " pretend" your anyone and anything online.. You don't really know someone unroll you have actually spent real time together...your deluding yourself if you think anything else.. Sorry for the blunt words but come on.. Pinch yourself! Get out and meet someone who is available and looking for a real companion! SMH

Ok just to make it clear...he is not a total stranger...he is my relative's friend and I know his sisters...

The man just sees you as a friend, which is nothing wrong with that, at least he isn't playing with your feelings

Now if you haven't asked him for a date or even hanged out with the Leo, how the hell is he suppose to feel about you other than friendship

Your better off trying to get a guy who you can see on a regular basis, cause online never works

TaurusNikki I know ..I appreciate his honesty actually but I just want to know if there is any hope this friendship will turn into something else one day ..my question was should I just continue being his friend or cut contact with him altogether...thx for ur reply...although it is very difficult to just forget about him

HE IS IN ANOTHER COUNTRY... Not county COUNTRY!

So guys u r all telling me that nobody could build a relationship with someone in a different country?? Btw his ex was in a different country too!
U focus on this point and forget about my main question 😢

Posted by TaurusNikki
The man just sees you as a friend, which is nothing wrong with that, at least he isn't playing with your feelings

Now if you haven't asked him for a date or even hanged out with the Leo, how the hell is he suppose to feel about you other than friendship

Your better off trying to get a guy who you can see on a regular basis, cause online never works

exactly this. He laughs at jokes on fb after he broke your heart so he must be a jerk? Doesn't sound too rational lol. I think he was honest with you and you don't know how to take that answer. I think a connection should be instant and after all this time if he still doesn't feel the same then he probably won't :/ sorry. I personally think Leo's and virgos are best as friends anyway. My virgo girl bestfriend drives me mental and my ex...a complete basketcase. I actually began to resent both of them because they're always pushing more out of me, yet I know I have reasons for keeping my distance. If he wants to remain friends and you can handle that, then why not. But if it will just cause pain I say take some time away from him and build yourself back up, friendships can always pick back up.

And to answer your question, long distance can work if one person is willing/open to relocating...eventually and has the funds to travel back and forth. If not, then no it won't work. My ex, the virgo, and I met online and talked for years but a lot happened in that time and we could never be fully faithful or 100% together bc there was no way to get to each other. Years later we eventually got together after he broke up with his ex and we moved in together for a year. I have a new bf...so it's safe to say it did NOT work out lol. But he's still head over heels for me

FierryKitty ...thanks a lot for your answer...yeah I think I should take some time away and think if am going to continue my friendship with him or not...

ok - i tried to cut contact with him altogether...but i miss him so much...i miss him being in my life again...it's less painful to have him as my friend than nothing at all....
is it ok if i contacted him again? he did a couple of days send me a text and i replied ut i was acting cool...and i don't like it....i want to become his close friend again 😢 do u think he will see it as a desperate move?

He's a Leo, they have very large Egos and shine the brightest when showered in attention, really sounds like he's using you to stroke his ego. Leo's do reciprocate just enough to keep you interested but will always place you off stage...because its their stage and they want to be surrounded by admirers.

I am a Leo and was married to a Leo for 20 years, explosive relationship, he was the biggest flirt, thankfully I'm a very secure woman and do not have a jealous bone...male Leo's are extremely jealous, they roar when they see another animal around one of their admirers.
He could not stay faithful..because me as a Leo couldn't keep up with the constant praise and adoration he required as it wasn't being reciprocated...he was already married to me and had me as a docile kitty for home.
Leo's often mate for life because of that, however if you are a jealous person and show that...they will disrespect you. they like to know you are jealous but only for ego purposes.

I have watched my husband tear apart plenty of hearts, the charm a Leo possesses when they are being showered does have the power to reel the strongest woman in.

They have the tenancy to reel in more when hurt, but turn to another closer individual when they shine a brighter light. If he's just ending s relationship you better believe he's still looking at his mate.
My husband and I rebounded with each other several times before I decided to move across country, and even then he poured on the charm...until he met someone closer, now he won't even talk to me about the kids lol...yes Leo men do mate for life...even if divorced they watch their first mate.
Good luck with him, I suggest a different approach. Walk away!

Posted by willhe
Am a virgo...me and this leo man were friends for almost a year now...we started it online and we met once in real life as we both live in 2 different countries....it started casually but recently we become closer and he started flirting and complimenting me...we were both flirting to the extend I thought we were together...I even joked about feeling jealous of his female friends and he didn't seem like it bothered him ..he was reacting actually to me pursuing him...thats why I thought it was time to ask him if I was special to him...his answer shocked me because it was too honest and direct...he said: you are a special friend! And that its a very nice and respectful friendship that he is proud of...I cant explain the pain i felt...

Is that ONE statement what did it for you?

Or was there more that was said?

Also.. is English his first language?

Posted by lessa
He's a Leo, they have very large Egos and shine the brightest when showered in attention, really sounds like he's using you to stroke his ego. Leo's do reciprocate just enough to keep you interested but will always place you off stage...because its their stage and they want to be surrounded by admirers.

I am a Leo and was married to a Leo for 20 years, explosive relationship, he was the biggest flirt, thankfully I'm a very secure woman and do not have a jealous bone...male Leo's are extremely jealous, they roar when they see another animal around one of their admirers.
He could not stay faithful..because me as a Leo couldn't keep up with the constant praise and adoration he required as it wasn't being reciprocated...he was already married to me and had me as a docile kitty for home.
Leo's often mate for life because of that, however if you are a jealous person and show that...they will disrespect you. they like to know you are jealous but only for ego purposes.

I have watched my husband tear apart plenty of hearts, the charm a Leo possesses when they are being showered does have the power to reel the strongest woman in.

They have the tenancy to reel in more when hurt, but turn to another closer individual when they shine a brighter light. If he's just ending s relationship you better believe he's still looking at his mate.
My husband and I rebounded with each other several times before I decided to move across country, and even then he poured on the charm...until he met someone closer, now he won't even talk to me about the kids lol...yes Leo men do mate for life...even if divorced they watch their first mate.
Good luck with him, I suggest a different approach. Walk away!

I feel really bad....i think it's too late for me to walk away or move on...do you see my last post? i am manipulating myself and my logic that says i should move on and am asking ppl here if i can still stay his friend ..i know i am in trouble now because i can't live without him..all what u mentioned above is correct...please help!

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by willhe
Am a virgo...me and this leo man were friends for almost a year now...we started it online and we met once in real life as we both live in 2 different countries....it started casually but recently we become closer and he started flirting and complimenting me...we were both flirting to the extend I thought we were together...I even joked about feeling jealous of his female friends and he didn't seem like it bothered him ..he was reacting actually to me pursuing him...thats why I thought it was time to ask him if I was special to him...his answer shocked me because it was too honest and direct...he said: you are a special friend! And that its a very nice and respectful friendship that he is proud of...I cant explain the pain i felt...

Is that ONE statement what did it for you?

Or was there more that was said?

Also.. is English his first language?

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English is not his first language...and it's not mine neither

yes this is it....only this short statement ...but it was very obvious that he knows am in love and trying to set things clear to me ...it was a very short conversation that started when we were exchanging our photos ( he thinks am too beautiful...and they are normal photos by the way)

it started when i asked him if there are any other female photos on his mobile, he said: well your photo is one of the very few on my mobile,, i don't save girls' photos but i like yours a lot..
then i tried to understand where i stand in his life by telling him i thought i was special ...only few means there r others....then he joked around and said well yeah
and when i asked him again am i special? he said what he said....

don't you think it's enough to get the idea that am just a friend to him?

Hi,U need to know 2 things about Leo

1. Leos know what they want & they always want the same at that instant

2. Leos will always state d truth about their relationship status - they wont play with the gal

Since he has directly told u that he sees u as a special friend - then that will be his honest ans. It will be very difficult to turn this over as he seems to be very clear.

Way forward - 2 Options
1. Ignore him & find a new mate
2. Be Friends with him - he will continue to care for u as a friend, it will be solely upto u to convince him that u r more than special

Cheers
Leo

Posted by lionknight
Hi,U need to know 2 things about Leo

1. Leos know what they want & they always want the same at that instant

2. Leos will always state d truth about their relationship status - they wont play with the gal

Since he has directly told u that he sees u as a special friend - then that will be his honest ans. It will be very difficult to turn this over as he seems to be very clear.

Way forward - 2 Options
1. Ignore him & find a new mate
2. Be Friends with him - he will continue to care for u as a friend, it will be solely upto u to convince him that u r more than special

Cheers
Leo

Thx for ur answer...
Do u think its worth a try? Does a leo ever change his mind?
I have decided to never contact him first...but when I did..he started commenting and liking my Facebook posts more than before....do u think I should completely cut him off? Like never reply when he texts for example? Will this ever have a positive result or I am just wasting my time and should truly move on?

hi ...i have terrible updates on this>>
so me and this leo man i know got really really close (as friends) and we met each other few weeks ago..he seemed happy we finally got to meet in real life and he still have other plans to visit me again and meet more...he is excited that he discovered my personality more and more and sees me as a great person to know..
things were great and i thought he started to think of me as more than just a friend...he made it clear that he enjoys my company in many occasion..until he suddenly told me he just started a relationship with someone..
although it was expected...since he made it clear that we are just friends...but i was surprised that at the same time he got into the new relationship he was being so close to me..

i acted cool and told him that she is such a lucky girl and that's it..
now i found myself not able to contact him or initiate anything with him...i just don't think it was appropriate to spin over a guy with a girlfriend...
he seemed like he doesn't like it and kept contacting me..
i found myself not able to cut him off and i continued to talk as just friends...he continued to flirt with me but i always stop him reminding him jokingly that he now has a gf ...he jokingly said they are not yet engaged ...and i asked him how the relationship was going..he said it's ok but the still need to meet each other and get to know each other more (it's a long-distance relationship)

i don't know why i still have these strong feelings...i still think i shouldn't cut him off and remain friends just in case ...who knows..they break up..i know that sounds desperate and i don't want to be the other woman...but seriously i tried cutting contact before and it was more painful than staying just friends...

i want to keep trying..i deeply love this man...i don't want to give up...i have nothing i can do...but i know that am not strong enough to not wait for him until he announce his official commitment...only then i can go away...otherwise i can't...i really really can't

he has some plans to visit me in my country soon....i don't know if i should keep on meeting him one-to-one

advice please....but don't ask me to put myself in the gf's shoes..sorry i don't know her...i don't care...i love him as selfish as this sounds...

and now that he told me about the gf...he seems more attracted to me...and ignores my questions about the gf for some weird reason...he is giving me more attention than before...i just d

btw he is a grown up man..so the relationship might lead to engagement and marriage soon....
i hate myself for thinking they might break up...but plz try to understand my situation...its been a long time i can't give any chance to anyone to enter my life..am obsessed with him.....

also, he is supposed to travel to our hometown by end of this month for a religious occasion , and so do i...i didn't mention to him that i might be going too...because i don't want him to think am chasing him...it's obvious that he is going to get to know his girl more. he didn't mention it but i know she lives there ...yet..still he is trying to convince me to go, and he would love to see me there...and that he is staying for a good amount i can come at any time..
why would he be interested in seeing me while his holiday should all be dedicated to get to know her?

he is also paying a lot of attention to how i deal with him...for example if i act silent and never like or comment on anything he posts on facebook (we usually comment on each others posts alot)..he does the same..
once i act cool about it and like for example one post he will go liking and commenting on most of my stuff

Posted by Jynja
He is a Leo. He is a social snimal. He probably has 5 more friends like you in the wings.

Don't become his go to. Tell him because you love him and want him to be happy, you can't keep talking to him. Then go find someone a bit more real and physically present.

Yes...I have some doubts about that too..
But do they tend to tell all of them how special they are to them...flirt all the time with them and compliment their looks and ask many girls for their photos coz they think their are so beautiful?
If all leos do that..then this is not being social animal it's being a player!

That explains some of it...
I will..thank u very much...

Posted by willhe

i don't know why i still have these strong feelings...

i still think i shouldn't cut him off and remain friends just in case ...

who knows..they break up..

i know that sounds desperate and i don't want to be the other woman...

but seriously i tried cutting contact before and it was more painful than staying just friends...

i want to keep trying..i deeply love this man...i don't want to give up...i have nothing i can do...

but i know that am not strong enough to not wait for him until he announce his official commitment...

only then i can go away...

otherwise i can't...

i really really can't

he has some plans to visit me in my country soon....i don't know if i should keep on meeting him one-to-one

advice please....

You don't want advice.

Posted by willhe
but don't ask me to put myself in the gf's shoes..

sorry i don't know her...

i don't care...

i love him as selfish as this sounds...

and now that he told me about the gf...

he seems more attracted to me...

and ignores my questions about the gf for some weird reason...

he is giving me more attention than before...

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You're trying to control what people say, and exactly "how" they can advise you.

I regret my prior response to you-- I should have read further than the OP.


You're delusional-- and I don't mean that in a malicious way; it's just the truth.

You're not only obsessed with him, but yourself; that isn't love.

It isn't even close to love.


I hope you can extricate yourself from this man, and I hope he steers clear of you.

This is a major disaster waiting to happen for you both.

Shame on him for leading you on this way, and shame on you for your utter disregard for anyone but yourself.

I also had a somewhat similar situation happen with a Leo male. I can empathize and mine has seemingly moved on.......and we are friends. At first you ARE going to miss him like crazy! Do not make my same mistake- I then started chasing him trying to get back what I thought we had and lost. It didn't work....but what did work... is...give him space and focus more on yourself... If he is meant for you and respects, appreciates and even admires you...he will come around again... BUT you will need to meet again in a sense as new people... It is not that he does not love you or did not love you...it is just that his ego has him loving himself more right now in my opinion...let him miss you so keep in contact but only if he initiates for awhile....let time tell what will be. Good luck!

Thanks for all the responses...
Just a small note for you all...I don't chase him...I never did and until this moment I keep HIM initiate all the time..I do nothing at all but reply and react...when he does disappear for a while I do the same...I don't remember I initiated that we meet up or even initiating texts...its not even my personality ..I wish I could though
If I was the one chasing him then I wouldn't be so confused on how to react after I knew he is in a relationship
Montgomery...thanks..u can ignore replying again if u regret giving me any advises before.

that assh* $ (% leos suck such ass

I am a leo cusp plus i was married to a leo for four year plus i have had a few leo boyfriends in the past. From what i have noticed Leo men know pretty quickly, if as what one woman said on this post "if they want to make you their "little kitten at home". If he hasn't talked to you about a relationship by now i don't think that he will in the future. I noticed that you have not told him about how you feel. May i ask why? Also when you are married to one, that all you really are is their "little kitten at home". They are also estremely jealous, not in a good way either.

canerleo101 I haven't told him about how I feel because I can't handle rejection
Specially now that he has a gf chances that he will reject me are great 😢

He has already rejected you. He has a GIRLFRIEND.

You're in denial. Eventually you will be hurt enough that the denial bubble will pop.

Posted by willhe
canerleo101 I haven't told him about how I feel because I can't handle rejection
Specially now that he has a gf chances that he will reject me are great 😢

I have been in that situation before where i didn't tell someone how i felt because i couldn't handle the possible rejection. So if you feel this way then you are doing the right thing by not telling him how you feel. I don't think that you should continue to talk to him. Or at least give yourself a break from him and maybe come back later. You never know a year from now your emotions may not be this strong and you may be able to contact him and in a jokingly way say something like "you know what, when we use to talk to each other last year, i had a lot of feelings for you but i never really wanted to tell you. You never know what his reaction would be. But if you take this route you will be risking the progress that you have already achieved by distancing yourself. Meaning that you will be backtracking.

Posted by BigGirlPanties
He has already rejected you. He has a GIRLFRIEND.

You're in denial. Eventually you will be hurt enough that the denial bubble will pop.

Ok .. i think i needed this response...
you are right...i am in denial...i need to get out of it...
now can i have some advices from you guys....and i mean real advices...like what to do to get myself out of this denial before it's too late? shall i end any contact with him? shall i be just friends and try to control my feelings...what do i have to do because am seriously stuck and i can smell a bad thing happening soon..

please...for those who will come and tell me i need no advices or who will attack....
i DO need sincere advices on how to get myself out of this situation because i don't like how i feel now....

Posted by seraph

Posted by willhe
and we met once in real life

This meeting would have determined the way forward. How did it go?

I assume that you thought it went well. But re-examine it in the clear light of some of the excellent responses in this thread.

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It went well because he made an effort to come from a different city which is 5 hours away from my city when we both were in the same country last month to meet me again..
And he again asked me if we can meet by the end of this month..
And he is coming to my country in Sept to meet me again..he lives in europe I live in the middle east but we managed to meet twice so far..and he is doing an effort and planning for meeting me twice again..

Its a fact that he likes me as a friend because he enjoys my company and feels excited to see me...the other fact is that he doesn't think of me in any other way..and seems like he will never do..thats what I got from thr responses here..
What do u suggest that I do in this case? We r good friends but am thinking to end this friendhsip without giving explanations

Posted by willhe
Its a fact that he likes me as a friend because he enjoys my company and feels excited to see me...

the other fact is that he doesn't think of me in any other way..

and seems like he will never do..thats what I got from thr responses here..

Don't blame strangers for telling you it won't work-- we've come to these conclusions based on your words.

You say you are obsessed, manipulating yourself-- and terrified to tell him how you feel (new information!).

AND

You feel very, very sorry for yourself.


Be fearless one way or another, for God's sake.

Posted by willhe
We r good friends but am thinking to end this friendhsip

without giving explanations

You've been told numerous times that this is a good idea.

Should it be packaged differently, so it will be more palatable for you?

Or do you just enjoy the attention-- the endless consumption of our energy, where you pick and choose what you want to hear.

Posted by willhe
What do u suggest that I do in this case?

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—The solution to self-pity is found in the labor of selfless giving to others.??

- T.F. Hodge


Maybe they have organizations where you live that will let you volunteer your time and effort to those who really need your help.

Or maybe there are people in your own neighborhood, who need assistance.

Helping other people (esp those less fortunate than yourself) is the BEST way to get out of yourself

and to stop feeding your obsession.


It can change your life.

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by willhe
Its a fact that he likes me as a friend because he enjoys my company and feels excited to see me...

the other fact is that he doesn't think of me in any other way..

and seems like he will never do..thats what I got from thr responses here..

Don't blame strangers for telling you it won't work-- we've come to these conclusions based on your words.

You say you are obsessed, manipulating yourself-- and terrified to tell him how you feel (new information!).

AND

You feel very, very sorry for yourself.


Be fearless one way or another, for God's sake.

Posted by willhe
We r good friends but am thinking to end this friendhsip

without giving explanations

You've been told numerous times that this is a good idea.

Should it be packaged differently, so it will be more palatable for you?

Or do you just enjoy the attention-- the endless consumption of our energy, where you pick and choose what you want to hear.

Posted by willhe
What do u suggest that I do in this case?

—The solution to self-pity is found in the labor of selfless giving to others.??

- T.F. Hodge


Maybe they have organizations where you live that will let you volunteer your time and effort to those who really need your help.

Or maybe there are people in your own neighborhood, who need assistance.

Helping other people (esp those less fortunate than yourself) is the BEST way to get out of yourself

and to stop feeding your obsession.


It can change your life.

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My dear...please tey to read my words carefully before u come running to criticize...I don't really understand this aggressive way ..
One point you don't understand is that by saying " seems like he will never do that's what I get from ppl's responses" was not to blame anyone. ..i meant that ppl here made me realize that he will never feel the same way...so thanks to them
Chill please...it doesn't need all that analyzing and attacking from ur side...I already said if u r really irritated by this post u can just ignore it 🙂

With regards your advise Montgomery ...thanks..much appreciated

Posted by seraph

Posted by willhe

Posted by seraph

Posted by willhe
and we met once in real life

This meeting would have determined the way forward. How did it go?

I assume that you thought it went well. But re-examine it in the clear light of some of the excellent responses in this thread.

It went well because he made an effort to come from a different city which is 5 hours away from my city when we both were in the same country last month to meet me again..
And he again asked me if we can meet by the end of this month..
And he is coming to my country in Sept to meet me again..he lives in europe I live in the middle east but we managed to meet twice so far..and he is doing an effort and planning for meeting me twice again..

Its a fact that he likes me as a friend because he enjoys my company and feels excited to see me...the other fact is that he doesn't think of me in any other way..and seems like he will never do..thats what I got from thr responses here..
What do u suggest that I do in this case? We r good friends but am thinking to end this friendhsip without giving explanations

You got exactly what you needed to get from the responses.

It's all been laid out so well for you, and you're now very clear about your position in his life.

Do what you can be at peace with. Go right ahead and be friends. But make sure you adjust your expectations accordingly. If this situation is something you can't handle, then simply keep your distance. You don't even need to "end" the friendship necessarily, just put a limiter on the frequency of communication. Increase the level of "casual".

But if you can't handle that, then end it. This fallout form this decision might not be easy to handle for a time, so be good to yourself.

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Will do ...thanks a million ... wish me luck please

Posted by BrightLights
Are his parents pushing him into this arranged marriage or what?
Sometimes, best relationships are born from friendships. I didn't used to think so, but the older I am, the more I'm convinced.

Do you think you can be open enough to him and confess your feelings before it's too late? Not sure it will solve anything, but maybe if he knows, he might consider it in different light.

I don't really know...since he told me about his relationship he doesn't seem like he likes me to open this subject so I respected that this is his personal life and I stopped asking him about her..

I actually thought about confessing before BUT...I think there is no need as I already asked him before if I am special to him and his answer was clear that I am a special "friend" to him..so I took this as a sign of rejection ..
I am a coward when it comes to opening up..I admit..and him starting a new relationship made me realize I shouldn't say a word ....

Posted by willhe
please...for those who will come and tell me i need no advices or who will attack....
i DO need sincere advices on how to get myself out of this situation because i don't like how i feel now....

I never said you didn't need advice.

I said you didn't want it.

Big difference.



And no more ugly private messages-- next time, I'll respond directly in this thread.

Montgomery....your direct responses here are not welcomed too...at least to the thread owner (which is btw me) care about ur own issues...u seem like u have a lot more issues than me to care about and trying to play the psychiatric role in this thread. .

Otherwise can continue do what u r doing and talk to urself..I couldn't care less...I think u need hrlp more than me 🙂

Okayyy...just found the "block" feature...it's awesome 🙂
Now I have only one issue to worry about. ..sorry people for the headache caused

Posted by willhe
Montgomery....your direct responses here are not welcomed too...at least to the thread owner (which is btw me) care about ur own issues...u seem like u have a lot more issues than me to care about and trying to play the psychiatric role in this thread. .

Otherwise can continue do what u r doing and talk to urself..I couldn't care less...I think u need hrlp more than me 🙂

I doubt that.

You've been told the same thing for four pages, now--

And four pages later, you're still asking if you should break contact.

You'll still be asking the same thing on page 10.

It's childish.

Hey ppl...I stopped answering his calls and texts since few days now...to be honest it doesn't seem like it's that hard..I feel slightly better...focusing more on my job, friends and family..and he is wondering what happened ..I didn't feel like explaining anything now..so I just ignored the texts all together...
But he sent me a message today saying that there is something he needs to talk to me about..things are not going well between him and his gf.. and that he needs me terribly ..
I replied and said we can talk tomorrow coz today I was busy..
Many things came to my mind... he might be playing with my feelings coz he felt that i acted distant and he just doesnt like it...or he maybe he feels terrible for real and needs me to provide him with some advice regarding his relationship...anyways let's see what will happen ..

*Montgomery i want to do u a favor..don't waste ur time typing ur long articles here..the blocked feature makes ur posts invisible to me.. so dont make a fool from urself coz i cant see them 😉 sorry if my story reminded u with a drama in ur life ..probably a bf who was stolen from u or something ..cheers 😉*

Posted by willhe
*Montgomery i want to do u a favor..don't waste ur time typing ur long articles here..the blocked feature makes ur posts invisible to me.. so dont make a fool from urself coz i cant see them 😉 sorry if my story reminded u with a drama in ur life ..probably a bf who was stolen from u or something ..cheers 😉*

And still, you reply.

😆

You haven't "stolen" him, yet.

And here's what you don't understand: If you can take this guy for yourself (provided he isn't married) ... good.

There's no crime in that, imo-- he's fair game.

The point is that YOU think it's wrong-- and you don't care because you're (as you've already stated)

obsessed and totally willing to compromise your own sense of morality.

Posted by willhe
...or he maybe he feels terrible for real and needs me to provide him with some advice regarding his relationship...

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Ugh.

You're so fake.



And I know you read them when you log out, hon. 😉