Not sure how to go Ahead with my Leo Boyfriend

Hi,
My Boyfriend is a Leo and I am Saggi..We are in a relationship for a year now.So far we had small small fights and we patched up.He always wants the things to be his way and I let him do as I love him a lot and sometimes he is correct also.He is a nice person ans loves me a lot.He has his own set of needs that he wants in his partner and the partner should be good in almost everything.I have so far proved that I ma good in everything as I am a working girl having a good salary and along with that I am understanding, cool minded, blends with his family well, cook well, sing well and understand him.I am doing whatever he is saying and that's y he almost decided to marry me, He loves me a lot and takes care of my every need.the chemistry between us when we are happy is magical in every way.But this time he has become too much angry and he is asking me to stay away because i mistakenly did what he asked me not to do.his family knows about our relationship, but rite now he does not want to make it official in from of his office colleague or any common friends.Two days before the fight he asked me not to take his name in front of everybody for any reason, so that people should not get idea about us.Last week i met his office colleague and her husband while i was waiting for him and she accidentally asked about him and i said that I am waiting for him as we have some work.She knows that we are good friends as he introduced me to his office colleagues as a very good friend of his.Once they left he came n when i told him that she was asking about u and i took ur name, he got furious and asked me to go away.That night i apologized to him n he said if u do something like this again, results would be bad.we talked and i slept.The very next morning he pinged me and started saying that i should stay away from his and should not ever go to his home and many other things which are very very hurtful.Still i went ahead and asked to sort it out as his mother asked me to.Now the status is he is completely aloof and doesn't contact me at all (its been 6 days).Just pinged me once for some paper of his which i had and asked me the details and said thanks.I didn;t ping him after that as he asked me not to ping him and stay away form him.My head is asking me not to miss him or think about him as i have my self respect and so far i haven't, but my heart is constantly missing him and looking at few things reminds me.I ma in a miserable condition.Please suggest how to deal.😢

you please him way too much...

So What do u think i should deal with him..n do u think he will come back?

Posted by Noname22
So What do u think i should deal with him..n do u think he will come back?

My bf is a Leo.. but ive never been in such situation.. My reaction would have been different from you anyway.. I would have gotten mad at him and to be honest, the thing about not telling any if his colleagues or friends would seem suspicious to me.

I hope Leos share their word here.. cause ai wonder why ur bf is doing this!

I am just not able to take the insult but at the same time i want him to come back and realize my value...
He has done a lot for me when i needed him and that's why i am not able to forget him...he and his family treated me like a family member.His mother almost accepted me as their daughter in law.And i got so much used to of the lifestyle of staying with him all the time and that was simply magical..and dream come true for me.

Not sure how to deal with him...as i know he loves me its just that he is thinking i have done something stupid and i will continue to do so and he cannot risk his image and thus he is blaming me of not using my brains.

But the way he made the hype of this matter is really eating up my mind and heart...and I m getting the feeling from inside that if he is always so judgmental about me and easily comes to the conclusion of not finding me as the right partner then what's the point? 😢

Let him go, Sweets.

You sound like a person with far more value than he can recognize. Hold your head up and leave his trifling ass like yesterday.

Let me tell you why,

He sees you'll outshine him so he is acting the ass. Poop him out, get a hair cut, buy new sunglasses, a pair of hot pants, platform pumps and wiggle your Saggi ass past his stupid moronic ass.

You deserve way better than this user.

Posted by Noname22
I am just not able to take the insult but at the same time i want him to come back and realize my value...
He has done a lot for me when i needed him and that's why i am not able to forget him...he and his family treated me like a family member.His mother almost accepted me as their daughter in law.And i got so much used to of the lifestyle of staying with him all the time and that was simply magical..and dream come true for me.

Not sure how to deal with him...as i know he loves me its just that he is thinking i have done something stupid and i will continue to do so and he cannot risk his image and thus he is blaming me of not using my brains.

But the way he made the hype of this matter is really eating up my mind and heart...and I m getting the feeling from inside that if he is always so judgmental about me and easily comes to the conclusion of not finding me as the right partner then what's the point? 😢

Indeed.

This man has no humanity or compassion. Leave him and apologize if his mom asks what's up. She'll be fine, eventually.

Hey, thanks for the advice...really helped...I am now in the process of creating my own world...he has done this to me previously also...he said when he is very upset on something he needs time to settle it and hence i should not disturb him....again we patched up and things were back to normal.

This time again this is happening....i know from deep inside he is not the right choice....but i get so helpless in front of him...i have to pull myself back and try to forget him as much as i can...Will give it some time and will not expect anything in return.

Posted by Noname22
Hey, thanks for the advice...really helped...I am now in the process of creating my own world...he has done this to me previously also...he said when he is very upset on something he needs time to settle it and hence i should not disturb him....again we patched up and things were back to normal.

This time again this is happening....i know from deep inside he is not the right choice....but i get so helpless in front of him...i have to pull myself back and try to forget him as much as i can...Will give it some time and will not expect anything in return.

You are strong enough for this, and your decision will make you even a stronger person. Remember you're doing this for your own good .. you'll realize you're much happier in a short time that you defended yourself and stood up for yourself

Posted by Noname22
Hey, thanks for the advice...really helped...I am now in the process of creating my own world...he has done this to me previously also...he said when he is very upset on something he needs time to settle it and hence i should not disturb him....again we patched up and things were back to normal.

This time again this is happening....i know from deep inside he is not the right choice....but i get so helpless in front of him...i have to pull myself back and try to forget him as much as i can...Will give it some time and will not expect anything in return.

Ohh... I had one of these.

What 037 said about his fear that you'll outshine him?

That's for real-- it's not funny and it comes from a terrible place.

He should be grateful you even give him the time of day... you'll

feel so much better when he is out of your world.

Posted by MiZLeo
He sounds like a controlling abusive jerk who is probably cheating on you and that's why he doesn't want you talking about him.

This is also a possibility.

No one should date anyone who wants to keep them a secret.

They're hiding something rotten.

I've never heard of a Leo Sun, Moon, or Mars man not wanting to show his woman off. Seriously. I'm not even the type of woman to tell another woman bad things. I always try to find the positive side of situations. Leo men LOVE showing their women off. Like my female cancer friend would say, "Something is not right in the milk". I'm not saying that there's something wrong with you. I'm saying that this coming from a Leo man is extremely abnormal. I'm so sorry that you are going through this and I know that Leo men can be controlling as well as MEAN. My ex-hubby went down the mean path. I mean...nasty in a way that I would have NEVER imagined or perceived about him. I don't even know what brought it out, but I left his ass after three months of marriage. Now he's a curmudgeon. He got with another woman a few years later and she WOULDN'T stop partying and going out for him. He ended up taking care of her kids until he couldn't take it anymore. That's when he came looking for me to apologize with Boo Hoo tears...I mean crying and begging for my forgiveness. Now, he's a good friend to me...one of the best friends that I have. I strongly believe that you have to be willing to leave a person and they have to know that in order for them to be on their good behavior. I'm not saying that you threaten to leave, but I truly don't think that anyone should ever feel like their partner will never leave them under any circumstances.

Ever since I made it clear to men that I will walk out of a marriage, relationship, etc no matter how long it lasts if it ever goes south and can't be fixed...guys might not feel like I'm a commitment oriented person, but they do treat me with respect. I'd rather be treated with respect in a short term dating/relationship than to be in it forever and mistreated. I don't think it has to be one or the other. I do believe that you can be in a long term relationship and treated right. It's a numbers game. You just keep throwing away the layers until you get to the good part. There are SO many men in the world...that's a lot of layers to go through. LMBO!!! Not to make light of your situation...but I'm just keeping it real. 1000.