This Leo guy smh

Okay hello lets say my name is mary and I am a gemini woman and his name is BOb Leo guy. We started talking about three months ago. The first month was very nice he was sweet flirty and it was touchy. The second month I got to know him alot more his personality and everything. One minute he acts like he likes me the next its cold shoulder. And this is every day daily. lol Like I like to wrestle and play fight and talk trash and he plays back then he be like stop leave me alone. I get annoyed so I walk off a hour or two later here he comes arpund messing with me. But I thought he said he wants me to leave him alone. He throws insults I throw them bsck. Idk he says things that makes me think he doesnt like me or I annoy him but then he constantly messes with me. He hasnt asked me out he just acts like he doesnt care to do so with words. But his actions are so much more louder. This is the third month and our play fighting has gotten a little rough but still flirty and playful. Its mind games now. Im lost. Some leo guy or leo person give me some insight please!!! OMG!! I really like this guy sooooo much. But man I dont want to put up with this. Games are fun but I really want him. UGH! If i dont get your responce you can email me also Jessicaholmes09@yahoo.com

The first line of your e-mail says "let's say my name is Mary" as if it is an alias. The last of your e-mail has an e-mail address with the name of Jessica, your real name I suppose...... Just thought I would point that out.


It would help if you stated the age of your Leo. This doesn't sound like sign specific behavior but rather young or shy behavior.

Yeah I just didnt want to put his name on here. Buth we are both in our twenties staying at a college campus together

lol advice possibly??

Advice....Lions in their natural environment are hunters. They like to hunt, chase, prowl, conquer and kill. He is only doing what feels natural to him. He probably likes the the thrill of the chase. Keep playing hard to get or whatever game you are playing. It seems to be working. The less you care the more he will.

Disclaimer; Intimate relations aka the horizontal mamba, now or in the future negates any advice given. Proceed with caution.

The minute you sleep with him he will begin to act very strange and then he will eventually get bored and leave you. I am sorry in advance but you have been warned. If you don't believe me look through the posts here. It is really all about the chase.

I'm not saying that Leo men don't committ, obviously they do. However Leo men, and women for that matter need to feel they have something special that other people do not. You know something almost extraordinary. Be different.

That's my advice, it is also my opinion. I have no scientific knowledge or medical degree to back up anything I am saying just years of experience at being a Leo.

Good Luck.

lol....this thread reminds me of a much younger leo i worked with. his flirting style was to dead leg me whenever he walked past or scuff my hair up...kick the leg of my chair when i was tilted...throwing waterbombs at me on the ground floor from the 5th floor (which is a bit ouchy from the height!!)...letting doors go in my face...flicking my newspaper when i'm trying to read it...the list is ENDLESS lol!!

it just reminded me of infant school. when a boy likes a girl so he plays rougher with her than anyone else.

however...i'm NOT in my 20s and it was completely exasperating!!

If a person touched my hair.. their mandible would be biting the pavement.

Posted by Jynja
What I'm not getting is how astrologers can swear by whatever that Leos and Geminis are uber super no-troubles-ever compatible with Geminis. All the Geminis I know frustrate me to high heavens. I can take doses of Libras as friends, it's a TOTAL no-no for Aquas - NE to the VER! and when an Aries and I meet, best to just let them burn their way through as fast as they can so I can step back on my path and be on my way. This whole compatibility thing baffles me.

Its not Astrology signs that determine if your compatible with someone, its their exact birth chart love. And plus wait to see if you like the person (like hang out with them a handful of times) BEFORE finding out what their sign is...because we can mentally block ourselves from being open minded into liking someone, if we know they are a certain sign that we normally don't go for.

And to the gem, same thing...just because he is a leo dont mean he is compatible for you. Its all in the birth chart+how he was raised+past experience+ beliefs= compatibility! 🙂

Play fighting, hair pulling, push/pull, intense make-out sessions, cuddling, hot and cold behavior will have your ass in love, a lot of women fall for men who mimic this kind of behavior, it's widely talked about in the PUA community as to why this behavior is so effective.

I can't be sure what this guy is doing but whatever it is, it's working, it's widely taught that it's better to be this way then to "ask" for sex because "asking" for sex is equivalent to begging and will almost always be met with a no (resistance), bargaining or a struggle were he's the one begging and she's the one wielding all power to reject or accept, to avoid this whole scenario men have learned what our (women's) natural attraction triggers are, how to ramp up attraction to make YOU WANT HIM thus he doesn't have to ask for anything, it all comes to him quite easily.

Younger men are really into this PUA stuff so be aware that he could be jacking with your emotions, I suggest you back off for a little while, be observant.

Or this could be part of his mating ritual, he's naturally bipolar acting...Either way it's not all that great for you.

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Posted by Jynja
What I'm not getting is how astrologers can swear by whatever that Leos and Geminis are uber super no-troubles-ever compatible with Geminis. All the Geminis I know frustrate me to high heavens. I can take doses of Libras as friends, it's a TOTAL no-no for Aquas - NE to the VER! and when an Aries and I meet, best to just let them burn their way through as fast as they can so I can step back on my path and be on my way. This whole compatibility thing baffles me.

It is not astrology signs that determine if you're compatible with someone, it's their exact birth chart, Love. And plus wait to see if you like the person (like hang out with them a handful of times) BEFORE finding out what their sign is...because we can mentally block ourselves from being open minded into liking someone, if we know they are a certain sign that we normally don't go for.

And to the gem, same thing...just because he is a leo dont mean he is compatible for you. Its all in the birth chart+how he was raised+past experience+ beliefs= compatibility! 🙂

Ehm, what does that even mean? Must be Gem... Nope, must be exact birth chart, Love.

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If you study into astrology everyone has a different birth chart. As in the only way you and another person of your sign can be exactly identical as a person, is if they were born at the same time, same day, same place, same year....So just because a few people you have met that have the same sign all annoy you, not EVERYONE of that sign will. Love. lol

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Posted by Jynja
What I'm not getting is how astrologers can swear by whatever that Leos and Geminis are uber super no-troubles-ever compatible with Geminis. All the Geminis I know frustrate me to high heavens. I can take doses of Libras as friends, it's a TOTAL no-no for Aquas - NE to the VER! and when an Aries and I meet, best to just let them burn their way through as fast as they can so I can step back on my path and be on my way. This whole compatibility thing baffles me.

It is not astrology signs that determine if you're compatible with someone, it's their exact birth chart, Love. And plus wait to see if you like the person (like hang out with them a handful of times) BEFORE finding out what their sign is...because we can mentally block ourselves from being open minded into liking someone, if we know they are a certain sign that we normally don't go for.

And to the gem, same thing...just because he is a leo dont mean he is compatible for you. Its all in the birth chart+how he was raised+past experience+ beliefs= compatibility! 🙂

Ehm, what does that even mean? Must be Gem... Nope, must be exact birth chart, Love.

If you study into astrology everyone has a different birth chart. As in the only way you and another person of your sign can be exactly identical as a person, is if they were born at the same time, same day, same place, same year....So just because a few people you have met that have the same sign all annoy you, not EVERYONE of that sign will. Love. lol

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Lol, I think Jynja is completely aware of birth charts - and their associated astrology signs and meanings.

Posted by tiki33
Play fighting, hair pulling, push/pull, intense make-out sessions, cuddling, hot and cold behavior will have your ass in love, a lot of women fall for men who mimic this kind of behavior, it's widely talked about in the PUA community as to why this behavior is so effective.

I can't be sure what this guy is doing but whatever it is, it's working, it's widely taught that it's better to be this way then to "ask" for sex because "asking" for sex is equivalent to begging and will almost always be met with a no (resistance), bargaining or a struggle were he's the one begging and she's the one wielding all power to reject or accept, to avoid this whole scenario men have learned what our (women's) natural attraction triggers are, how to ramp up attraction to make YOU WANT HIM thus he doesn't have to ask for anything, it all comes to him quite easily.

Younger men are really into this PUA stuff so be aware that he could be jacking with your emotions, I suggest you back off for a little while, be observant.

Or this could be part of his mating ritual, he's naturally bipolar acting...Either way it's not all that great for you.

+1

So if we were born the same day and year it would make us compatible. 0_o lol I think we pretty much are. They say gemini's bring out the playful side of a leo. And oh boy do we act so childish throwing basketballs at each other swording each other with the pool sticks. I dont know it sounds silly but it all just happens so naturally. I dont plan anything. We throw little insults at each other. It does feel like middle school but its fun and im comfortable. He can read me pretty well. He will do all this then push me away but then come back and act like this. It really confuses me. I wonder if its like some one said just trying to reel me in? hmm...

all i can say is that the younger work leo who flirted with me this way...he's in his 20s....he was doing that cos he wanted to flirt but was actually attached at that time? i met his gf...nice girl before she cheated on him poor guy. after they split, there was a drunken incident between me and that leo and he said he'd wanted it from the first time he saw me. we're still good friends fortunately, but i'm just quoting this example cos maybe the leo you know is flirting with you and withdrawing in this way cos he's just not into the idea of a relationship for whatever reason but feels compelled to express his attraction somehow.

so i guess he's 'saying' that he likes you but wants to keep you in the friendzone for now.

Posted by Huntress
If a person touched my hair.. their mandible would be biting the pavement.

Step away from the hair...very very slowly. Keep your hand where I can see them and nobody gets hurt !

I do love it haha Im extremely attracted to the behavior. Were kind of rough some times but I dont mind it as long as no ones getting hurt you know. haha he has pulled my hair back and yeah for me its a turn on so I pull his hair some times to :p I dont mind being his friend I'm afraid that if it did get further and didnt work out it could ruin our friendship. Hes a very flirty type of person. But I never ever see him wrestle or play with anyone the way he does with me. He just flirts plays sports withem or talks. But with me its so playful.

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Posted by Huntress
If a person touched my hair.. their mandible would be biting the pavement.

Step away from the hair...very very slowly. Keep your hand where I can see them and nobody gets hurt !

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