totally new to leos,need some help understanding

Hi everyone !


I am a Taurus .A month ago I met a Leo boy through some mutual friends.He was very shy and we only exchanged a few words to one another .I thought he was cute ,but he seemed like he didn't really care to engage me at all.


Fast forward to a week ago, he and I's mutual good friends tell me that he thinks I'm really pretty .WTF?! I was really surprised by this since like I said he showed very little visable interest. I guess they told him a month ago to make a move, but he was feeling insecure and talked himself out of that notion.When my friends told me he was into me, I told them to tell him I thought he was cute too .We ended up adding one another on myspace last Tuesday, and then on Thursday night he emailed me saying we should hang out with one another and asking what I was doing this weekend.

I was STOKED!!!

but then...I never heard from him this weekend.I have to say I felt a little bummed since there seemed to be alot of interest on his end , and he took the time when he is so shy to write me and put himself out there.


So I guess my questions are, Leo men...what is up ? Am I being dissed?Is he being cautious?what are peoples take on my situation.Thanks for anyone taking the time to read this and respond.I have never ever attempted to date a Leo before, I seem to mostly get Aries and Scorpios, so I feel really off my game on this one

no ,no concrete plans were made, but I guess I felt like if there was an interest ...there would be a initiative to make the plan.Especially since he was writing me to say he wanted to hang out with me.God I'm so female right now ahahaha

i totally wrote him back though and was like, definitely lets hang out! I hate boys😢

He'll get in contact with you. My Leo was just like that at the beginning too, and we also shared a mutual friend too, but in my case, our mutual friend didn't find out about us until much later after we got together. The "shy" thing...well, I'm not saying it's an act, but some Leo men (from my limited experience)have the appearance of being shy, but they know exactly what they are doing. My simple advice. Keep on doing your thang, and he'll show his face again soon. That's their thrill of the chase, so to speak. They appreciate independent women who don't pine away for them and have their own thing going, so keep on keeping on. If you are dating other people, continue to do that, because there is no reason for you to sit around waiting on somebody who may or may not contact you in the near future. Good luck!

thank you for your imput my fellow taurean sista.

😉 No problem, my fellow taurean sista' AND friend in the SF area - we gotta' stick together; especially dealing with these crazy men. I used to live in Belmont (close to San Mateo, and Redwood City). Stay outta' the fog! lol

no way! I'm from san mateo originally.

I have Fam that lives in San Mateo. The others lived in Palo Alto and in Oakland, but those folks moved to Sac, cuz it's less expensive. I have friends that still live there by Burlingame Ave and a few other places. I like it there, but I'm not originally from there. I've lived in a lot of places in Cali among other States 🙂

i hope he contacts me again ,I'd really like to get to know him better. one of our mutual friends even said,"the more I think about it you and _____ could be perfect for one another."


here is the email he wrote me :

"Hey whats up this is the ____ that was the at your pool party. We should hang out. I'll probably be in the city this weekend.
What do you got going on?"


I feel like if he had no interest he wouldn't have written me at all, but he is taking his time for sure argh.

BS ,you are ruling hard,thanks for replying

ah well, better to have loved and lost right?

Yeah BS, I've seen that Leo/Taurus combo is "frowned" upon, and I don't get it— We seem to have a lot in common. Go figure.

@ BS

HA! what can I say,we are the bomb 🙂 this dude won't know what hit em once he gets a taste!

I kid I kid

But so if I don't hear from him in like a few days, should I either a) write him one more time or b) say F it?

@ CappyWench
Yeah, I love the convenience, but it's a double edged sword. All my male friends LOVE texting. They say it makes it easier to blow off women if they aren't interested, cause they just won't respond (yes, 90% of my male friends are players -- sad to admit, but they help me a lot!)

@ bs -- lol! I guess that Venus doesn't hurt 😉 plus, we typically (large generalization) like to make people in general feel at ease; but especially our men! Nothing like giving a guy a full body massage and a home cooked meal to get that indoor party started!!! LOL!

You have a point Chocolate. Set the "rules" at the beginning. Basically you can let a guy know that texting may be convenient, but if they want to play on "your ride" they need to call. I think that's fair and reasonable.