We have been inseparable for four months. There was one hiccup, but it was cured in a day. Saturday, he stopped calling me. I went through hell for three days as i continuously called knowing that he saw my calls but chose not to answer them. he called me Tuesday night saying that he goes through this around the same time each year...the death of his sister and cousins cases him to blank out. Bs.I asked him has he done this before in prior relationships. He said he has. I asked him how the other women reacted. He said they were upset but got over it once he explained it to them. I told him that I thought it was the most disrespectful thing to do to someone - to disappear - and that i had already begun the process of getting over him. He got upset because he said i didn't care about what he was going through. Then he hung up on me. i texted him that i deserved none of that and that i must not have meant anything to him if he could dismiss me that easily and that i thought he was different, but i see not. He texted back and said I was cold because I act like he did what he did on purpose and didn't care whT he went through. Ugh...I HATE when people try to turn it back on you!
