Why is he not talking to me all of a sudden?

Hi everyone! I've been reading this board for a while now and I'm loving it! I have a thing for leo men and they seem to be drawn to me too.(I've had 3 of them in my life and one is stalking me right now! Lol!) It must be my Aries rising. Idk. Lol! Ok, so here's my story...I'm a pisces (February 20th) I've been crushing on this Leo guy (July 30th) BAD since High school senior year. He actually is the one that told me he liked me first. I didn't even know he existed until one day we were sitting in class and he said to me "Your feet are too big for those shoes you have on. You need to go and get a bigger size shoe!" I was like WTF! He was actually getting on my nerves. He looks and acts like a typical Leo. He says whatever is on his mind. He doesn't care if it hurts your feelings or not. He's 6'3", attractive, and he was popular. That night on myspace, he told me that I was cute and he wanted my phone number. Even though he was a lil annoying, I thought he was cute. So I gave it to him. 🙂 He was actually very sweet and very attracted to me. He said he's been wanting to talk to me for a long time. I didn't know that. Lol! Our relationship quickly turned sexual but I was ok with that.(We were like 17 years old) We never physically had sex, we just would talk really dirty to each other over the phone and we even had phone sex. To make a long story short, eventually, we graduated and moved on with our lives. I only talked to him a few times after we graduated. And then I

and then..........—??

THE SUSPENSE!

tehe!

damn i have to go to sleep. if he's not talking to you, he doesn't want to. take my scorpionic advice and cut all contact with him and walk away. if he comes after you, great...but don't hold your breath and get on with your life. the sooner you move on the better. don't do what i do and waste 6 months tearing petals off flowers...he loves me, he love me not...and throwing myself on my bed to sob into my pillow cos he won't talk to me....sending dramatic and over emotinoal emails (eww...really don't do that). just skip that whole ridiculous waste of time part and cut to the chase. it's over. walk.

nightie night and welcome to our humble boards. may all your threads be happy ones. talk again soon 🙂

And on a side note, it seems like many Leos enjoy 'phone sex', for lack of a better term...

oh gosh no petal ripping. That's like kicking Mother Nature in the uterus.

Posted by sheathedclaws
And on a side note, it seems like many Leos enjoy 'phone sex', for lack of a better term...

Love, Love, Love it - it really builds anticipation🙂

Dying to hear the rest of the story!

Haven't heard from him in about 3 years. Last month February 5th, I saw him on twitter. So I followed him. He immediately followed me back and wrote me a message saying that he was glad to hear from me and he hasn't seen me in so long. He gave me his phone number and told me to please text him. So I did. He was glad I did. 🙂We had a long talk, but soon, It turned sexual again. We had a lot of unfinished business I guess. LOL! Once again, I was ok with that. I just got out of a 3 year relationship with a cancer man and I'm not thinking about getting into another serious relationship anytime soon. But I do want the d***! Lol! So we basically agreed on being FWB. We still have not had sex yet. He is in college in Alabama and he does not graduate till 2 months from now. I am definitely not waiting on him but whenever he gets back to Atlanta, we will see what's up. So after our long convo that went well, he text me again in about 3 days. He asked how I was doing and he told me that he was watching porn. Lol! So I asked him a question (I can't remember exactly what I said)and he just stopped texting me. I thought it was a lil rude so I said to him "There you go disappearing on me again." So he text back "I'm tryna multitask. My phone is in one hand, D*** in the other." So I laughed and said "Oh ok. I get it. You were hoping I would talk dirty to you huh. Well I'll let you finish jacking off. LOL! I was just kidding but I think he took it personal because he stopped texting me.


to be continued....

—— He's not "not talking to you" you're a friend with benefits in waiting, he has no need to talk to you - you've shown him what you're worth to him. He'll be back when the time is right for you to meet up and have a ride and he has no need to offer you anymore until then 😉

I realized he stopped talking to me, so I pushed my pride aside (Even though it was difficult) and I told him that I was sorry if I offended him for what I said and I was just kidding. I told him that he was sexy with a nice d*** too. 😉. I forgot to tell ya'll that we exchanged pics ~cough cough!~ LOL! And his manhood is NICE!🙂 He text back and said Thank you. 🙂 And I told him that it meant a lot to me that he text back because I really didn't mean to piss him off. He laughed and said that I didn't piss him off. He just been really busy with studying and he just got a job. I honestly think that he's lieing. I think I hurt his ego. Lol! But anyways I told him, whenever he wants to talk, I am here and he said OK! 🙂 He seemed happy that I said that. So on Feb 12th I sent him a sexy pic of me and he loved it and kept wanting more. I told him that I wasn't gonna send him anymore. He can see a lot more in person. 😉 And he said "I can't wait!" I realized that I haven't heard from him in a while so I text him saying hi and I hope that he has a nice day. No response. So I stopped texting him completely. I pay him no attention at all and I went on with my life. I haven't heard from him since and I am definitely not gonna chase him. I, myself have a big ego problem. Lol! He has not deleted me on twitter but he just stopped talking to me. WTH did I do?? He's confusing to me because He shows that he is interested in me but he like's to respond and ignore me whenever he feels like it. I understand that we are not together but when someone writes you a text message or writes you on twitter, you don't ignore them. That's rude as hell! I find myself constantly thinking about him and I wanna eff him so bad. Lol! So my question is, what should I do if he decides to pop up and start talking to me again? Maybe I should let him do him and he will get back when he's ready? Am I doing the right thing by ignoring him? I think I am. 🙂

You're on the right track, girl. Every lion loves a chase; it makes the 'capture' all the more satisfying.

Let him feel like he has you 'under his paw', but then keep drawing out his anticipation more and more. Eventually he'll HAVE to have you and show up out of nowhere to get it 😉

My Leo ex and I loved phone sex while I was a receptionist.. oh, we were BAAAAAAAD.

—— He's not "not talking to you" you're a friend with benefits in waiting, he has no need to talk to you - you've shown him what you're worth to him. He'll be back when the time is right for you to meet up and have a ride and he has no need to offer you anymore until then



I feel you celticlioness! 🙂 I guess I'm just a lil paranoid because I know I hurt his ego. I know that we would get along very well and I don't want him to hold it against me. My only problem is that I have a strong personality as well and I don't take BS. We might bump heads when it comes to that. Lol! But if he want's some of this good ish, he know's where I'm at. Lol! 🙂

I dunno why she's surprised he's not communicating, she's sex and there is no real urgency to speak to her, he got her to concede pretty easy, game over, she'll be there when he gets around to it.

The good ole days when people developed relationships in person which is pretty much obsolete and becoming extinct.

You're on the right track, girl. Every lion loves a chase; it makes the 'capture' all the more satisfying.


Let him feel like he has you 'under his paw', but then keep drawing out his anticipation more and more. Eventually he'll HAVE to have you and show up out of nowhere to get it

My Leo ex and I loved phone sex while I was a receptionist.. oh, we were BAAAAAAAD.




Thanks Sheathedclaws! 🙂 Hell yeah! Even though I prefer the real thing, The phone sex was amazing! We are rediculously sexually attracted to each other. If only you knew the dirty things we say to each other. LOL! I feel like I can say anything to him and he's down for whatever. He's a major freak! I told him I like how nasty he is and he said "You know it! 🙂 Lol!

damn i have to go to sleep. if he's not talking to you, he doesn't want to. take my scorpionic advice and cut all contact with him and walk away. if he comes after you, great...but don't hold your breath and get on with your life. the sooner you move on the better. don't do what i do and waste 6 months tearing petals off flowers...he loves me, he love me not...and throwing myself on my bed to sob into my pillow cos he won't talk to me....sending dramatic and over emotinoal emails (eww...really don't do that). just skip that whole ridiculous waste of time part and cut to the chase. it's over. walk.

nightie night and welcome to our humble boards. may all your threads be happy ones. talk again soon




Thanks for the advice R1gOrMOrT1s. I'll keep that in mind. ;0

I dunno why she's surprised he's not communicating, she's sex and there is no real urgency to speak to her, he got her to concede pretty easy, game over, she'll be there when he gets around to it.

The good ole days when people developed relationships in person which is pretty much obsolete and becoming extinct.




Well well well tiki33. I am very aware of what I am doing and I am ok with it. I have never had a FWB relationship before and I actually haven't had sex with him yet. I am not tryna be his girfriend I've been there done that and I'm not ready to do it again. It's really not even about him not talking to me. I just wanna understand this guy and make sure I didn't hurt his ego too bad. I just wanted to see if I really effed it up or is there still a chance. All I wanna do is eff him!


she'll be there when he gets around to it.

No disrespect, but You or anyone else don't know what I'll do when he comes around. I've made it clear that I'm not gonna wait on him so if he decides to come around and I've found someone else, then that's too bad for him. I'm comfortable with myself to even be having this kind of relationship with him. I've known him since HS and we always wanted to do this but we never got around to it. It's just unfinished business that's all.

Thanks you all for your advice. I have delt with several leo men but this one is the most interesting of them all. I'll keep you all updated. Thanks again! 🙂

If you're not trying to be his girlfriend then what's with the "urgency" of him communicating?

You have to do a lot more than just say something to hurt a Leo's ego, most likely he's bored, they do get bored quite easily and if the connection is mostly sexually motivated the males can grow bored and HUNT for new territory. It's the hunting feature that some leo males have that make them appear disinterested (of course all of this depends on maturity) given how he's behaving with you it's more about you being caught and there being NOTHING left for him to do so the boredom sets in and he's off to bag another, you can't really hurt his ego unless you're not AVAILABLE to cater to his ego, I can't speak for all Leo males but they aren't that fragile but many can bore quite easily.

You can't eff up sex, meaning you can't eff up FWB unless you're being clingy which is not a vibe I picked up from you. He's not "hunting", that has nothing to do with his ego and more to do with his level of disinterest in you romantically or sexually.

If you agree to FWB then there really is no reason to communicate UNLESS he's ready to have some kind of sexual contact be it via phone, text, email or in person.

He'll be back around when he's done hunting other women, playing with his hobbies, living his life as in school/work/family, no worries...

piscesdive: you have presented yourself as little more than a fuckpiece. he won't ever speak to you unless he wants a quick wank. you come across here as being little more than that too. you complimented him on his DICK—

oh good grief girl...you're a free chat line service!!

find some dignity from somewhere and you might be taken more seriously.

this is very takcy behaviour and makes you seem as though you have absolutely no self-worth which i'm sure isn't true underneath everything....but the reason you are being treated this way is because you have set yourself up to be...you set the precedent and he's a guy..he'll play along with anything.

phone sex is something you do when you and your established partner are separated (in my view)....it's not a substitute for a healthy sex life if you're single.

please sort yourself out.

terrible typos. i sound like a bitch too. i don't want you to think i'm being harsh. 🙂

Posted by PiscesDiva

Well well well tiki33. I am very aware of what I am doing and I am ok with it. I have never had a FWB relationship before and I actually haven't had sex with him yet. I am not tryna be his girfriend I've been there done that and I'm not ready to do it again. It's really not even about him not talking to me. I just wanna understand this guy and make sure I didn't hurt his ego too bad. I just wanted to see if I really effed it up or is there still a chance. All I wanna do is eff him!

that is very full of contradictions and you are kidding yourself if you think that you are fine with FWB (virtual or real) cos if you were, why would you give a crap if you hurt his ego? why would you even want to understand him. and what is it you think you might have fucked up? the chance to what exactly? fuck him??

true FWB is between two people who aren't really even friends. it's emotionless but in a pleasant way...it's a diversion, a bit of fun for BOTH parties on equal terms. when you're not actually in the company of a FWB, you don't think about them, it's only when you're horny you think about them and only then if there's no-one else to hand. and that is not a problem for EITHER party in the slightest.

there can be no agenda either side beyond the agreement but you display that there is a little hidden agenda in the way you care about how he feels and if you've fucked up, etc.

so, if you are wondering if you fucked up your chances of having a relationship with this man...i would say pretty much so.

yeah, yeah, i know you say you don't want one but have you ever heard the expression...the lady doth protest too much...it means that if you go on the defensive and deny something too hard, it's because it's the very thing you actually want.

it's ok gf, you are amongst friends here despite how it may seem. we don't tend to pull punches though.

tiki33 and R1g0rM0rt1s. Ok ladies, I guess you're right. 🙂 I knew I came on a lil too strong (but I was thinking with my p**** and not my head. LOL! I haven't talked t 🙂o him since so I guess that will give me time to take a deep breath and calm down. Lol! So how do you suggest I handle him if he contacts me? I should just say hey and play it cool? No sex talk huh? Thanks ladies!

Posted by PiscesDiva
tiki33 and R1g0rM0rt1s. Ok ladies, I guess you're right. 🙂 I knew I came on a lil too strong (but I was thinking with my p**** and not my head. LOL! I haven't talked t 🙂o him since so I guess that will give me time to take a deep breath and calm down. Lol! So how do you suggest I handle him if he contacts me? I should just say hey and play it cool? No sex talk huh? Thanks ladies!

well if you want to just treetrunk him then cut to the chase,invite him over and get on with it 😉 If you want to have something more with him then you're going to have to hit the undo button and attempt to start again, which is difficult but not impossible 🙂 and yss, if this is what you want no more sex talk, if not blow his phone up with it so he will get over to you quicker.

@celticlioness Lol! Right now all I wanna do is treetrunk him. But whatever happens, happens. I do think it's a double standard that women have to always be classy and make him wait. but whenever a man wants to treetrunk, he's not labeled a slut, whore, or easy. I get really tired of that sometimes. I get the urge to and I have no problem saying that. I'm young and single. Is that a crime? Lol!

I usually can control myself but there's something about the leo man that makes the panties drop. He he! 🙂

Just like me? What? I said whore. Is someone playing with me? Lol!

Oh I get it. Can't say w**** on this board. LOL!

Just like me? What? I said whore. Is someone playing with me? Lol!

@celticlioness Lol! Right now all I wanna do is treetrunk him. But whatever happens, happens. I do think it's a double standard that women have to always be classy and make him wait. but whenever a man wants to treetrunk, he's not labeled a slut, whore, or easy. I get really tired of that sometimes. I get the urge to and I have no problem saying that. I'm young and single. Is that a crime? Lol!

And if that's all you want to do that's fine, but i don't think it is.

Now listen young and single lady from an older and single lady 😉 Making them wait makes no difference in my book, especially when we get to my age, if a man wants to be with you he will regardless of when you sleep with him, if he doesn't he won't no matter how long you make him wait, men like chase and challenge in relationships. However - dirty talk from the outset and telling him you just want to ride him, sending sexy photos, makes all the difference to the way he views you, you tell him thats what you want you're telling him that's what he wants - and he looks on you as exactly that. Their minds are very simple and you should keep this kind of stuff for an established relationship - it keeps the spice and romance in it.

BTW I've slept with all my men within the first 1 - 3 dates - each one turned into a relationship and one even into marriage, not a one cared less that we had gone to bed together so early, none were the shallow type though. The only one I've had any kind of confusion from is the Aries and I didn't sleep with him immediately (not for game playing reasons you'll be glad to hear 🙂)

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
piscesdive: you have presented yourself as little more than a fuckpiece. he won't ever speak to you unless he wants a quick wank. you come across here as being little more than that too. you complimented him on his DICK—

oh good grief girl...you're a free chat line service!!

find some dignity from somewhere and you might be taken more seriously.

this is very takcy behaviour and makes you seem as though you have absolutely no self-worth which i'm sure isn't true underneath everything....but the reason you are being treated this way is because you have set yourself up to be...you set the precedent and he's a guy..he'll play along with anything.

phone sex is something you do when you and your established partner are separated (in my view)....it's not a substitute for a healthy sex life if you're single.

please sort yourself out.

well, you're sounding like that because you're being that. she wants sex.

It's such a screwed up double standard that females seem to even push onto other females.

She wants to screw and she's out of a long term relationship.

On other boards I see the same people not thinking twice about a guy looking for fun and 'new tail' as a recent board recently put it as. She's not being dumb about it and isn't looking for love - geesh.

But these are the reasons he's not talking to her all of a sudden Sheathed, she can still get sex off him, plus more communication, if she interacted him differently. So she's asking why he isn't responding and she's been given the reasons - its not necessarily a double standards, no-one cares that she just wants sex (which she doesn't imo) just telling her why that's all she gonna get.

isn't that exactly what she said? and why are you speaking for a group when you don't necessarily know everybody's thoughts?

and your response makes absolutely no sense.

As Celtic said regarding the sex, I can't speak for anyone else but I don't care about the sex issue, it's not a big deal especially if that's all there is but PD comes across as wanting more if she's worried about his ego and worried about why he isn't calling, I feel she's taking the relationship mental approach which could be strictly out of habit which really isn't a horrible thing but her attitude needs some adjusting or she could end up overestimating how things are going to be between the 2 of them physically, mentally, emotionally.

It's really hard to get the standard rules down with FWB because everyone approaches FWB differently and the meaning is different for each person, I see a lot of women take the relationship approach to FWB even when she's sure she doesn't want much more than sex, possibly out of habit and the mind can't approach it different due to habit especially if FWB is not something she's ever been in with a man before, people in FWB type relationships typically don't really get caught up too much nor care too much about communication when it's just sex involved, I don't feel he's gone for good, he's just not investing himself emotionally or otherwise if all it's going to be is a sexual thing between the 2 of them he'll contact her when it's time to play, she put herself in this position by agreeing to something she probably doesn't really understand given she's never been in this kind of situation with a man.

Some people in FWB relations with one another don't worry too much about anything because it's not a real relationship plus this is all imaginary stuff to begin with, they really haven't had any one on one time so yeah he's not invested in her and probably not even thinking about her at all at the moment, doesn't mean he won't come back around to play but most likely if he doesn't get off his lazy lion ass and hunt she'll have to lure him out of his man cave.

Posted by sheathedclaws
isn't that exactly what she said? and why are you speaking for a group when you don't necessarily know everybody's thoughts?

and your response makes absolutely no sense.

I'm referring only to the reponses given in this thread, no-one here has said the disagree with her looking for sex, their thoughts are written down, as a group. And it makes complete sense - she told him how to treat her, he did/is - no need for him to get in touch with her until he is ready for sex. If she wants more then she has to change her behaviour, not her need for sex.

Posted by PiscesDiva
@celticlioness Lol! Right now all I wanna do is treetrunk him. But whatever happens, happens. I do think it's a double standard that women have to always be classy and make him wait. but whenever a man wants to treetrunk, he's not labeled a slut, whore, or easy. I get really tired of that sometimes. I get the urge to and I have no problem saying that. I'm young and single. Is that a crime? Lol!

there is absolutely no cast-iron rule that women should be 'classy' and make him wait. you don't make anyone do anything..you just do what you feel comfortable doing.

i'm still doubting you just want him to fuck you though. i would be wary on that basis alone cos it's harder feeling rejected by someone after you've had sex with them and ultimately, i think this would lead in that direction.

Lol ok ladies. Ya'll are thinking way too deep into this. Including myself. My leo has been blowing me up on twitter all day. I finally decided to respond to him about 3 hours later. He told me that he lost his phone and had to get a new one. He lost all his contacts including mine. So he was waiting for me to text him again and I never did. He seemed disappointed. Lol! He wanted to come over to my house tonight, but I told him no. Thursday night will be better. He agreed. So on Thursday night, I'm gonna treetrunk the crap outta him. Lol! Thats what I want, so that's what I'm gonna do! 🙂 Then he can go back to school. He said to me "I'm kinda big. Can you handle all this?" Such a typical leo! Lol!

Thank ya'll for your advice. Even the negative advice. @sheathed yes I agree with you girl. Girls do this to each other the most. And it's so annoying. Lol! And for the record everyone, I say what I mean and I mean what I say. If I wanted something more with him, I would have no problem saying that and I would of approached him differently. I'm a smart girl. I know how to make a man beg for it when I really want to. 😉 I just thought that I screwed up a potential treetrunk and I just wanted to know if I should just move on and not waste my time on this guy. I found my answer! 🙂

LOL Oh you believe the I lost my phone thing? Oh PD you have to get your head in the game....Don't be so naive

You say what you mean but it doesn't match up, technically you can't mess up sex with a man unless you're being super clingy which doesn't categorize you at all but never the less have fun, be safe, use protection even when you have oral sex, no regrets.

Posted by PiscesDiva
Lol ok ladies. Ya'll are thinking way too deep into this. Including myself. My leo has been blowing me up on twitter all day. I finally decided to respond to him about 3 hours later. He told me that he lost his phone and had to get a new one. He lost all his contacts including mine. So he was waiting for me to text him again and I never did. He seemed disappointed. Lol! He wanted to come over to my house tonight, but I told him no. Thursday night will be better. He agreed. So on Thursday night, I'm gonna treetrunk the crap outta him. Lol! Thats what I want, so that's what I'm gonna do! 🙂 Then he can go back to school. He said to me "I'm kinda big. Can you handle all this?" Such a typical leo! Lol!

The lost phone thing is so common, he's fun! So he got in touch again when he wanted his treetrunk. Enjoy yourself on Thursday, you could probably so with a good seeing too 😉 nothing better. He'll go quite again after that until he wants his next go at you - but you're prepared this time. Have fun 🙂

Posted by PiscesDiva
Lol ok ladies. Ya'll are thinking way too deep into this. Including myself. My leo has been blowing me up on twitter all day. I finally decided to respond to him about 3 hours later. He told me that he lost his phone and had to get a new one. He lost all his contacts including mine. So he was waiting for me to text him again and I never did. He seemed disappointed. Lol! He wanted to come over to my house tonight, but I told him no. Thursday night will be better. He agreed. So on Thursday night, I'm gonna treetrunk the crap outta him. Lol! Thats what I want, so that's what I'm gonna do! 🙂 Then he can go back to school. He said to me "I'm kinda big. Can you handle all this?" Such a typical leo! Lol!

yes such a typical leo churning out such stereotypical leo lies....lost my phone my ass! he already had that excuse for why you'd not heard from HIM so don't flatter yourself he's been pining for ya. didn't it strike you as weird that he just today got in touch via twitter depsite having lost your contact details on his phone a while ago?? did he just realise he had a twitter account or something?

don't be a sucker and don't take him for a dumbfuck. just think about how this has made you feel cos it has all gone exactly how he planned.

Posted by sheathedclaws

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
piscesdive: you have presented yourself as little more than a fuckpiece. he won't ever speak to you unless he wants a quick wank. you come across here as being little more than that too. you complimented him on his DICK—

oh good grief girl...you're a free chat line service!!

find some dignity from somewhere and you might be taken more seriously.

this is very takcy behaviour and makes you seem as though you have absolutely no self-worth which i'm sure isn't true underneath everything....but the reason you are being treated this way is because you have set yourself up to be...you set the precedent and he's a guy..he'll play along with anything.

phone sex is something you do when you and your established partner are separated (in my view)....it's not a substitute for a healthy sex life if you're single.

please sort yourself out.

well, you're sounding like that because you're being that. she wants sex.

It's such a screwed up double standard that females seem to even push onto other females.

She wants to screw and she's out of a long term relationship.

On other boards I see the same people not thinking twice about a guy looking for fun and 'new tail' as a recent board recently put it as. She's not being dumb about it and isn't looking for love - geesh.

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now calm down sweetness. she IS looking for love and i don't care how she dresses it. i just think people should be able to own these things on anonymous forums.

i've had purely fwb relationships and there is nothing wrong with them. we have carnal urges. there is nothing wrong with them. no-one is saying that there's anything wrong with fwb deals but what is a MISTAKE is to approach them if you have another agenda.

and i tell you how i know she has another agenda. cos she gave a fuck about the guy not talking to her enough to write a thread about it. if you are only interested in sex, it's easy CUM, easy go...pun fully intended.

now, she thinks she has his interest again, it's back to the bravado and her claiming that she just wants him for sex.

i promise you. IF thursday happens, she'll be here again whining about why he's fucked off again!!!!!

i'm just calling her on the bullshit. it's for her own sake really. i'm actually being very charita

Posted by PiscesDiva
Thank ya'll for your advice. Even the negative advice. @sheathed yes I agree with you girl. Girls do this to each other the most. And it's so annoying. Lol! And for the record everyone, I say what I mean and I mean what I say. If I wanted something more with him, I would have no problem saying that and I would of approached him differently. I'm a smart girl. I know how to make a man beg for it when I really want to. 😉 I just thought that I screwed up a potential treetrunk and I just wanted to know if I should just move on and not waste my time on this guy. I found my answer! 🙂

you are so kidding yourself. plus, there's nothing smart about making a man beg for it which for the record, you haven't managed to achieve with this leo.

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it just makes me LMAO to think that women in this situation think they are actually EMPOWERING themselves by just being available for sex when the guy holds the power.

he probably exhausted his black book....thought FUCK, i can't exactly approach thingy for a shag after ignoring her for so long....but i really need a shaaag..*sad face*...have to think of an excuse....yeah, that's IT....I LOST MY PHOOOONE...i know what i'll do, i'll hook up with thingy on twitter and make her think there's been some terrible mix up and that i actually CARE i've not spoken to her for ages...you know, give a bit of chase to make her feel better....yeah, that should be enough to get her in the sack....unless something better comes up in the meantime.

and the sheer fact you fell for that so easily just confirms you want more than just a fuck. if you're just after sex, he would know not to even bother playing games with you cos you're just after sex, it's not hard is it...surely he just has to call you cos that's how it usually goes!! there aren't any games involved that aren't of a purely carnal nature. naah, you want much more. and you aint getting it.

*peeks in* Taurus Mars.. I have that. STRONG sex drive, and I can definitely separate love from sex - if that's what I want. It's confused a couple guys, that Taurus Mars.. it's very sensual and affectionate and lotsa touchy-feely.. a couple have thought that meant I was more into him than I really was/said, because the sex was so deep and sensual and meaningful. I've never misled anyone.. but a couple have misled themselves, thinking I didn't really MEAN it when I said it was just sex and funsies. But the Taurus Mars makes me ACT on my emotions a lot slower than another Mars might.. I take my damn sweet time to fall for a guy (yes, sometimes it's FAST, like a bolt of lightning - but usually it's a slow and steady pace).. even though I might SEEM like the sweetest, gentlest, most affectionate and loving woman he's ever met, and he might THINK he's got me right where he wants me.. I'm probably not actually that attached -- unless I say so.

I DO think that's the chart of a girl who can definitely handle FWB.. it's also the chart of a girl who will confuse a few guys with her nonchalant handling of FWB lol

elle...the aqua is mr. perfect so far. i'm deeply suspicious. i can't afford to keep feeling compelled to pay for lunch cos he's loaded though. today i suggested burger king for lunch just in case the urge got me again. he came to the area i live in which is certainly not a millionaire's playground and tried to pay with a high denomination note. they looked at him cluelessly and so he paid the ?

it's nothing to do with having a strong sex drive or being able to separate love from sex...it's to do with the bullshit surrounding it. seriously, if either party is just after sex, why don't they just spit it out....and here i'm talking about the leo and not our OP cos i'm pretty sure she's made herself clear with him on this issue, lol.

perhaps i'm just more brutally honest about it but if that's all i want from someone, they know about it beforehand and it's a fully 2 way MUTUAL deal and only progresses on that understanding. no games, nada. and then no-one gets confused, no-one gets hurt and no-one ends up on here telling their tragic tale.

nah..he doesn't dislike her but sees her as a bit of fun and nothing more and so he thinks he has to charm her into the sack...hence the feeble excuses for why he went quiet. thing is though, if it were obvious she was just after sex as she maintains here, he wouldn't feel the slightest need to excuse his silence before. i think he plays this game cos he thinks she's really into him and he probably got that impression from her.

anyway, it's friday now and she will have done the deed by now apparently and so no doubt we will be updated very soon.

i won't hold my breath though.