Advice please! Libra man and Libra woman

Hi, First time posting on this platform and I really need advice. I need all Libra man commenting please.

I am a libra and I was dating a guy that have the same birthday as me (one day after). Crazy because I thought we would be compatible but it's the straight opposite.

Story time:

We started talking mid-Feb. and he was coming strong. Sending Good morning text every day, telling me how he likes me etc. that lasted exactly 1 month! I stop texting me good morning and all. When I texted him, he would simply ignore. Then one day I told him how he was disrespectful and he was like no I am just busy and I have a lot of things going on. Anyways, couple days after, we chilled and he started talking about our future together, about our future kids blablabla. I told him that he is not being consistent and I am not going to run after him. He replied: I am going put more effort, I really appreciate you (that his favorite word to say). Then the following week, we were supposed to chill and told me he needed time to get his mind right, some alone time (keep in mind I only see him on a weekly basis, not even everyday).

So I gave him some space, two weeks to be exact (I only check up on him, and replied thank you so much I appreciate you). After we did not talk for 2 weeks he facetime me, asking for help with something; help starting his business and help with immigration process for his mother. The same night he told me to come over and started to be very touchy and tried to have sex. I said no because I am confused. He reacted well but could tell he was annoyed. I told him that I don't just want be part of the list of girls he hooking up with, then he was like what girls. Last time i hooked up was 2 months ago. (I don't know if he was telling the truth). Anyway, I still said no. We made plan to go for a walk on Monday ( 2 days after).

Monday arrived - I sent him a business plan (which he asked for my help) and told him we could talk about it when I see him or facetime. Dude ignored me and did not say thank you.

Wednesday - I texted him I'm assuming you did see the plan and you did not like my suggestions. Then replied. Thank you I appreciate you so much.

So I decided to send him a LONG text - told him about my feelings and that I don't think he is ready for what I am looking for and what I have to offer. He did not answer.

Anyway, I am heartbroken and confused. he always tell me that he appreciate me so much, talk futuristic and stuff but when I open about my feelings nada. I kind of regret sending that long text even though I was being honest. But I don't want it to be over.

is he going to text me again? What should I do next. I need advice please.

Thanks in advance

He is not interested in anything but easy sex and his business plan. In the future when you are only seeing a guy once a week and he asked for more alone time don't ever contact him again. Do not waste your time creating a business plan for any man for free unless he's your fiance or husband. Let him do his homework. You, as a Libra know that when we are interested in someone we do not let grass grow under our feet when it comes to showing interest. We get right on it. This guy is giving you the run around. He's barely lukewarm so let him go.

He is not actually interested. Just a sweet talker ie charming. Move on. Actions speak louder then worlds.

He will go out of his way for you and find ways to include you in what he has going on if he is serious. I almost wanted to point to the business plan and mother as a way to do this but he isn't jumping on your response. So I don't see that as counting here.

The fact that you fell hard for his words alone says something about you though.

Why exactly do you not want this to end?

So I really like him. like a lot. I had a crush on him forever. So when we started talking I guess I fell hard for him (I know that sound weak). I don't want it to end because I want a real chance. Especially that we were cool before so I don't really want lose I guess our friendship. I don't know i sound very stupid and low self-esteem but I hate being bad term with someone. I hate the fact I embarrassed myself with the long text.

I guess i need advice on how to move on. 😢

Posted by Libra05

So I really like him. like a lot. I had a crush on him forever. So when we started talking I guess I fell hard for him (I know that sound weak). I don't want it to end because I want a real chance. Especially that we were cool before so I don't really want lose I guess our friendship. I don't know i sound very stupid and low self-esteem but I hate being bad term with someone. I hate the fact I embarrassed myself with the long text.

I guess i need advice on how to move on. 😢

Your human it's cool..I can cut paste what you said for what I've done myself as well lol

He wasn't acting serious so you shouldn't see it as something serious despite how you feel and the things he said. Hence, actions speak louder then words part. Just accept how you feel and don't push for more then what it is currently.

Basically the beginning of Relationships and different stages are courtships(even friendships). It works like a back and forth dance. You step he steps. If you are both feeling it, you switch to a more serious dance with some spins and dips. Then back to 2 stepping much closer together more, in sync. It's a dance💃

If spinning and dipping is your goal with someone, you say so. If he isn't feeling it, you have to consider how long you want to continue 2 stepping at that level with him or if you willing to only 2 step with him(friendzone). And that's ok. Remember it takes 2 to tango💃



There is nothing wrong with caring for someone and showing that. If it causes you pain or you lose selfrespect when nothing is returned, that means you gave with a expectations or didn't have it to spare.

Forgive yourself for the shenanigans and learn from it. It's ok to make mistakes your human so long as you learn from it.

I think you just need to let it go as hard as it may be. He's not interested. He's only talking to you when he wants something...help with business plan and sex etc. A libra that's interested will want to talk to you.

It seems that you understand that you have to move on and I don't think you need to worry about being in bad terms with him. Just put it in your past and forget about him. It takes two for a relationship even friendship. If he doesn't want you to be part of his life then you just need to accept it and forget about him.

You sound like an absolute gem he doesn't deserve. You have held your own really well. I wouldn't let your feelings drag you under. He isn't giving you what you need, you've told him and he still isn't. I would walk, but expect him to come running after later, and you'd better check to see if there is real change.

A lot of the good morning texts etc things you're saying my libra did too. They do that with everyone in the beginning. You see what they are really made of later- and they have to *decide* on you. Once they do there is a major shift, but until then it's wonky. However, consistent communication and not trying to force sex are about HONOR. Do you want a man that honors you ? or not?