anyone dating a Libra man...

Is it just me, or does it seem like they disagree with you just to disagree with you sometimes?

Their need for balance is what makes them seem so damn indecisive...

For example:
A friend and him have a falling out.
I listen to him vent about it.
At first I try to offer an objective perspective...y'know there's two sides to every story. I'll try to see it from the friend's POV and offer some insight that way. Calm him down a little...
At this point, he is completely irrational, not having it whatsoever. He makes a good argument.
I'm loyal to him, so I agree. Then I'm like yeah, you're right, "fuck that asshole" and make some points of my own why his friend is being sucky.
NOW there's a 180 that occurs. He goes back to semi-defending his friend. :/

I have a headache. Really.

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by brianafay
Calm him down a little...

A blowjob would've been more effective.

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*sigh* that's a last resort.

& yeah it's really annoying.

Now did you see what has happened in this case?:

You had an opinion (which was your own) and he didn't how you viewed a subject that he has imposed upon you and is really his personal problem not yours, so what did you do you changed your opinion to suite his mood. Why did you compromise your values in how you view things to feed his ego??_??_??_??_??_..??You Teach People How To Treat You?? The world does not revolve around one person it revolves around billions and billions of people with different opinions and options. Me I believe that —Opinions are like assholes and no ones is right and no ones is wrong just depends on how you view your and others opinions?? Don't change how you feel to feed anyone's ego because in that case they own you and your thoughts??_??_??_??_??_??_.

No, I always had the opinion that his friend is a fucking asshole....it's just when he was so pissed off and venting...I just figured the last thing he needed to hear was more negativity.

I try to play devils advocate sometimes. *shrugs*

It doesn't matter what I say/what the subject is though...he will disagree with me. Just because.

His sister pointed this out the other night when we saw her. (Only see her like for 20 minutes once a year...she's an aries and they just CANNOT get along.) She commented that he would swear it was 40 degrees outside, while sweating, just because I said it was 90.

You know didi you ever think that your opinion was not negitive but informational? Don't go there if you always had the thought that his friend is a fucking asshole chances are he is a fucking asshole so don't change how you feel to suite his needs because he is a scuab and can't deal with his own emotions at any given time.

Fair enough...

but just because I think his friend is an asshole, doesn't mean he is always in the wrong.
The Leeb could very well be wrong in the given situation... in which case if I just blindly side with him, like yeah your friend sucks, that's a cop out too.


Maybe I'm a little Libran too when it comes to this kind of shit

Posted by THEKingofLibra

Posted by brianafay
Calm him down a little...

A blowjob would've been more effective.

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You know KOL it is so obvious that you are not only young and dumb in brain matter, but you haven't been able to find a woman who would deal with you or a hoe that would even give you sex in return for a —cheap?? payout for a very long time. Do you think you are funny? Actually only small minded people with no self-respect would find you funny. You want to talk about humor well look at Cadillac well there is a man with a sense of humor not to mention the fact that he is financially climbing up the latter of $ $ $ $ $ $ he is well off at his age I am sure and on his way to something you will never be because he has —DRIVE?? and doesn't spend his time on boards like this dogging other people for pleasure. He offers services and has such a wonderful enlightening sense of humor unlike you dickhead. You don't want to even come within an inch of me arsehole because I would knock you back into a corner and make you cry for your mommy??_.. Want to know what I would really do with you if you were my boyfriend and acted like you do LOL .. I would start to give you some really awesome oral sex then half way into it I would say "Woops I have forgotten you are so beneith me so you need to go home dude." Hopefully in your older age you will come to find that the world only revolves around you when you revolve around it. "Wink"

oops a typo I meant to say the world only revolves around you when you revolve around others.

Posted by brianafay
Is it just me, or does it seem like they disagree with you just to disagree with you sometimes?

Their need for balance is what makes them seem so damn indecisive...

For example:
A friend and him have a falling out.
I listen to him vent about it.
At first I try to offer an objective perspective...y'know there's two sides to every story. I'll try to see it from the friend's POV and offer some insight that way. Calm him down a little...
At this point, he is completely irrational, not having it whatsoever. He makes a good argument.
I'm loyal to him, so I agree. Then I'm like yeah, you're right, "fuck that asshole" and make some points of my own why his friend is being sucky.
NOW there's a 180 that occurs. He goes back to semi-defending his friend. :/

I have a headache. Really.

It's the scales balancing. Who knows he is having a bit of fun while at it. And he wants to come to a moral decision whether his friend is a baddie. You tipped the scales too far for his liking so he is balancing it back. Sometimes he does it to irritate you to tone down your positivity. In libra world, too much of anything isnt good. 😛

Posted by brianafay
Fair enough...

but just because I think his friend is an asshole, doesn't mean he is always in the wrong.
The Leeb could very well be wrong in the given situation... in which case if I just blindly side with him, like yeah your friend sucks, that's a cop out too.


Maybe I'm a little Libran too when it comes to this kind of shit

Yes you are right his friend may not be as your Libra sees him, but you changed your opionion on the situation to suite his mood read your original post. You changed your mind to bend to what your Libra expected from you and wanted you to think. Don't do that keep an independant mind and please remember what you type or else it will become confusing and you will get ripped apart.........

Lol ! rip me apart then. 🙂

*salute*

I see where you are coming from & I get it.

I just gave an example with him venting about his friend. He disagrees with about everything.
Maybe it wasn't the best example, since you aren't seeing the big picture of what I'm saying

Although it's kind of cute of someone who has posted here less than a month to try to give me advice on how not to get "ripped apart" here.

LOL

Beeetchhhh pleaseee
been here since like 2005. You're late.

Also, I know you think you're all wise and whatever, and I appreciate your perspective....
but Spica got it. 🙂

whatever.

Posted by brianafay
Although it's kind of cute of someone who has posted here less than a month to try to give me advice on how not to get "ripped apart" here.

LOL

Beeetchhhh pleaseee
been here since like 2005. You're late.

less than a year*

Posted by brianafay
Although it's kind of cute of someone who has posted here less than a month to try to give me advice on how not to get "ripped apart" here.

LOL

Beeetchhhh pleaseee
been here since like 2005. You're late.

If you are so wise because you have been on this board so long why do you come here for information on your situation LOL......

Posted by brianafay
Also, I know you think you're all wise and whatever, and I appreciate your perspective....
but Spica got it. 🙂

whatever.

On the other hand, I don't think I got it 😛
Libras are wishy-washy. They don't really like a firm hand, but also not a weak one. Something floating in the middle.
Or maybe not.

LOL? Got it.




(maybe!)

🙂

Didn't realize I asked for information.

I think if you reread my original post you'll finally understand I was asking if it was just me that felt like they disagree just to disagree sometimes...or if anyone else DATING A LIBRA felt that way too sometimes.


You really should read before you post out of your asshole. You will get "ripped apart"

Not by me of course, that was not a threat (as you intended,)because you're clearly a jackass and I don't care enough. 🙂

tata

Posted by spica

Posted by brianafay
Also, I know you think you're all wise and whatever, and I appreciate your perspective....
but Spica got it. 🙂

whatever.

On the other hand, I don't think I got it 😛
Libras are wishy-washy. They don't really like a firm hand, but also not a weak one. Something floating in the middle.
Or maybe not.

LOL? Got it.




(maybe!)

🙂

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Haha 😛

I'll admit, whilst bitching about him doing this...I realized...I do this too. Not disagree to disagree...but try and balance out situations by playing devils advocate a little...offering a different perspective from the other side.

I have no air in my chart, but sometimes I act it.

ELLE come get your brethren !! 😛 😛

♥

You Sag/Leos are mostly Libra. 😛 It's the midway of your sun and moon, that's why you identify with us 🙂

Posted by brianafay

Posted by brianafay
Although it's kind of cute of someone who has posted here less than a month to try to give me advice on how not to get "ripped apart" here.

LOL

Beeetchhhh pleaseee
been here since like 2005. You're late.

less than a year*

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You know little girl just because I signed up on a certain date —which was actually last June 2010 I believe?? doesn't mean anything. You are so funny and today I am just not in the mood for stupid assholes like you really. You like KOL are young and dumb and only wish to try and condescend others to continue to gloat your own self inflated egos WOOPS until we meet again..............

Posted by spica
You Sag/Leos are mostly Libra. 😛 It's the midway of your sun and moon, that's why you identify with us 🙂

That's so cool!! I never thought of it like that. 🙂
You're a smartieee Spixiedusttt

& kind of cute 😛

Hahaha no, but Libras are seriously my other half. I could never give you weirdos up.

Posted by beautifulscorp

Posted by brianafay

Posted by brianafay
Although it's kind of cute of someone who has posted here less than a month to try to give me advice on how not to get "ripped apart" here.

LOL

Beeetchhhh pleaseee
been here since like 2005. You're late.

less than a year*

You know little girl just because I signed up on a certain date —which was actually last June 2010 I believe?? doesn't mean anything. You are so funny and today I am just not in the mood for stupid assholes like you really. You like KOL are young and dumb and only wish to try and condescend others to continue to gloat your own self inflated egos WOOPS until we meet again..............

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Hahahaha pot meet kettle.

You take yourself too seriously. That will always be your downfall. *shrugs*
Do what you will though. 🙂 I won't lose sleep

beautifulscorp has a point. she is telling you to stand your ground as an advice. But not sure if it would work with a libra. We like to tear people down their pedestals, especially extreme pedestals 🙂

Posted by brianafay

Posted by spica
You Sag/Leos are mostly Libra. 😛 It's the midway of your sun and moon, that's why you identify with us 🙂

That's so cool!! I never thought of it like that. 🙂
You're a smartieee Spixiedusttt

& kind of cute 😛

Hahaha no, but Libras are seriously my other half. I could never give you weirdos up.

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Sagittarius89 is also Sag/Leo. You're doomed to be a semi-faux Libra! 😛 not a bad thing! 😉

Posted by spica
beautifulscorp has a point. she is telling you to stand your ground as an advice. But not sure if it would work with a libra. We like to tear people down their pedestals, especially extreme pedestals 🙂

We have that in common too 🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by beautifulscorp

Posted by brianafay
Although it's kind of cute of someone who has posted here less than a month to try to give me advice on how not to get "ripped apart" here.

LOL

Beeetchhhh pleaseee
been here since like 2005. You're late.

If you are so wise because you have been on this board so long why do you come here for information on your situation LOL......

Day to day life.
Consider this too : you like Cadillac and his avatar and his $ $ $ $ .

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Hahaha *blows out Bling's pistol*

😛😛😛

& LOL @ depends on which hand and where you put it...

Posted by brianafay
Although it's kind of cute of someone who has posted here less than a month to try to give me advice on how not to get "ripped apart" here.

LOL

Beeetchhhh pleaseee
been here since like 2005. You're late.

You little insecure asswipe hummmm I have been a member since way last year in June or July so what does that have to do with being informative? OH so so sorry with small minded people like you it has a great deal to do with life and how anyone is entitled to their opinion based on your PMSing bullshit that you come here an post lol. I am not in the mood for your stupid shit really you need to go back and read your original post in what you asked and what you said. I may not always be on the mark in getting right who said what because I just glance but you know I respect everyone here no matter if they signed up today or 20 years ago. Respect is what life is all about and you little girl I could chew up for lunch and spit out for dinner — pick at me another day because today isn't my day??_??_??_cunt??_??_??_.

Okay ladies... hug it out!

Com on, hug... HUG

Now kiss.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
🙂
Why so angry BS ?
You got the painter's in ?

I'm in a really bad mood today which does not excuse my behavior or nasty words.....):

Lol hardly nasty....is that what you were going for?

Hahahahaha like really, that was a nice effort though

Except maybe the last part. Cunt is a pretty disgusting word.

Also, I like that you keep referring to me as a little girl. Shows your age. How many decades have you turned 30 now—

Haha what is this....fucking therapy....

hypocriteeeeeeee

(not you, Rooski)

Ok. I'm almost done, I promise... I don't want you to hurt yourself/anyone else....

But it's pretty clear to me, and I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say everyone else as well, who the insecure one is. 🙂

Were you referencing self-help books? L O L

I am just going to bow out today not in the mood for no nonsense kids (: but love you all — it's just a me thing today and don't want to inject my negativity on others??_??_Oh God I used the —C?? word —I hate that word?? oh well she probably deserved it??_??_??_??_??_): You guys have a better day then I am having??_??_??_??_(Winks and Kisses)

*cues pyscho music*

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Slight change in today's programming but.......how awesome is this ?!?! 😛

Looks like a back ache!!

But isn't that always the case...shit that's bad for you always looks cool?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
True true..I'm sure they could add big plush beanbag type seats for a small additional fee.🙂

Haha bean bag seats sound AMAZING


or those super squishy gel ones...those things make me want to bite them. 😄

(not the seats, ewww! They make ergonomics stuff out of it.)

Posted by brianafay
Is it just me, or does it seem like they disagree with you just to disagree with you sometimes?

No you're wrong. We would never do that...