Date with an Libra

I have a childhood friend from grade school and he found me on facebook, we dated a long time ago as kids if you want to call it dating but he states that he has always thought about me over all these years (17 or 18 yrs to be exact). Well we were talking on the phone a little and texting nothing too serious just still friends, and now he ask me to go to a comedy concert with him this weekend and I said yes he also told me he has a carriage ride plan and that we are going to this nice resturant. I haven't seen him in all these years and he is a nice guy so I want to go just to hang out with him and see how everything has been with him over the years and I hope his intentions are the same. What do you libra male or females think about this just wondering.

@Batuk I like to think I am cool, I know libra's are picky but to think he thought of me after all these years is so sweet. Also I know he has always be romantic he use to write me poems when we were younger so I just really want to see how he is now but I think he still the same sweetheart I remember.

Posted by Batuk
So you have been in relationship for a long time, and you know each other so well.I think he is still in love with you.Since I never had relationship with a guy I don`t have any experience like that poem,date or something.He seems like true libra,so romantic,not like me who run away from guys "just in case".It seem like I`m sooo afraid of close relationship,What if I meet someone who treats me nicely but is ready to spoil my life??

I was like that when i was a younger libra. Im still guilty of doing that sometims.lol. Especially if i really like the guy. The guys i really really like are the ones i barely call, i like them to initiate most or even better ALL contact in the beginning, at least until i feel comfortable calling them. I think thats just libra's fear of rejection. Then again that could be my leo in venus kicking in. i dont know. but i have that bad...lol. Ignoring that guys i like the most. My friends say im so backwards. I mean i have no problem talking to guys i dont really like in a romantic way, because i can careless what they think. duh...lol.

Posted by scorpdiva
I have a childhood friend from grade school and he found me on facebook, we dated a long time ago as kids if you want to call it dating but he states that he has always thought about me over all these years (17 or 18 yrs to be exact). Well we were talking on the phone a little and texting nothing too serious just still friends, and now he ask me to go to a comedy concert with him this weekend and I said yes he also told me he has a carriage ride plan and that we are going to this nice resturant. I haven't seen him in all these years and he is a nice guy so I want to go just to hang out with him and see how everything has been with him over the years and I hope his intentions are the same. What do you libra male or females think about this just wondering.

Im not exactly sure what you need advice on. If the libra is showing interest i'd say run with it. Thats all you need. Now the trick is holding his attention. Thats the hard part. Just remember to look your absolute best, when your out with the libra man he wont think you went over board by getting your hair, nails and feet done for him. He will find it very appealing. After all he deserves a woman that looks her best all the time, especially when she's with him. So look esquisite, smell great! and stay positive, be flirty, non- of that serious talk unless he initiates it. If you do go digging and he doesnt seen willing, take it as a red flag, make not of it, but whatever you do, DONT PUSH THE LIBRA, he is one of the sweetest men you will probably date, but he is NOBODYS push over, he hates pressure, and it will only run him away or make him more stubborn. GOOD LUCK!

Check him!! Bet he's just been dumped or ended with someone. Best way to get over someone is get under someone else!

^^LOL. I hope not, because it takes Libra's ages to get over someone they really love. Maybe thats just libra women. Gettin under someone else only takes away the pain temporarily, and the poor person we choose will be just that "TEMPORARY" if yu plan on datin him on a serious tip, definitely pick his brain to see where his intention lay, and for Gods sake PLEASE WATCH this man, he takes questions like a interview and in most cases if he's out to "get you" if yu catch my drift, he will seem like he answering everything perfectly, so WATCh to see if his actions match. Listen to because, libra's tend to put their foot in their mouth when they really like someone. But they are so cute and sweet, that they can cover it before you even notice it. Careful now...lol

Posted by QLIbraMale
try to go with the flow, but to me hanging out is one thing, fancy restaurant another thing he seems like he's into you with intentions of dating you. are you ready for a Relationship? would a fancy restaurant make you feel uncomfortable? use your best judgement/woman's intuition

Well I am not really sure what he wants, he has this vision of me when I was younger and he has seen pictures of me as a woman and yes I think he is still attracted but when we get together the conversation might be boring and we might not click so much in person as we did many many years ago. We both are saying just hang out but he is just a romantic type of person and I think he really wants to impress me that why he is going all out, I don't know what will become of our friendship but it will be certain after this weekend.

Also I must admit I am a little nervous just because of his past, when I was dating him that was in 7th grade and we were like puppy love. I move hours away and he became this bad boy and was a big time drug dealer and he went to prison for 10yrs I believe it was, so when he got out like a yr ago he found me on facebook through a mutual friend and saying he never forgot about me. He is doing really good though now he went to school as soon as he got out for forklift or something like that he got a job right away and is on the good track and I don't want to hold his past aganist him but like I said it still makes me a little nervous. He has twin girls that are eleven from a previous relationship before he went to jail he apparently also had some money save with his sister while in jail so he has really open up to me but still it is more on a friendship level and he sent me a pic and I am not not attracted but that's a pic so I think this date would be good to get a feel for each other after all of these years. I don't like to hold people past aganist them just why I am giving him a chance, if a relationship is not develope he will always be my friend.

Posted by LibraLuv
Scorpdiva, where I'm a little concerned is where you say you are not attracted to him, physically. Hmm, that's kind of a tough call there. However, go on the date and have fun and you're right in the end at least you will have hopefully had fun, and you could possibly have a friend out of the deal. If not, then it's no harm, no foul.

You know how you see a pic and you are like he is so attractive when I seen his pic I didn't get that vibe, he has very good conversation and it's not always about looks so I feel as if I have a good time and the conversation continues to flow in person than he becomes more attractive in a mental sense more than visual........ He knows it's simple friendly at this point to simply reconnect and see what's happens from that point. So as you being a libra, my sister is one she goes out on friendly dates all the time tha's why I feel no foul no harm it maybe we dont connect on the romance level.

Thanks LibralLuv 🙂

Well the date went great he is such a sweet caring guy he treated me like a queen the entire night and we had very good conversation. We also have two more dates plan already this month on April 22, and 27 so we will see, he was attractive too I wasn't sure at first from the pic and i only remember him as being this little boy. right now I still see him as a friend but maybe that will change.....