Do all Libra men break hearts?

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Since I have been stuck at home sick these past few days I have had time to do some research on the Libra male. What I have found is both frightening & disturbing. I keep reading horror stories all over the web of Libra men ALWAYS breaking some poor girl's heart. It would appear Libra men are passive & don't want to hurt feelings so they'll lie & cheat when they are unhappy, or they will just abandon you without giving an explanation/closure. I have also stumbled upon blog/forum posts by Libras, making fun of Scorpios for stupidly falling for Libras.
I have recently started dating a Libra man. He is the first person I have ever dated in my life. Thus far we have been on two dates: on Friday we went to dinner, and the next day we went hiking/fishin'. We were going to have a third date on Sunday, but I have contracted the flu ): On our way home from dinner on Friday I told him he was/is the first guy I have ever dated. He said he was honored and he promised he would never break my heart. He said all this in a very serious, protective, sympathetic tone. Please note that I did not even express fear of being hurt; he just randomly threw that all out there when I said I've never dated.
So, I am getting confused because he seems like such a big sweetheart: he is so eager to see me, he already calls me pet names (he has even called me his girl already!), he is overly concerned for my health/safety (he's certainly more concerned about me than I am myself!), he isn't rushing me into sexual stuff. Yet I am reading all this scary stuff about Libra men being heart-breakers. Therefore, I come seeking insight, I guess. Is there any way to know if he is going to turn "bad" in the long run? Should I just end things now to spare myself the heartbreak? I really like this guy, but I don't want to be stupid and get my heartbroken in my very first relationship... Does it really depend on our charts??
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The info you've found isn't just a coincidence, but it shouldn't completely prevent you from dating the guy.

The fact that he's already referring to you as "his" girl after a few dates is typical Libra dude M.O. Don't allow yourself to be swooned by all this fun, charming bullshit they do in the beginning. First red flag to watch out for when it comes to that type of Libra is them moving FAST. You get so swept away and it's like, omg he's so into me, this is crazy!

But as soon as he gets you, he'll do a 180 and distance himself, contact tapers off, etc. He's backpedaling and making sure this is something he wants. Nevermind that he just led you to believe he was all in. But now, he's having "buyers remorse" because he reacted so impulsively.

That said, you just need to keep an eye out. There's no reason you should drop him because astrology says Libra dudes can be stupid assholes like that. If your experience so far has been fine, and you're okay with making sure to keep things slow, there's no reason to drop it. Just take it as it goes and see what happens.

If you start to see some dur red flags (sudden drop of regular contact, "busy" and insert some excuse about work or something else, doesn't make time to see you, etc.), then you exit stage left.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
The info you've found isn't just a coincidence, but it shouldn't completely prevent you from dating the guy.

The fact that he's already referring to you as "his" girl after a few dates is typical Libra dude M.O. Don't allow yourself to be swooned by all this fun, charming bullshit they do in the beginning. First red flag to watch out for when it comes to that type of Libra is them moving FAST. You get so swept away and it's like, omg he's so into me, this is crazy!

But as soon as he gets you, he'll do a 180 and distance himself, contact tapers off, etc. He's backpedaling and making sure this is something he wants. Nevermind that he just led you to believe he was all in. But now, he's having "buyers remorse" because he reacted so impulsively.

That said, you just need to keep an eye out. There's no reason you should drop him because astrology says Libra dudes can be stupid assholes like that. If your experience so far has been fine, and you're okay with making sure to keep things slow, there's no reason to drop it. Just take it as it goes and see what happens.

If you start to see some dur red flags (sudden drop of regular contact, "busy" and insert some excuse about work or something else, doesn't make time to see you, etc.), then you exit stage left.



See! This is the stuff that scares me!!!
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WHAT scares you? Reality? Wringing your wrists over the "what ifs?" The fact that you cannot control everything in typical Scorp manner? Calm the hell down, Jebus.

You shouldn't be dating if this is "scaring" you. Dating is all about seeing where things may go with a person. Sometimes things work, sometimes they don't. The end.

If you can't handle that, maybe you should become a hermit.
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Posted by ScorpioBoar
Also, don't listen to what rockyroadicecream has said; she (or he?) has been writing slanderous posts about Libras all over this place. She also appears to have a history of targeting/bullying people like you who have little experience in the dating and astrology world 😉
I wish you the best of luck!!!



You're a moron.

My post is far from bullying, just telling her to calm the hell down because she's making herself anxious due to not being able to control the outcome immediately. Given your age, you have no idea what bullying is due to your fragile ego. 🙂 Gotta give you credit for your inexperienced attempt though. Bravo. You get a cookie!
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Posted by Secret
InexperiencedScorp, be careful, don't do any mistake just because you read this or that... Go with your heart, mind and follow your instincts. Don't do anything stupid just because you read general assumptions.

BUT, if you have any doubts and are scared and uncomfortable than "exit the stage" following the emergency lights.



+1

All I'm seeing is a typical Scorp move- trying to control everything that may happen and looking for something wrong to panic over. It's that drama loving, self sabotaging some tend to do. She's barely started dating and she's already doing it.

Use the astrology to enlighten you, but don't use it as hard evidence of how someone will be with you. Despite my bad experiences, when another Libra rolled around in dating, I didn't run the other way. I was wary, but gave it a shot because things were going well with us.

...then the red flags flew up. Go figure, haha. But I didn't let it stop me from at least giving it a shot.

OP, you can't go around with this outlook that you have. "Omg everyone else said bad things, so I won't bother." Who DOES that? :/ Why so scared?
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I think it is you that have a fragile ego. You state your unwanted opinions on here as if you are the water giver to relationships which you are not. You just lead people to miserable destructive ends. Go away noone wants you on this site. Or should I have to IP ban you permanently??



Come on now, let's not give her too much credit; I think it's her intent to lead people to miserable destructive ends...
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Posted by MrBalance

I think it is you that have a fragile ego. You state your unwanted opinions on here as if you are the water giver to relationships which you are not. You just lead people to miserable destructive ends. Go away noone wants you on this site. Or should I have to IP ban you permanently??



Come on now, let's not give her too much credit; I think it's her intent to lead people to miserable destructive ends...
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If you think ANY of my advice is to mislead people to "miserable ends" you're just a fuckin' retard.

I feel sorry for you, really. Such fail of reading comprehension. Even sadder that you're readily agreeing with Mr. Tourettes over there, lolz.
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Posted by MrBalance

I think it is you that have a fragile ego. You state your unwanted opinions on here as if you are the water giver to relationships which you are not. You just lead people to miserable destructive ends. Go away noone wants you on this site. Or should I have to IP ban you permanently??



Come on now, let's not give her too much credit; I think it's her intent to lead people to miserable destructive ends...



If you think ANY of my advice is to mislead people to "miserable ends" you're just a fuckin' retard.

I feel sorry for you, really. Such fail of reading comprehension. Even sadder that you're readily agreeing with Mr. Tourettes over there, lolz.
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With your vocabulary and grammar, it's hard to fathom how someone could comprehend anything you write.
Out of curiosity, how old are you?