Do Libra men ever get jealous over their gf?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by mysteriousTaurus on Monday, January 26, 2015 and has 7 replies.

How Does a Libra Man Act When Jealous?

A Libra man usually acts jealous by going quiet, pulling back, or acting distant instead of saying anything directly. Many people notice he texts less, stops giving attention, or seems distracted while watching how you act with others. In real situations, he avoids conflict and hides it behind calm behavior, which makes his jealousy easy to miss at first.

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@mysteriousTaurus
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Do Libra men get jealous when alot of guys are attracted to their girlfriend, or when they see their girlfriend talking to other guys (friendly). If so, do you show it or keep it to yourself?

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@AprilAries
11 Years

Yes! They are very jealous and protective of their gf/wife! @beautifuldiaster you hit on the nail! Flirty themselves but unaware let them tell it. But will wait until you get home or some where private to tell you. But u can see it on their face and mood the entire with, U but not their friends. They will continue their regular program their to not let on that they are bothered , but U will def know! They hate confrontation though, but that's one thing that will piss them off! My exp.

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Sort of... I'm very territorial but I wouldn't be with someone i don't trust. The only time I've ever really been jealous, in the bad way, was after the trust was gone. The relationship was already in a tailspin at that point though.

When a relationship is good, I may still get a flare of jealousy but I laugh it off. Protip for dating a libra man: if he shows one of these unwarranted flares, give him a kiss and tell him you love him...problem solved.

I've been accused of being a flirt myself, and as stated here, I was always unaware. I don't know, I think if it would make me jealous it'd have to be pushing some boundary.

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@AesmaDaeva
12 Years500+ Posts

Jealous, no, probably territorial. There's a huge difference.

Jealousy is mere resentment over a perceived disloyalty even if there are no signs to bolster that perception.

Being territorial is knowing there are boundaries in place and proper social etiquette/rules/decorum that are deliberately or consciously being crossed or violated.

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@prettypiscean
13 YearsPisces

my bf is a libra sun, moon, venus and merc, mars in virgo though and he's very jealous and possessive.. He ask me to uninstall an app on my phone so no other guy friends can contact me even though thats where we first became friends so i deleted.. He's also told me "dont u ever use that app again, ur mine now, remeber?" And also even before we were bf/gf but were dating, he saw old pictures of me and my ex bf on a social network and he made a fuss abt it, even decided to cancel our date that night but when i told him okay lets not push through i will just get ready to get some rest, and i dont need to prove myself to u, he's change his mind and said sorry for how he reacted and the things he said, he even admitted that he got really jealous and ask me to remove the pics of me and my ex so i did to avoid all conflicts with him, the next day he asked if i can be his gf.. he's very established, got a good job and well educated but idk why he's being insecure and easily jealous.. I read libras are the least likely to be jealous so i thought maybe its his mars in virgo or idk

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Prettypiscean,

Unless it was a dating type app he had no excuse to get all worked up. The stuff you said about his mantrum about old pictures on Facebook is ridiculous. You did right to tell him he was being stupid. You shouldn't have caved in and removed the pictures though.

I understand the feelings he had, but he handled it like a child. No one "likes" pictures of their bf/gf with an ex, but get over it. Tell him if he can't handle the fact that you have a past he shouldn't go looking through it. He also can't tell you not to have friends either, that's just messed up. Tell him to stop crying.

Sidenote, having the rest of my life together doesn't give me any more confidence when it comes to dating.