Do Libras like it when you help them out?

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MEN in general don't like to be "helped" unless they've ASKED for it. Unsolicited "help" isn't seen as thoughtful and supportive and loving (like it would be to a woman)... it's seen as you thinking he's somehow weak and that he probably can't handle things on his own. Men like to HANDLE their BUSINESS. Even offering/volunteering help can be very insulting to them. He will ASK if he wants your help, even if male pride makes him do it more as a hint or something. "Man, I'm never going to get everything done at this rate. Wish there were more hours in the day." from him means you can say simply, "Can I do anything to help?" If he says no, ACCEPT it, and don't push.

Based on MY experiences with Libras, especially the one I share my life with... Libras in particular are flattered by the small things more than the big, obvious gestures. Someone mentioned making him a nice meal - a resounding YES. Just being there, quietly supportive, WITHOUT offering help or advice - YES. Being happy and pleasant to be around (which helps take his mind off his stresses), YES. Paying a bill, NO. Offering a loan, NO. Tidying up your home before he comes over, YES. Cleaning up HIS because he hasn't had the time, NO. Doing his laundry - if you live together, yes. If you do not, NO. (Same for running errands or picking up dry cleaning or groceries or even his MAIL unasked, NO!) Suggesting something fun and relaxing to do together because you'd like to - a night out on the town or a movie on the couch, depending on what appeals (and what finances allow), YES. Telling him, "You're stressed and overworked and need a night out." - NO. You mustn't "notice" that he may have too much on his plate right now - you must TRUST that he can HANDLE his business.

Care to tell us particular examples of the little things you think you might be able to do for him? We can tell you YES, NO, or IF ASKED for each one, probably!
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bella is right, dont force the issue the samll things yes, but big things will makes us, well sum,. feel luike we cant look to ourselves and what we are doing is wrong and we dont like being wrong. depending on how stressed i am will depend on how i respond, but that would make me feel real pleased inside and in return i would go out my way for someone like that but sum libras turn down help, not out of being unappreicitive but the strive to be independent. You would be surprsied how high a libra morals could be when it comes to eltionships, sum feel like they would rather do the helping with you and just try to get things done on their own

but even if we deny it, we wont forget it and thats what makes us come around more