Getting through to an upset libra man...

Sounds like he was only after the sex.

Regardless of the man's sign if he really wants to be with you, he'll be there with you no matter what issues come up after sleeping together

Broken charger my ass.

this is all seems like too much hard work for something that has been a week.

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this is all seems like too much hard work for something that has been a week.

NO. It’s perfectly normal. It should always be this difficult throughout until the very end. click to expand

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I did acknowledge the insanity of it all lol

Posted by RooSagicorn
Well I’m dating a Libra & I can tell you communication is very important. You need to tell them what’s going on with you, not just sneaking out. When I back up a little, he always asks what I want. But I also communicate, and show interest etc. and I don’t sneak out or let him wonder what’s up.

You seem to be giving mixed messages and I’d say he doesn’t trust you. Your actions need to line up to your words.

I think that’s what’s aggravating I actually have attempted to communicate but he refuses to talk about serious matters.

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Posted by ConsciousDreamer

Posted by RooSagicorn
Well I’m dating a Libra & I can tell you communication is very important. You need to tell them what’s going on with you, not just sneaking out. When I back up a little, he always asks what I want. But I also communicate, and show interest etc. and I don’t sneak out or let him wonder what’s up.

You seem to be giving mixed messages and I’d say he doesn’t trust you. Your actions need to line up to your words.

I think that’s what’s aggravating I actually have attempted to communicate but he refuses to talk about serious matter unless click to expand

I meant your communication in the beginning. Now you’re trying and he doesn’t seem to want to much.

I know communication has been huge with one I’m dating. He acted similar in the beginning to what you said happened in the beginning. But I was upfront & communicated from date 1 backing off but communicating why. He respected that, and it set the tone. click to expand

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Makes sense. And I think my biggest fear is attempting to be consistent and actually annoying him, which is why I fell back after the first incident. I’ve dealt with Libras before but for whatever reason this particular one bothered me a lot.

Libras hate talking about serious matters.we like to keep things light and airy.depending on your tone I might hear you out ,but don’t expect much input

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Posted by RooSagicorn
Well I’m dating a Libra & I can tell you communication is very important. You need to tell them what’s going on with you, not just sneaking out. When I back up a little, he always asks what I want. But I also communicate, and show interest etc. and I don’t sneak out or let him wonder what’s up.

You seem to be giving mixed messages and I’d say he doesn’t trust you. Your actions need to line up to your words.

I think that’s what’s aggravating I actually have attempted to communicate but he refuses to talk about serious matter unless click to expand

I meant your communication in the beginning. Now you’re trying and he doesn’t seem to want to much.

I know communication has been huge with one I’m dating. He acted similar in the beginning to what you said happened in the beginning. But I was upfront & communicated from date 1 backing off but communicating why. He respected that, and it set the tone. click to expand

Makes sense. And I think my biggest fear is attempting to be consistent and actually annoying him, which is why I fell back after the first incident. I’ve dealt with Libras before but for whatever reason this particular one bothered me a lot. click to expand

Well I know he attempts to have fairness or balance. Although he still does the majority of the communication, texting etc. I just kinda go off his lead. If he lets up, I make a little effort and then he makes a lot more lol. I think it’s just he needs to see some effort so he knows we’re on the same page. He told me he wants me to share in planning dates, so I do little efforts and it is highly appreciated.. cuz I’ve listened and responded. I find myself initiating more now just naturally & he always responds well, so I know that’s good. But if it were me & he wasn’t making much effort, I wouldn’t either. Because my theory is someone will show you what they want. I’m not going to beg you to do something. You have to want to on your own. I know the one I’m dating does not like being told what to do, or pushed but encourages asking for what I want. Idk if this helps?

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Yes, thank you. I’ve been reaching out more and he’s been talking more but still extremely apprehensive. And when I try to bring up if he’s even interested at all, he will avoid the subject but keep talking to me. From what he has said though (which hasn’t been much) I think I just genuinely hurt his feelings. So I’ll just continue consistency without being pushy and see what comes of it. Thank you for your help though! I’ll update if there are any changes.

Posted by Libra4love
Libras hate talking about serious matters.we like to keep things light and airy.depending on your tone I might hear you out ,but don’t expect much input

Yeah I brought up how when I’ve asked him serious questions he avoids them and he admitted he doesn’t like talking about them. But he also admitted before that he had a tough time expressing himself. I kinda just laid it out there where I stand and am trying to be consistent and will see what comes of it.