having a lot of trouble with this Libra Girl

I got some odd texts from a girl who told me that she doesn't see me that way, or that I am too old for her (she is 20, I'm 28)...but I can't understand why she would care enough to be so mad at me...

first text said something alone the lines of---I'm half your age and that didn't stop u, so how about you get f****d and stop pissing me off...

I sent one back saying I don't understand this or you, I told you I never called you a slut or a ho it was someone else I also asked why she didn't want 2 talk in person and for the 3rd time she threatened me with violence and told me "because I don't know what I would do to you" (for the 3rd time :/)...

I sent her back one saying this could have been avoided if you just talked to me in person and that I cared, she told me I was full of s**t and to leave her alone for a while...then I got a text from some random dude that told me to 'stop texting my gf' so I asked him who the hell he was and he told me he wouldn't waste credit on a loser like me.

What is going on in her head?, we used too hang out a lot and had great times, talked on the phone a lot and were quite close, all I did one night was tell her that she looked really beautiful and she leaped into the "I don't see you that way" speech.

But since then she has sent me abusive messages and asking me how is she supposed to feel and that she thinks about this s**t a lot.

I just do not understand, oh and she also lied to me about sending a Private Message to a guy friend of hers and I NEVER did...so either she or him were lying.

Here are some of the other Messages, a lot of what she says is lies r things she hears from other people...if you need any background feel free to ask questions please.

You are a dick for several reasons---

---. One of them being LOL at 'pretending to log out' of --- account, he's my friend and he thinks its 'really cool' to have a lot of posts and asked me to pretty much get as many as i could for him to get the post count up how the fuck is that bragging about my sex life i dont have one - i cant have one you fuckin idiot i told u aint no one goin near there for some while! and i wasnt obliged to tell you shit the only reason i told --- was because when i was in AK i was sick as and had to miss the 2nd day of the summit AND turn down a ticket to a party he got for me, and i wanted him to know that A) i was ok coz he was worried and B) the reason i didnt go wasn't because i was ditching him, it was coz i genuinely felt ill. and fuck u man always brag about my sex life—? when the fuck did i brag about my sex life! when --- told me one of my mates said i had a rep fr being a slut i thought she was twisting your words but i guess you thought u knew me well enough to say that shit about me ya fuckin asshole if ya knew me properly you'd know i dont have a re for anything except being a smartass and falling over shit occaisionally,i'm a ho ? man i stayed a virgin till i was nearly 18 when i found the right person even though all my mates had been fucking round since they were like 14, and I hav a REP for being a SLUT??


how dare you?? i cant believe the nerve of you, and THAT is the reason you deserve to get your teeth kicked in, at least you woudlnt be able to talk so uch shit anymore AYE.

PS* who the fuck are u to pm --- asking him to explain himself? get over YOU , harden the fuck up and dont you ever ever ever talk to me again coz im telling you now i seriously dont think id be able to control myself.

*=I have never sent a Private Message to this guy.

This is all over something that someone said, (a guy she slept with a few months back)somehow i got caught in the middle and the thing is it wasn't even me that called her a ho or a slut and told her that from the get go.


She won't even talk to me and I have no clue on what to do 😢

Just change everything ,your text services,phone numbers,emails,etc. and don't bother with it.She could be trying to make you look worse than whatever it is you really did or something.If she really wanted closure for something she'd say it otherwise it's just games and harrassment.Not a libra thing except for it IS the less desirable traits of a libra for her twisting stuff to play victem with her gossip friends to have you harrassed.

Thanks so much for the responses, the thing that annoys me is she isn't being an adlut about this, if we just talked things out then maybe we could find some middle ground, every text I get her from her as her telling me to get f*****d or that I am full of s**t.

It doesn't need to be this way and yes I do think she is a drama queen, I don't understand her, the last text I sent her was "2 play can play your game and K (a girl I have been seeing) said for you stop texting me and stop getting random dudes involved and this just has to stop, she replied with okay cool, who the f**k is K?

So I told her who she was but i said that has been hard because I have our s**t on my mind and I am tired of feeling s**t about this.

her reply..."Is that supposed to make me jealous or what?, cause I couldn't really care less don't text me anymore I have already told you to f**k off.

I do like this girl and we used to hang out a lot but it's just all crazy now...

Your 28 and she's 20, and said that she was half your age? You should have said "You act like your half my age." She definitely is a drama queen like the others have stated. Don't even try to reason with her, it just isn't possible. I knew a girl like this not too long ago. She probably blackmailed her boyfriend to text message that threat. Let her cool off for awhile and maybe she'll realize what a whacko she is, but until then don't think about how she used to be. She's shown her true colors now and they aren't good. I knew one other Libra female who was like this, she was the type who would probably falsely accuse an ex-bf of rape just to get revenge. But most Libra females aren't like that as Candlegirl said. They are very sweet and I like 'em.

I think this girl really does have some major issues, she sent me these rude Private Messages but I just read them and didn't reply back, she had digs at me on a message board and mentioned "if someone would reply to my numerous messages".

So think it's the attention and drama she enjoys and she isn't going to get them anymore...I blocked her from a private MP3 forum because she just leeches and doesn't add anyhting to it.

"stop f***n blocking me from the MP3 forum youve got no fucking right! i cant believe what an immature bitch youre being Man the f**k up --- and get the f**k off youre power trip f*****n idiot"


"oh and --- told me how you felt 'used' as well, poor you? man get off your trip! AND YOU WONDER WHY I WANT YOU TO F**K OFF! because of f*****n games like this! and for the reocrd, i did reply to your message but it didnt get recieved, and you know what it said? i dont have to tell you anything about my life im not f*****n obliged and youre a fool if you cant see its ALREADY over


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er...what's over exactly?

she is just scaring me now...why is she so angry and abusive?

Again the only thing im thinking is shes one of the "under evolved"(best thing I could think of to describe it)libras who are negative meddlers.I only ever dealt with one,the rest were normal libras which are pretty mildmannered and fair people.

I think that someone is telling her lies or she's just offended that maybe you didn't defend her against any of these statements made infront of you. Either way her reaction is... yeah odd... immature I guess.

This is just beyond idiotic.............just block her! She is a whacko.

*Waits for Elliot to come and tell you how to save her* Lol

Scorpman, I'm confussed...were the two of you dating?

No we never dated...we went out a lot and hung out a great deal but it wasn't dating...


It went down last night BIG TIME, she came over to my place (and brought "tough" 2 female friends with her) and yelled at me for about half an hour, I told her to leave at least 6 times but she wouldn't go...and when I told her I can't do this now you are bumming out my buzz...she pushed me a few times, told me I was a self centered asshole, called me a dick at least 20 times...and on and on and when she had tears in her eyes I tried to give her a hug and she nutted out and kicked and broke about 10 of my CD's.

and told me she originally came over to smash me in the face and leave me in a pool of blood and she wanted to smash up my computer and stereo.

...and she kept going at me about not knowing her from a bar of soap.

she also wrote a rhyme which was dedicated to me and she showed me this on my PC screen before she stormed out and said fucking read it because it's all about you.

:/

"not knowing her from a bar of soap"
No seriously what did you do? It had to be awful

Because otherwise her reaction is way out of hand

I think you've let her get away with too much, you need to put your foot down. Don't let her insult you and much less come into your house and break your things... respond with as much force and don't follow her games. No responding to texts or e-mails, she'll probably be after you once you ignore her completely.

^ I'm really not sure it could be a number of things, I slept with a girl and then told her it was over because i felt like she wanted that interested and was wasting my time, It might be because I sent her an e-card and then told her that it didn't mean s**t because it was sent well over a week ago...it might be because she was incredibly nasty to me so I called her a slore and told her to go f**k herself.

But the main thing she yelled at me about was bieng a self centered asshole and having no empathy for people...see we were quite close and she didn't tell me about her abortion until she got pissy at me...that hurt.

The rhyme (rap) she wrote for me was interesting and there were lots of things in it that made me think that she did dig me and that I went about things the wrong way.

examples:

"you may get a little less flex, and a tendancy to forget
but other than these, you aint entitled to shit-
dont get it twisted, its a privelege, must act right for that shit"

"id never touch you even if you did have something there. "

she put italics for certain words ie did & privelege, feel and fear

"i see straight through-
if i cant feel you, how can i fear you?"

"thats what you get when you neglect,
treating people right,
coz youre busy begging for head."

:/

I hate thinking about this and her face and words have been in my head all day, what did she hope to achieve here?...I guess I pushed her too this but she said some pretty hurtful s**t to me as well.

Great...I think I am doing the right thing by issuing a public apology on a message forum but no not only does pyscho girl put in her 2 cents but my so called best friends have s**t to say as well.

"who gives a f--k

it's ......he has no concept of the words "tact" or "smooth".

I would've thought people expect that type of shit from him"

and

"In regards to the thread in question I agree that it was a stupid move to publicise something no one on here gives a shit about and that could easily be resolved via pm's to those concerned which is why i locked it, yes, they know each other off the boards and things were sorted which is why I still dunno why the thread was made, ironically by the person spouting the acronym AW"


"IN saying that, youre 100% right about the 'gay public apology' thing

he woulda said it in real life if he had the chance to talk.


gay gay gay"

Yeah IF...you were to busy screaming at me and destorying my stuff and I actually did say it at least twice you told me it didn't mean s**t.

I am annoyed at my friends.

scropman, if they were your friends they wouldnt have posted those things about you...