Help me understand this libra man

Hello,

Some months ago I reconnected with an old friend, he found me on facebook because we have some friends in common and added me, after a looooong time of not hearing from each other.
He lives in another city, but we constantly chat on facebook or whatsapp, and talk on the phone sometimes. He finds any excuse to talk to me daily!

He comes to my city from time to time, and even though he is always very busy visiting his family and old friends he always takes time for me, everytime he comes here he invites me out. So far we have only been out together 4 times, because of the distance and time disponibility. I know for a fact that he haves a girlfriend, but he haves never talk to me about her.

We are only friends and he haves never make a move on me, but recently I have been noticing that he is being very flirtatious: constantly telling me in various ways that I'm very pretty, saying stuff like "there will be plenty of time to be a bad influence for you", or saying "If we ever live together we could do this or that"... and some other comments like that. Yesterday he was buying clothes and sending me pictures to give him "femenine advice" (shouldn't he be asking advice from his girlfriend?)

It is weird because he alternates from being veryyyyy flirtatious one day to being just plain friendly the next day. I'm a little confused, I don't really know much about libras, he is the first libra man I've met, and from what I've heard they can be very flirty without even wanting to.

I want your advice librans, am I reading too much into this? is he just being kind and friendly? or do you think there is something else? do libras act like this with friends?

Also he is coming to my city this weekend and we already have plans for going out, he asked me with a week of anticipation.

The others summed it up. Libra??s are just flirty like that. He might think your cute, and fun to be around but it doesn't mean he??ll cheat on his girl with you, or dump her to be with you. I??d say just enjoy the friendship. I had a Libra I worked with and he clearly had a thing for me but he had a girlfriend. So some days he??d flirt other days he??d just be my homeboy. Me being an air sign I just enjoyed the flirting as just two harmless good looking people having fun. Everyone in the office swore we were dating, so we chilled out sometimes but we were drawn to one another and they still to this day insist that he and I dated. We did not! Lol. Never even kissed.lol.

Posted by tiziani
If he asks you for clothing advice and a feminine opinion I'd say that's a clear sign he sees you as a non-threat. You make him feel comfortable so he is just being kind and friendly.

When I love a woman I like her to carry some sort of threat. I couldn't really imagine running clothing tips by her at all.

Threat?

@tiz: you mean excitement mixed with passion, a lil out of your comfort zone?

Dress to impress 😄

Guys, thank you very much for your responses, you are totally right, I was getting it all wrong he was just being friendly 🙂 It is good to know, this is the first libra man I've ever met so I don't really know how they are.