How can i get my libra back after 4 years

To be frank, i've been thinking about my past with him recently. It became worst when i dream about my ex quite often. Maybe im kinda crazy tho. He's my first love, and i can say, im kinda regret that we've been separated quite long and i cant remember what is the reason why we are suddenly broke up. As what i remember, he knew another girl, and same goes to me, i met another guy. But i cant recall how we end up our relationship.

I've been thinking about him quite sometimes, and i tried to reach him long ago. Im afraid to go to his house because its kinda rude (our culture as asian). Plus, i didnt really gt a gut to face him that time.

I miss him, and what can i say, he's the best one i ever had. Even my parents treat him well, give him some gifts and such. Compare with most of my boyfriends, its quite hard to convince my parents to really accept them.

One thing, he respect me as a women. We never fight or what i can i say, our relationship going really smooth and i didnt expect that this could happen. Maybe cuz, im quite transparent and i told him , i knew a guy before i met him, and that guy talk about sex and such to me.

Yea, after 4 years, finally i found him. Thanks to facebook. I found him, and im about cry, when i look at all his pictures, he's still the same. He's the nicest guy i ever met. Like seriously, he guide me to be a better person. But, i screw it up. Maybe that time, im quite young, so im a lil bit playful.

Maybe that time, i thought it is kinda boring cuz we didnt really met so often , i mean go for dating and such. Plus, few guy came to my life at that time, and i was wrong. I pick a wrong guy and i broke up with my first love.

He also met another girl, but i think it was misunderstanding, maybe im jealous so i accuse him that he is actually just another guy that is taking me for granted. But reality is, that girl is just a friend , and im the one that unfaithful in the beginning.

Actually i've been with him about 2 years. I still kept all the presents he gave to me. I still play all the songs that he dedicated to me. Seriously im pretty upset with myself. Why did i left and go for another guy that finally i found out , is a player. And im regret that i left something precious that im not really sure if i can get it back now.

Ok, here it is. He finally accept my friend request and we've been chatting few times . Im the first one that initiate to chat with him, and at first i can feel the coldness in his heart. He's quite serious now. I can say, i hurt him. Maybe because of that , the atmosphere is quite cold. Then, after few days, he ping me first. Surprisingly, it such a good time. We've some fun chatting and laughing. And i think, maybe there's still hv possibilities to get him back. Im serious, i want to make him to be my husband, until the end of my life. I wont regret.

But now, the problem is, how can i attract him back? How can i know if he want me back? What should i do. Im totally blank and only hoping that God will help me. Im really serious that i will do anything to get him back. Please help me.

- im an aquarius lady. (25 years old)

The 1st part is sad, the 2nd part is kinda creepy. But anyways, good luck, girl. I hope it works out for you.

Just curious though, how was he when you spoke to him? Did you sense interest?

I didnt really know. But yea, if he didnt really interested, he wouldnt inbox me right? But the thing is, the reason why he inbox me cuz he told me that he met a girl that knw his name but he didnt really knw that girl. Then he asked me, maybe that girl was my friend cuz she also from the same university . Actually my ex also from the same U, but he doesnt really mix with girl before. I asked him in detail about that girl he met. End up, i also didnt really know who the hell she is and end up, we laugh together. After that, yea.. No more chatting.

Im planning that i want to make a surprise birthday party for him. Maybe , with that, we can really hv a good time and maybe it can open his heart lil bit? But then i hv no idea how to approach him cuz i dont want to look like im desperate. I just want to take it slow.

Virgo: Im aquarius. Im 25. Home wrecker, what do you mean by that? He didnt married yet.

Thanks sugarfoot, i actually done that, i say sorry for what i've done. And yea, he is such a forgiving person. 🙂 but yes, there's long way to go to get him back. Any tips? 🙂

Just try the same way as you did 4 years ago when you wanted him also. He appear serious at begining now, but do not worry, once you send him many smiles and "hearts" and say you miss him, he will reply with the same warm to you. Try simple and you know what he likes . Just remember since 4 years ago . Is nothing wrong what you do now, you just recall your feelings back. I would do the same if I would miss someone . good luck.

Thanks a lot alisiya , u really helps me. Now im going to make any effort as long as i can gt him back. Only God knows how much i love him. Thanks again. I try my best. Wish me luck 🙂

lol i'm scared of you , but at the same time this story is cute !

go and get what you want in life 🙂

good luck and have a good day

ScarletLovers what is the result ? I know how much you love him , I also love a Libra and even now we are not together, I am sure he will be back , can be in 1-2 years, sooner or later, it doesn't matter to me, love is the same strong for him and will be always. I would like to know what's your result 🙂 As you see, here is a Libra's answer above, he also said "go and get what you want in life" , I love their positive thinking sometimes and all Libras think the exactly the same ! You will see this. If you want to know opinions, just enter in a website , dating website and try to contact with Libras. Ask them the same questions, you will see they all will responding the same ! I was doing this test ! It is true !

After read some posts, I became realized that we might have the same thing behind the stories. But my point is self worth and self esteem are the most important.

I began to realized that even though it sounds cliche, what meant to be, will be.

No matter what their signs, men and women are different creatures after all. Thats why God wants us together to complete each other.

After series of failed relationships, just remember, God wants us to be a better person before He eventually lets us to meet the person He chose for us.

There is no coincidence, everything happens for a reason. God wants us to learn from certain people who happen to come in our lives. Good times don't teach us as bad times do.