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How to win libra male back? Please help me..
Just a quick note : remember Libras hate too much fighting and nagging , It kinda knocks us off balance .Try to keep the fights to a minimum and focus on the promise of love . We can actually get physicaslly ill from stressful fighting
Fighting, nagging, clinging, pushing him to show more emotion... four of the quickest ways to drive away your Libra man. :/
And I WILL tell you to move on, for YOUR sake.. let the guy figure it out and decide what he wants, and if he wants YOU. It's a disservice to yourself to wait around and put your life on hold for a guy who can't even figure out if he wants to be with you. If he DOES.. he'll come and get you, trust me.
And I WILL tell you to move on, for YOUR sake.. let the guy figure it out and decide what he wants, and if he wants YOU. It's a disservice to yourself to wait around and put your life on hold for a guy who can't even figure out if he wants to be with you. If he DOES.. he'll come and get you, trust me.
Sorry to break it to you, I wont tell you to move on because I know that's easier said than done when in love. But my first question is what do you caps love about us libra's so darn much? We live on two totally different planets, and certainly see life differently in more ways than one. I dated a cap, and he literally scared me. He talks of marriage, and says he's in love with me and what not and I don't know how. I didn't stay with him long enough to find out, after all the tantrums, jealousy rages, and outburst of argueing I was too done in 3 mths.lol.
Anyway,back to you. In your case I'd say to give him space. Let him breathe. PLEASE!! We are air signs, which means we need our air to breathe, in other words we value our space. If a partner is too clingy we wont get bord like aries or sagg, but we start to rebel against you and you wont like it. (I trust you know what im talking about, which is why you nagged him so much) what you should've done was branched off and stayed busy, he would've came to you. We ALWAYS do, if you let us. With a libra, you have to give us just enough to know you love us, but respect our independence at the same time. Any bossiness, or negative energy will surely send us running for the hills. We are huge on the lovey dovey talk, but it has to be at the right moment, and at the perfect time, anything else and we will lift an eyebrow thinking "Oh brother??_, nice try tho!"lol. So when you get your phone back, text him saying "Hey my phone is back on. Just checking on. I love you. Talk to you later" and drop it! NOTHING ELSE! After you do this with no pressuring talk of a relationship and all that other butter, he will be curious which is GREAT thing. Keep him like this. Libra's are thinkers, and we LOVE to think. We cant help it. Let HIM think about you for a chance. Let feel like he needs to turn up the romance again. Go out have fun (don't date others) but go out with your girls, or family. Only texting him mild text messges like "Wassup. Miss ya. See you later" He will be like what the? And when he asks how your doing keep the convo light and lovely. I know your sign all too well, so all of this sounds easy, but just remember if he seems like he doesn't care HE DOES! Libras are smoooooth talkers, very good at saying exactly what the other wants to hear just to keep the peace. DO NOT be fooled. Just cool off, and be his friend, someone he can count. And don't forget to look like a super model everytime he see's you.
Anyway,back to you. In your case I'd say to give him space. Let him breathe. PLEASE!! We are air signs, which means we need our air to breathe, in other words we value our space. If a partner is too clingy we wont get bord like aries or sagg, but we start to rebel against you and you wont like it. (I trust you know what im talking about, which is why you nagged him so much) what you should've done was branched off and stayed busy, he would've came to you. We ALWAYS do, if you let us. With a libra, you have to give us just enough to know you love us, but respect our independence at the same time. Any bossiness, or negative energy will surely send us running for the hills. We are huge on the lovey dovey talk, but it has to be at the right moment, and at the perfect time, anything else and we will lift an eyebrow thinking "Oh brother??_, nice try tho!"lol. So when you get your phone back, text him saying "Hey my phone is back on. Just checking on. I love you. Talk to you later" and drop it! NOTHING ELSE! After you do this with no pressuring talk of a relationship and all that other butter, he will be curious which is GREAT thing. Keep him like this. Libra's are thinkers, and we LOVE to think. We cant help it. Let HIM think about you for a chance. Let feel like he needs to turn up the romance again. Go out have fun (don't date others) but go out with your girls, or family. Only texting him mild text messges like "Wassup. Miss ya. See you later" He will be like what the? And when he asks how your doing keep the convo light and lovely. I know your sign all too well, so all of this sounds easy, but just remember if he seems like he doesn't care HE DOES! Libras are smoooooth talkers, very good at saying exactly what the other wants to hear just to keep the peace. DO NOT be fooled. Just cool off, and be his friend, someone he can count. And don't forget to look like a super model everytime he see's you.
ALibra has some good advice there ..and her last sentence is also valuable info..
taking notes from Alibra... 🙂
@Alibra thanks so much that really helped me because that is something i was wondering if would help you know if I just be his friend and look fab everytime he sees me to woo him back in! and i think he has had more then enough space considering we havent spoke going on three months lol Thanks again!!! 🙂
Posted by ALibra
Sorry to break it to you..... he see's you.
all of that.
Also this really does apply to most men. They don't have easy days. A man walks out of his house in the morning and he has to fight all day, prove something all day, that he's better than the next guy, the last thing they want is to argue and fight. That is not to say for a woman to be a doormat. Strength in women should be shown with velvet gloves on. So no wishy washy, clingy, poor me bs. Just be you. The happy and strong you. That is attractive.
Your welcome. I hope everything works out for you! 🙂
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