What's up with this Libra?

I recently met a Libra man (2 weeks ago).

All was going well but he constantly bombards me with messages, gets clingy if I can't reply immediately and is basically moving waaaaay too fast for my liking.

I have a really busy job (which he knows) and was previously in a rubbish marriage, so he knows I don't have the time or the inclination to be in a heavy relationship. I thought he understood this and that he was great as he was busy too...but now this.

What's with him??

Me: leo born 3rd August 77
Him: Libra born 3rd October 78

Any advice/insight?

I don't get a chance to message him first. He always initiates contact and I am chasing my own tail trying to keep up with all the messages and calls he bombards me with.

I have told him this evening that is too much and he should be more considerate of the fact I can't give him constant attention, he apologised and has backed off (by backing off I mean he hasn't text me for 3hrs). I like him and dont want to stop seeing him because of this, I just don't get why he is so full on!

He probably sends me about 50 text messages a day - from the minute i get up to the minute i go to bed. Its exhausting. He is lovely with it, saying sweet things etc but it's just too much

I s=don't have a problem with being "too nice",just find it strange that he doesn't have any consideration for the fact I don't sit at home all day waiting to entertain him. I didn't think Libras were like that? i thought they valued their feeedom and didn't like clingy girls?

So I dont understand the suffocating behaviour once they get one 🙂

Yes, I know I may have been a bit selfish there with regards to how he may feel. Great, now I feel awful!!

Actually you are wrong, I do like him. I just don't like feeling smothered or controlled. There's a difference.

As he "pretends"? Eugh, careful you'll dent my Leo ego! 🙂

Yes, and I appreciate your comments,although just because his "wooing" style differs from mine doesn't mean I can't like him, I just wanted to understand where he is coming from as it's not how I am at all. I am generally quite reserved until I know someone better.

Was only after some insight...

50 texts a day ?! He may have love butterflys in his heart but needs a life ....

I mean he needs a life 😛

Posted by leogirl77
Actually you are wrong, I do like him. I just don't like feeling smothered or controlled. There's a difference.

there sure is. no matter how much i like someone, doesn't mean i can't deal with being bombarded. i get where you're coming from

and too little contact isn't good either, so a happy medium gets the thumbs up from me.

you know? give me a chance to miss you/don't ignore me. et voila!