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Hey all 🙂

I had a question for all the Libras here....This thread sounds so sad - and hilarious at the same time.
F*&k it, whatever. Help me out.

I keep reading about how much Libra's love beautiful women whom are in shape and not over-weight. I am far from skinny. (I'm a size 18) So this bugs the crap out of me. We have never talked about my weight before because I am so embarassed of it - I refuse to even begin that conversation. **** For those who are here just to critisize; I am actually doing very well on my weightloss. I used to be a size 28 last year, and have managed to lose 60 lbs so far. Its just that this is bothering the crap out of me in the meantime.****

I happen to be a a girl that is more on the 'fluffy' side. (lol) Thick, chunky, wtf ever. Without going into major details - I have never had any issues having a boyfriend, or getting dates - etc. I used to model so I hold myself well, have good confidence, and I also tend to attract all sorts of people. But for some reason, my weight/size reeeeeeeeally bugs me now that I am with my Libra.

He has never made me feel that he wasn't attracted to my body. but it's almost like him not saying ANYthing - makes me think everything. Most of the women he has liked are much my opposite size wise. Even famous women that he admires are usually average looking but more on the smaller side.

Being a chunky girl; men I'm with tend to tell me all the time 'oh i love women like you'... 'i find your shape attractive', etc. But with this guy he has never said anything.

He tells me that he loves me, thinks I am beautiful etc... but it's almost like my weight is the elephant in the room? I just know that Libra's can be shallow; and even if not so much on the outside. I am scared to death that I'll gross him out during sex - or that he's secretly thinking 'ick'. I just want to be perfect for him; and he's so happy with me the way that I am, the least could do is fix this.

So for you Libra men out there - does this sound possible to you? Do you think that he may secretly be thinking 'jeeez, she's put on a few pounds...not sure if i like that'