Im so into him ..

This topic was created in the Libra forum by turtlechelle on Tuesday, May 12, 2009 and has 6 replies.

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@turtlechelle
17 Years

Heres the story again im married but i love someone else who i feel like is my true love we have tons in common get along well, both look good (to each other ) that is everything just feels so right about this guy. I think about him constantly every man i see some how reminds me of him. Sometimes hes a little stand offish im not sure if thats because hes a capricorn r not. I dont know i feel it n my gut when we spend time together that he could probally really fall for me but the problem is my husband. who by the way is a big cheat living a double life so i dont really feel bad about my feelings for this other guy.I really feel lost and confussed cause i dont know how to put him out of my mind i want him so badly its unbearable...

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@sucha_d0ll
17 YearsCancer

Honestly - I think you should work on your personal affair with your husband before adding more seasoning to the pot. If you husband is cheating on you; then leave him. You cheating on him isn't doing any better.

If you love this other man - then why not start your relationship off on the right foot? With out any deceit or unfairness on either part involved?

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@turtlechelle
17 Years

ppl always suggest leaving ive brought the issue p wit my husband when i found out about the last bitch, he doesnt want to let me go, n i understand i wouldnt want to let me go either. We do have a child together which is the real reason we married anyway. I've seen men neglect their responsibilites as a father just cause they r no longer wit the mother. i dont want to see that happen to my baby. At the same time I dont see us living happly ever after, especially since im so hung up on someone else. Just the company and affection of my friend helps some i just cant help but to want more. I know i have made a big mistake gettin married idk what to do.

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@turtlechelle
17 Years

i see where u coming from though i used to b the one who detested cheaters n didnt get why ppl wernt just happy wit who they chose to b wit. Really idk

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@turtlechelle
17 Years

i see where u coming from though i used to b the one who detested cheaters n didnt get why ppl wernt just happy wit who they chose to b wit. Really idk

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@turtlechelle
17 Years

i know yal r right but damn this is the most challenging thing i have ever been through, i know i seem stuck on stupid right now i guess its one of those situations that have to play itself out.