In a messed up situation......HELP

Don't know what to do. Don't know what to believe. Where should i start? EX- jerk of a boyfriend of 3 1/2 years gave me poor treatment. He even had his friend contact me pretending to be him contacting me. Issue 1----> his friend now claims to be inlove with me. Issue 2---->he has been chasing for years now. I enjoy talking to him but i could never picture myself dating my ex's friend even if he was a total jerk of a libran boyfriend. The friend is also libra. Says he fell inlove with me during messaging me for my ex. It's got me messed up. I don't know if libra friend is lying in order to finally get me (its been years since he's been chasing me). Its weird also because although unsaid to him we connect because he gets me. He listens, He's patient, comforts me and is the complete opposite of my ex. Plus its given that maybe it was him i fell for. I don't want to lose his friendship but i don't want to disrespect the jerko ex although i don't owe it to him. so any suggestions ? PLEASEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!

If the guy truly cared about you he never would have agreed to help your boyfriend mess with your head. Plus, sounds like the guy has lousy taste in friends. How do you know he is not still playing a game? You deserve better. Move on.

Your situation is NOT complicated. Relax. This is fvkin easy.

Just say no to bad dick.

Posted by Impulsv
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Why complicate when these two are not the only men.

^THIS!
It's Pretty solid, sensible advice!

Really great to be able to talk to you guys and really say what's on my mind. Sometimes the ones who are close can't understand or you simply don't think its for them to know. All of your advises....Thank You. I see a new light.

1. Start else where
2. They didn't care
3. Bad dicks Begone!!!!!

Friendship however is tricky after all, some people just have that easy flow tongue, where words just flow easily and they trick you into falling for them by doing all they know they should do to get you just to get you and then turn into the devil that they really are.

I know better though!

This is the worst thing I can hear about Libra .... but definitely there are so many other bad things about them.................. It is possible his friend to stole your contacts and talk with you without let him know. I also had this feeling with my Libra. I hear some words from my Libra like I don't think so he said that words.... I was thinking I am not talking with the same person and if you know well the mode of his talking , you can figure out if was him or not. But in your case, you say sure you know was his friend ?
Other possibility is , your Libra passed you to his friend , but that does not mean his friend is in love with you ! His friend only help your Libra (Jerk) to separate of you pretending he is fall in love with you ! Is painful, but men do this crazy games without thinking about how much they hurt a woman's heart. In special Libras which are very manipulative peoples.
Better you stop any contact with both of them and don't let yourself in this game anymore, because you should be sure that no one loves you from this two creatures , is only their game !

Its a known fact that it was his friend. Pain creates hate. Often times than not i sit down thinking what it is i done to this guy for him to treat me that way and then thats just it i remember all the poor treatment and it saves me from going back there. He's just not grown enough yet. I know he will be back again but as for me i'll be inlove with the right guy. I forgive him, you can't blame a person who doesn't know what love look likes. When matures enough to that level i guess he will understand and see the truth. Karma my friend is a cold hearted bitch. He'll see. I broke off all communication, learnt to just let him learn the hard way.