As I was reading some topics I wondered a few things. Could I get some insight on a few questions going on in my mind? I was reading about Libras mirroring other people but who do they mirror if he is in a group? Would it be a close friend or so,some he is interest in?
What do libra guys want to see as their green light? How do I show him I'm interested?
My questions are because this libra guy has been mirroring me a lot. I don't know if it is because he is interested or if it's just his nature. But with a group he mirrors me and will chose to stand or sit next to me.
This guy is a sweet heart. When I visit I don't have to pay for anything even though I have told him I can pay my own and get a hotel. I offer help with the farm but he will not let me. I have just started helping him and skipping the asking. Lol. Some of his behavior makes me think he likes me and my friends think so too but my sister keeps telling me he's being nice because I'm his client. I've been around when other clients were at his farm and he treats me differently.
He has done some things have have made me do a lot of thinking. One being We scheduled a visit and when I got the farm he had a injury. I never asked him why he didn't call and reschedule. I arrived on Saturday. I figured he'd got hurt the day before but he told me he hurt his ankle that Wednesday. I'm glade he didn't reschedule lol because we rode around the farm on his golf cart. We stayed up all night talking about random stuff in the barn but that's something we do a lot of when I visit. We even talked about cats and don't like cats. Lol For a year I had no idea he didn't like cat but his friend told on him. Poor thing couldn't look at me. He was busted. That alone makes me wonder why the need to make me think he liked cats when he don't.
Another visit was a quick one that came up because of my horse getting sick. I was down and not my normal happy smiling self. He was dawn... And as I was standoffish he was too. The cute thing was when I stood in my horses stall caring he would come and peek in on me. I didn't want him to see it but I know he did. My horse got to feeling better so I started getting back to my normal self... So did he. He was smiling again and so was I.
He has two guys that work for him and their all good friends. Well, they keep grinning and one of them will just look my way for no reason and smile. I don't know if they know I like him or if he has said
What do libra guys want to see as their green light? How do I show him I'm interested?
Well in group settings a Libra is not in mirror mode. The purpose of the mirroring effect is the Libra??s way of keeping everything balanced and fair. If you smile at him he??ll smile back, you frown at him he's going to frown back. You call him a lot he??ll call you a lot. If you show him affection he??ll show you affection. Getting a Libra to do more than you in a courtship will be like pulling teeth, unless they have a lot of fire in their chart, in that sense they will be a little more aggressive, or water to which they will be more into their emotions and feelings.
This guy seems to genuinely like you as a person. If you want it to be on a romantic level you might have to take the lead. Because if you continue to throw subtle hints, that's all you??ll get back from him in return. I had a Taurus and just recently a Gem who has liked me for a while realize that the subtle hints don't work too well with me. He knew I liked him; but he realized he had to be the one to step up and make a move otherwise we wouldn't get anywhere.
I don't do subtle either. Just because we're hanging out, I don't think you like me like that. This is the bad side (in my stupid head) about being friendly...everyone likes hanging out with me. Groups or one on one, I get along easily with most anyone.
Him not rescheduling when he was hurt, his treating you differently, him seeking you out in a group to be near you...he likes you. I treat everyone good, a lady I like gets extra attention and consideration. The only way I care who I'm standing or sitting by, is if there is someone I want to be near.
How tp show interest? Have you broken the touch barrier? Not saying to walk up and grab his balls (though that would definitely show interest) just casual. Touch is a biggie to me. I'll sit and talk with anyone, most people keep their hands to themselves.
No touching. I've put my hand on his shoulder but nothing other than that. We've sat knee to knee and shoulder to shoulder but I don't think of that as touching. He gets shaky when I hand him something. To me he acts like he don't want to touch or even bump my hand. He stood over my boots and never moved back. He just stood looking down at me while I put on my boots. I'd like to break that no touch but I don't want to make him feel uncomfortable.
I've never been the type to chase or flirt with men. My few relationships were started by the man. I like him but I'm ok with us being friends too. I would rather it become more but I don't want to push or scare him away. I am a Sagittarius with some scorpio tendencies and he has some virgo tendencies.
Lol. You wont scare him away, and there's a way for a lady to let a man know she's interested without seeming like she's chasing him. I??ve never taken the lead and asked a guy out, but I??ve definitely let it be known I'm interested on a deeper level. I start out by smiling, and heavily flirting. I may show interest in his cologne, or the fact that he got a new haircut, and I??d pour on the compliments(of course I??d expect some in return, and if I don't get them then I??ll assume he doesn't like what he see's and I??ll leave him alone completely). Give him a tight hug when we leave one another??s presence. I may even crack jokes, and play fight him. Like the gem I mentioned he's silly and always saying something crazy so I may playfully sock him in the arm and laugh at him, other times I??ll go in for a hug when I leave him. Anyway, it seems he is too shy for your taste, and you wont get anywhere if you wait on him to take the lead. I just don't see it. A libra man goes off of the energy of their partner, because they are so keen on keeping things balanced. If you become direct with him, he will be direct with you. Even if you let him know there's a great movie coming out that you would like to see, but the thought of going solo seems dreading, and would he be interested? Or let him know you keeping hearing about a really good bar in town, ask him to meet you up there to check it out and share some laughs. Get some drinks in him and pick his brain. lol
Well we haven't played fought, yet lol but he has teased me and he will look my way when he's doing something and make me laugh. We joke with each other and have some odd conversations. Lol. He doesn't seem to be the shy type but he's done some cute things that make me wonder. Lol I know how friendly libras are that's what I'm concerned about. What would be that different action that would stand out from Being a friend, client, or some one he likes to hang out with. Also I'm not 100% sure he's single and I'm Not sure how to ask him.
So, what if a libra don't like a person. I know their very social but I've seen people try to talk to him and if he did what he was doing to them It would make me wonder. Lol. I mean when we talk we have eye contact but I've seen him completely turn his head from other people. I don't know of he was listening or not lol.
He will also do this odd thing when he talks to one of his close friends. He'll look at me but talk to him. I can't Figure out if he's trying to see my reaction to what he's saying or trying to see if I'll but in. He's kind of a puzzle compared to the Other libras I know.
If a Libra doesn't like you, then you will notice that you are the one making all the contact or starting all the conversation. They won't really respond to your advances. For example I really like this Gemini right now??_our contact is pretty balanced??_for now anyway. I respond to all his text. Every single one, some of them he barley gets 5seconds before I reply unless I'm sleep or not near my phone, or working. He calls I always answer. I always want to be near him, and when I'm not near him I'm on his page looking at his pictures just to get an image of him for the day.lol. Of course, he??d never know these things because I don't want him to know. Guys tend to take advantage when they know you like them that much. So in your case, it's a bit different to tell though because neither one of you have made a move really, so as I stated before you will always be at this stand still. If you??re not willing to take a chance and ask him out for drinks or something, then you??ll never know if he's interested or just being his normal sociable self. Even if you don't want to come right and say —Hey lets go check out this new bar, or eatery?? You can start out by asking —Wow I'm glad it's Friday?? (his response) —So what are your plans for the weekend— (his answer) If you want to know if he's single or not??_flirt with him one day in casual conversation, like throw a compliment out about how he has a nice smile or impeccable taste in clothes (Secrete: there's not a Libra on the planet that doesn't LOVE a good compliment, no matter how small; we LOVE LOVE them) Then giggle and say —Tell your girlfriend she is one blessed woman.?? He might blush and say —What makes you think I have a woman— Then you can say, —Well I guess I shouldn't assume but you are handsome, smart and cool so I figured who would leave you on the market.?? By now he??ll be showing every tooth in his mouth, and possibly turning beat red on the inside. Now you got him, so follow and say —Well am I right— Then he??ll give you an answer. You??re a sagg, so I know you can pull this off. So stop fronting. LOL.
I was reading about Libras mirroring other people but who do they mirror if he is in a group? Would it be a close friend or so,some he is interest in?
What do libra guys want to see as their green light? How do I show him I'm interested?
My questions are because this libra guy has been mirroring me a lot. I don't know if it is because he is interested or if it's just his nature. But with a group he mirrors me and will chose to stand or sit next to me.
This guy is a sweet heart. When I visit I don't have to pay for anything even though I have told him I can pay my own and get a hotel. I offer help with the farm but he will not let me. I have just started helping him and skipping the asking. Lol.
Some of his behavior makes me think he likes me and my friends think so too but my sister keeps telling me he's being nice because I'm his client. I've been around when other clients were at his farm and he treats me differently.
He has done some things have have made me do a lot of thinking. One being We scheduled a visit and when I got the farm he had a injury. I never asked him why he didn't call and reschedule. I arrived on Saturday. I figured he'd got hurt the day before but he told me he hurt his ankle that Wednesday. I'm glade he didn't reschedule lol because we rode around the farm on his golf cart. We stayed up all night talking about random stuff in the barn but that's something we do a lot of when I visit. We even talked about cats and don't like cats. Lol
For a year I had no idea he didn't like cat but his friend told on him. Poor thing couldn't look at me. He was busted. That alone makes me wonder why the need to make me think he liked cats when he don't.
Another visit was a quick one that came up because of my horse getting sick. I was down and not my normal happy smiling self. He was dawn... And as I was standoffish he was too. The cute thing was when I stood in my horses stall caring he would come and peek in on me. I didn't want him to see it but I know he did. My horse got to feeling better so I started getting back to my normal self... So did he. He was smiling again and so was I.
He has two guys that work for him and their all good friends. Well, they keep grinning and one of them will just look my way for no reason and smile. I don't know if they know I like him or if he has said