So I was reading an old astrology book (circa 1996) and came accross an interesting interpretation of the Libra males perceived hot and cold behavior. I've read several posts where everyone says they have an amazing ability to make women feel like they are the only one in the room and then they don't call for days. This book is like many others where it explains their need for freedom and space to balance out and work out other areas of their lives (as an Aries I totally get this). Notes the difficulty in making decisions but in terms of women attributes it more to "He wants you very near there when he needs you, very not their when he doesn't". So what do you guys think, is it indecision or more of a need to balance freedom and other areas in their lives and possibly that a lot of women tend to read into and obsess about it because they are so freaking hot and charming?
Insight on the Libra male?

Bcoz we truly care about the other person in the most purest fashion.
It is the balance and freedom. I have noticed that when Libra males are with intense personalities, regardless of how in love or how much they care about the other person they are more firm about getting their space. When they are with calm, relaxed personalities it becomes much less of an issue.
When I am with someone who is intense and high strung I can only be around them for a short period of time, no matter how much fun I am having or how much I like them. If they are calm and relaxed I could spend forever with them without feeling I need to get away.
I myself am a pretty calm and relaxed person. When there is a lot on my mental plate I do have a bit of nervous energy but If everything has a nice balance to it or there is a source of harmony around I am really calm and laid back. I am still firm, still myself, still thinking, but I don't feel like I need my own space.
When I am with someone who is intense and high strung I can only be around them for a short period of time, no matter how much fun I am having or how much I like them. If they are calm and relaxed I could spend forever with them without feeling I need to get away.
I myself am a pretty calm and relaxed person. When there is a lot on my mental plate I do have a bit of nervous energy but If everything has a nice balance to it or there is a source of harmony around I am really calm and laid back. I am still firm, still myself, still thinking, but I don't feel like I need my own space.
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