Libra love

When a libra man loves you, they show you in every form and fashion. Romantic at best, attentive sexually, and affectionate at the most unexpected moments. There are no guessing games. Understanding them is what seems to get most women confused.

Librans are charming, considerate and loving to all who matter in their life, whether you are a friend, lover, mate or relative.
This is what can make their partner's confused as they are people persons and seem to show much love for all parties that matter in their life.

Libran's ultimate peace is harmony in relationships, conflicts can turn their interest pretty fast. They love hard and fall hard in love, once the decide to. Most times, they know their potential partner from the beginning. They persue intensly and are sure to make you aware of their interest. They might not verbalize it before you do, but they make it obvious.

When they say what they want (out of a relationship) in that moment, that is exactly what they mean. If they change their minds you will know. I have also seen where, because of their charm, interest and they making you feel like the only person in their world in your presence, people take it to mean more than what it is.

My libra is in love with me/I with him and it is the best feeling in the world. Keep some of these key things in mind when wondering about them and through these keys you will find answers to a lot of your questions.

Just my 3 cents.

I think a lot of what you typed is true.

I think my Libra is in love with me....but what makes me question things is the way he sometimes says things like "I want to go to Europe with you in December, ....if we're still together" or "....we've only been together for 6 months"....

these things confuse me and make me put the brakes on.

Also, if he is in love with me, why won't he say it? It's been 6 months and I haven't said anything because of these comments he sometimes says.

HP, I really can't say exactly regarding, his comments about how long you have been togeter or if you will be together at a certain time. I personally, never had that problem... He does seem to love you, but he seems to be still recovering from his marriage and still has a couple of SMALL boundaries around his heart (you know, not letting go totally and completely)so, he might need a little more healing...

I Love you is normally shown first, then said, most times after you say it. It is sort of an not-gettin-ego crushed thing. I think. If you feel you truly love him, tell him, he will most likely respond, "I love you too."

QS your post is bang on!

LS, I guess am a good student, especially through trial and error... LOL!!! 🙂

Another point I noticed. When a Libra does confess their love to you, if you ask them why? (Something I do, just to hear what a person response is. I do it in a playful way though). The answer will mostly likely be. "Because I just do." See, they don't really need a major reason, Libras just love because they love... It isn't as scientific as it seems.

The most thing that I admire them for, is what drives most crazy... When they are deciding something, they think of the possibilities from every angle, always thinking with the head over heart. Something that I myself, aspire to do. Most times whatever their final decission is, is normally the best one for the situation because of this. Including relationships...

* Most times whatever their final decission is, is normally the best one for the situation because of this.

That's what they say. When a libra makes a decision, it is seldom wrong.

"but what makes me question things is the way he sometimes says things like "I want to go to Europe with you in December, ....if we're still together"

The reason he adds the "if we are still together" part on the end is because even though he still sees himself with you, or can see himself with you he is not going to allow himself in any way to seem like he is being assumptive and in his mind possibly make you feel like he is taking it for granted, or deciding for you that you will still be together in six months. He is checking himself, careful to never let it seem or make him feel that he posesses you in any way. In his mind, if he is in love with you, it is because of your resolve in love with him that will dictate weather or not you are still together in December to go to Europe with him. You are still a free woman, who has wants and needs and he is a romantic who will do what it takes to meet them and he wouldn't have it any other way.

Sometimes making plans in newer relationships makes us feel, because a lot of people do it without realizing it and we see it, that the external plan is a tool used to solitify the relationship. Remember, Libra love is just a basic appreciation and the ONLY reason that a libra is with you, or that the libras partner is with the libra is that they WANT to be, in every moment.

There is no escaping the objective, no matter the strength of the want. He is just being objective in pointing out that december isn't here yet and and nothing is cirtain.

Hmmmm those posts are unbelievably inspiring!! As per usual duh!!

OK so last night my Libra man (whom I had put down as just a special friend now - I tried, I really tried for almost 9 months) tells me on the phone that he loves me - now come on!! Now that Im trying to move on, he wants to tell me his feelings?? what the—

What is this guy doing to me?? He had me 9 months ago, why now does he want to pull me back in yet again? argghhhh!!!! He has even booked me a week ahead to catch up (OMG he NEVER made plans in advance, it was always last minute decisions, or a days notice at the most)....ummmmm confusion is once again in my life or should I say in my heart.

I was starting to move away from thinking about him every day, yada yada yada....but ummm...ok roller coaster ride here I go again LOL

P.S. He never phoned before, now he's phoning regularly....funny now he can pick up the phone and make human contact rather than wait for me to log onto chat at nights in the hope of catching me.

Maybe he is somewhat normal afterall *screws nose up*

😛

Chatz, he has explained to you what he has to offer and you want more. Either you can accept what he can give you or go with what you want. Being in between will always make you feel you are on a rollercoaster and get your feelings hurt and the back and forth thing. Telling you he loves you is great, did he say anything relating to a relationship with you? Which is what you have told him you want.

Remember, Libras love all who are dear to them, now he needs to specify this love. Is he "in love" with you and willing to be in an exclusive relationship or is he still not able?

QS I have sent you an email explaining 🙂

thanks for your viewpoint, Nic. Very insightful....*sigh* as always.

QS - great post! You seem to have a good understanding of their nature.

Nic - awesome insight. I think most women who have a totally different perspective of what "if we're still together" could mean.

Poor Chatz! You have been thru sooo much from reading your past posts, I am frustrated for you! Maybe it is his sentimentality? I think you should hang out with him and give him one last shot. If that doesn't work why not look for another Leo? (I think you are a Leo) I personally cannot do the male Aries thing as an Aries, but it might work for you.

* he is not going to allow himself in any way to seem like he is being assumptive and in his mind possibly make you feel like he is taking it for granted, or deciding for you that you will still be together in six months. He is checking himself, careful to never let it seem or make him feel that he posesses you in any way.

Absolutely 100% agree.

firegirl thank you...all is going really smoothly actually and that's the thing, the turnaround has me confused....I was getting used to his wishy washy ways and now he's become a normal human being - LOL

Leo and Leo?? hmmmm I did actually try that for a very short while and it was nice for a while but he was so demanding and selfish, it was always about him - hmmmm must be something in his starsign LOL....nah, we are still friends which is always a bonus.

The Libra is showing me a better side at this stage - Im wary but will definitely give him the time and we all know how smitten I am with him - how can I not?? Im so looking forward to Sunday though - a REAL date!!! booked a week in advance...Im still shocked LOL.

"* he is not going to allow himself in any way to seem like he is being assumptive and in his mind possibly make you feel like he is taking it for granted, or deciding for you that you will still be together in six months. He is checking himself, careful to never let it seem or make him feel that he posesses you in any way"

Absolutely 100% agree....me too!!!

My guy finally said those 3 little words last night...

I'm on cloud 9.

Yay!!!! 😉

I know...YAY is right.

It was raining this morning and I didn't want to get out of bed....just wanted to freeze frame the last 10 hours.

Hehehehe good one HP 🙂

OMG, OMG, OMG I had a REAL date with Mr. Libra!!! OMG, OMG, OMG!!! nice!!! We had loads of fun, went to a cafe and lapped up some rare sun at the moment having a few drinks, chatting away, went for a stroll through the mall and just did window shopping holding hands, yada yada yada...it was such a casual date but wow!! And last night? well that's always awesome and I'll spare you the details. As he left this morning he asked whether I'd like to come over to his place and hang out during the week - OMG!!! I've been once briefly in the past 9 months but he's made a big deal of me coming over....he asked a few times (I think I forgot to say yes the first time because it was just such a shock for him to ask LOL).

Anyway he's giving off some great vibes now....I think that little confrontation some weeks back turned this all around *shrugs*

OK back to cloud 9 🙂

That's great Chatz! Did you have the exclusive relationship talk? Really, did you mention anything about the two of you being serious? Don't make it mean more than what it is if you haven't.

I don't want to seem as though I am raining on your parade, just don't want you to get sucked in again, without getting what you REALLY want. Y'know.

Nah no exclusive talk....I was just too blown away that we went on a real date and it was a full day just being out with him....but as he has asked to hang at his place this week? I will probably bring the subject up then when we are just being casual and relaxed rather than potentially put a negative on what was a really nice day and what to date has never happened with us...we talked a LOT about just anything and laughed?? OMG did we laugh - the medicine we both needed. He did, however, (and this hasnt happened before either so I dunno) say "we" a lot in regard to doing stuff in the future and has already told me he'd like to do something similar as yesterday this coming weekend and of course I said yes 🙂 It did seem like he had something on his mind though and as he did mention during last week he'd like to talk to me about stuff I can only assume he wanted to say more than what he did say but honestly, its been baby steps until now, but he's been taking some leaps lately and I can see he's scared to put himself out there...he is trying though - I can see that so yes, I will make it easier for him by entering the subject this week but for now? I think its best we both just enjoy a couple of days apart and do our own thinking...Im sure he'll do a lot of that.

Just to know that I will see him mid week, at HIS place, then know we are going to have another day on the weekend together?? that's security enough at the moment....until now its been ad hoc get togethers.

Trust me, Im not going to make a big deal out of this (lord knows I've had my fair share of pulling out hair, tears and frustration) and I do appreciate your concern - always have, and always will 🙂 but it does finally feel right. The way he was in public around me?? so natural and I was so nervous because after 9 months I didnt know WHAT to expect it to be like LOL. He put in a lot of effort (well it seemed like he didnt put in any but Im sure under that confident fascade he puts on, he was probably just as nervous).

Oh and he remembered its my birthday next month - even got the date right and I have NEVER told him the date...wtf—

LOL

Chatz, then I am happy for you, it does seem like he is slowly coming around but you know we won't know that for sure until the talk, so yes, enjoy the extras he is giving you until you know for sure. Yay!!!

One day at a time 🙂

Hi....
Interesting...Everything you all have already said about Libra is IT!
Libra is the most adorable man....Iron strong in velvet gloves.....and I love it.
The "only" cloud....he is not available.....after few years of "our" relationship......

What is your sign serena. Is he married?

I'm virgo...yes,he's MM....

"I'm virgo...yes,he's MM...."

Sorry to hurt you. It wont work. For him especially. Don't bother dragging him into something later both of you will regret. Safe to skip away giggling.

What difference does it make? He is married.

my question EXACTLY

lol... may be if this libra is also married to a cappy, its possible. 😉

He is married, no matter what sign. He will never be able to be hers as long as he is married. So she needs to forget about it.

I agree with QS.

This is where all the non-libras differ from the libras. We can think outside the box. It's rather Machiavellian but I like that about us...

yup.

Libra, huh?

it's a hook, QS. Just let them think what they want...no sign is superior over another.

Incorrect assumption, HP.

I am not saying that we're superior. Not at all.

I was just trying to say that we don't judge infidelity the way others do. I think our idealistic side enables us to go after what we want. Even if it is not right in the view of others. Then pragmatism steps in of course and only half the time can you actually do something with your feelings. We're not like Caps who's motto is 'if you cannot love the one you want, love the one you're with' - when we want we want...

Or maybe it's an age thing. I just try not to judge anyone. Apparently it's Libra's lifetime objective in order to reach eternal happiness! (or maybe just balance...)

That's great ! Then go after what you think you want wholeheartedly and bravely , otherwise there is one more party will suffer . Anyway, it 's not right to be with two people at the same time , especially when one is your wife/husband who you claim to share all your happiness and sadness .Show him/her some respect by telling the truth and giving another person who you claim to be in love "at the moment" the love he/she deserve .It isnt a matter of "open minded" or open concept of fidelity but rather going with your feeling in the utmost truthful without deceiving anyone (if possibly reducing the hurtfulness in the long term) in the process of finding your dream partner . Just my view 🙂

So Libra, are you telling me that you think Libras (some, because they all are not the same)no matter what vowels they have made to a mate or what commitmet responsibilities they hav with their wife/husband, if hey find someone outside of their marriage they fall in love with, is'nt immoral for them to break those vowels and commitment responsibility and be with this person? Sorry, that is a little cowardly, and it isn't fair to the mate or the other party. The Libra would be having his/her cake and eating it too. Which is wrong period... Just be honest, like exam said and make a decision, one or the other...

This is the type of thing that confuses people about some Libras being unfaithful. Please explain.

I know more than most how Librans don't like to hurt people, but in reality, it is very deceptive to the person you made these vowels with. Not right at all. I also do understand we are attracted to people we don't plan to be attracted to and mistakes happen, but you must make an honest decision at some point or you are hurting one or more parties worse.

would all this about how librans love be a good example of why they are usally always dumped on to

i have been married twice and the only time your sig other wants you is when your no longer around 99% of what i have read is so true about us liberans funny i found this site and read what Q had to say made a lot of things in my life more understandable,you dont always see when you are on the inside Thanks

I get what Libra is saying, it doesn't really have to do with us and infadelity, a happy libra who is taking the effort to be up front and honest in a relationship, understands the other person, and is with them for the right reasons will not be unfaithful. Libras who are in love are not going anywhere else.

What I got from it is that we have a higher tolerance of others being unfaithful than a lot of other people or other signs specifically. I am this way, if my significant other cheats on me, which has only happened once in one relationship my thoughts turn to trying to figure out where the problem is. Not what we or her or I did wrong, but where the problem itself exists wherever it exists and if it can be corrected it is just a speed bump or a lesson in the relationship. I am very secure in myself and my sexual abilities and desirability. I don't assume something is wrong for me, that I am lacking in any area that the other person wants or needs sexually. Of course it could be possible, but I keep an open mind to the problem and most problems involving women who cheat are not sexual problems, they are emotional or emotional understanding problems. It doesn't have to do with the sex, it usually just comes out in that particular area. That is the nature of our tolerance.

Not that we think it is ok to cheat, but if our partner does.....it's a problem, lets solve it like a problem and move foreward. Sex is an aspect of the relationship, the relationship is not the aspect of the sex....act accordingly.

No problem bubba, I have had a lot of experience with Librans, so I have learned a lot about them along the way and they keep finding me.

***libra who is taking the effort to be up front and honest in a relationship, understands the other person, and is with them for the right reasons will not be unfaithful. Libras who are in love are not going anywhere else.***

That has been my experience with the ones I have been in a RELATIONSHIP with. 🙂

***What I got from it is that we have a higher tolerance of others being unfaithful than a lot of other people or other signs specifically.***

A Libran I have known was this way when his girlfriend cheated on him. Unlike other men who can do it and not take it if it is done to him, he didn't go throught the not being able to trust her and they just worked through it. I have no idea if she continued to cheat on him or not. But, she was a Sag - who knows. I found that admireable, as that would have been a hard pill for me to swallow. In fact I know I probably wouldn't have swallowed that pill at all, but left it where it was.

Queen i cant tell you how right on you are ,im 44 and all my relationships have cheated is there any end to how much a libra has to swallow before the right one comes along or does a libra just keeps being a libra and hopes for the best