Is that true, with you Libra's?

I haven't seen this Libra guy in years. I'm just trying to understand him a little more. So I started to read the Libra forums. Came a crossed this in one topic.

They'll flirt with people they don't like, for the fun of it. and they'll straight up avoid people they do like if they're afraid of being rejected. Is that true, with you Libra's?

So true. My Libra did a runner as soon as he realised he had strong feelings for me lol. Think most people regardless of sign are scared of getting hurt but for some reason Libras (mainly the men) really dont get how to voice this.

I as a woman flirt (if thats you want to call it.I just call it conversing) with everyone even other women! The person Im not being so openly approachable with will most likely be the guy that Im into or I just dislike them I will not "flirt" with someone I dont like.

My main advice with Libra men is if they rush full steam.ahead be wary (my experience is they will stop and think "what the hell am I.doing" and back off. If they have backed off and thought about it.and still want to rush , then if you feel the same go for it. Libras are known.for being indescisive but in my experiance once a Libra has made a decision they stick to it.

Posted by Clareisa
I haven't seen this Libra guy in years. I'm just trying to understand him a little more. So I started to read the Libra forums. Came a crossed this in one topic.

They'll flirt with people they don't like, for the fun of it. and they'll straight up avoid people they do like if they're afraid of being rejected. Is that true, with you Libra's?

Libras = practically fear confrontation or any other negative reaction that will make them feel bad, hence possible avoidance of facing real issues.

Avoiding? Meh. I think that just depends on the individual. Maybe RANGING from being cordial to avoidance. A lot may want to avoid, but if they can't do so successfully, it goes to cordial/acting a fool (read: awkward).

As was mentioned above, assuming this is in regard to possible potential romantic interest, if they rush in, run for the freaking hills. Those are the worst because they'll likely back out as fast as they jumped in, leaving you confused as hell. Go read up on Libras, and this is probably the number one thing you'll see women complaining about with these guys. "but he seemed so interested, and BAM, he's gone!"

They may have their pros and cons and the confusing things that they do that may make it hard to tell where exactly you stand, but if they're interested, there's really no doubt. One from a few years back that I knew was pretty obvious, the last one I was with was really, really obvious, and the current one I've been seeing is less obvious, but I can still tell he's interested. Just pay attention to the basics. Regardless of sign, men do the same things when they like someone- are in contact, actually initiate contact, ask about you, want to learn things about you, make time to see you, etc.

Posted by Clareisa
I haven't seen this Libra guy in years. I'm just trying to understand him a little more. So I started to read the Libra forums. Came a crossed this in one topic.

They'll flirt with people they don't like, for the fun of it. and they'll straight up avoid people they do like if they're afraid of being rejected. Is that true, with you Libra's?

Not me... well, sort of... maybe

I don't flirt with anyone. I will engage in conversation, listen to, laugh with, and smile at damn near anyone. You could say I do this 'for the fun of it', I like talking to people.

The fear of rejection can make me do all kinds of stuff but I won't avoid you. If I like you that way I will want to spend as much time with you as I reasonably can. The avoid way my insecurity would manifest as avoidance is if I had been getting mixed singals from you.

Back then we were just dance partners 15yrs ago. That was it and went our separate ways at the end of night. I don't drink at the bar, just like to dance and have fun with who ever is with me. Anyways he ask for my number started talking a little more.


Tiziani: Libras flirt and charm to get by, because that's what they're good at.
I didn't see him that way, form before and now.

libra sun: My main advice with Libra men is if they rush full steam ahead be wary (my experience is they will stop and think "what the hell am I doing" and back off.

I started small talk with him then went to something more serious. What he's been up to all these years. Then lighten the mood with some humour. It's like he said to much and back off. He told me he can be used any other way. I'm like wow back up a min, was thinking anything more then friends right now.

LibranNick1986: I'm pretty much the opposite. If I don't like someone, I'm basically just going to mentally write them off.

He told me he's more of listner.

rockyroadicecream: Go read up on Libras, and this is probably the number one thing you'll see women complaining about with these guys. "but he seemed so interested, and BAM, he's gone!"

That doesn't bother me.

Just pay attention to the basics. Regardless of sign.
That's what I'm looking out for

LibraSid: I don't flirt with anyone. I will engage in conversation, listen to, laugh with, and smile at damn near anyone. You could say I do this 'for the fun of it', I like talking to people.

Never see him talk to anyone, other then his friend. I find him mostly observing people. I'm out on the dance floor Smiling, laughing, dancing and having conversation when I can. Just enjoying the night.

That's not true atleast not for me maybe u intimidate him but from my experience he pursued me non stop n he had other girls after him but he chose me out of the bunch n gave me the world at my feet n he still tries too I love him n he loves me n with flirting with people they don't like brings there self-esteem up but wen they like u they do anything to show u it !

I find that he's trying me on for size, seeing how it fits. Would you rather be pursued or do the pursuing?

No I don't want to intimidate him, I really hope he's not looking at it that way. I ask him to come out last weekend, also said he can bring his friends to. Later that night he was asking if, I was going out and I said yes I'm. I think he was hinting around for me to not go there and come where he was going that night. I didn't go to the same place he was that night.

Well, I myself am a Libra. And to tell you the truth, people often tend to think we're flirting when in reality we're just being friendly. It's happened to me and several other Librans I know (one of whom is actually asexual, lol!). So, yes, you can't always trust a Libran's so-called "flirting". 90% of the time, thinking we're genuinely interested is most likely asking for heartbreak.

So, if we're drowning you in compliments or something, we probably just want to put a smile on your face. 😄

I always disagree with the whole "non confrontation.thing" would be interested to talk to any Libras who are like that so I could.see their chart!

Any way was thinking back to when me and.my Libra started dating. We met through a mutual scorp friend (yes she did end up trying to screw me over and break us up but thats another story haha) She had been friends with him for years but said he was obsessed with her so didnt like to hang out alone with him so invited me along because I said I wanted a Libra guy to hang with. We got on really well as I knew we would. We hung out a few times as a threesome and I would message him on facebook and my scorp friend would call him obsessive because he asked how her day was lol. Anyway he agreed to cook me and my friend dinner one night and then the night before I.got a message saying "how about we.make this a romantic meal for two??" I was shocked had no idea he liked me like that and I had kept my guard up as my friend had said he was into her. Anyway the rest is history but he showed me his inbox a few months later and he had been messaging my friend loads but it was her who messaged him first and she had been telling him lies about me to.turn him against me because even though she didnt want him she wanted him to want her!

So he thought I would say no to the date (due to all the lies) but still asked anyway because he liked me. And my ex friend mistook his friendliness for obsessiveness and I mistook him being normal towards me has him not being interested but he was doing his research and asking my friend about me instead.

So he thought I would say no to the date (due to all the lies) but still asked anyway because he liked me. And my ex friend mistook his friendliness for obsessiveness and I mistook him being normal towards me has him not being interested but he was doing his research and asking my friend about me instead.

He saw my friend first before he saw me. He was like "where's your friend?" "she's on the dance floor. Always asking her where I'm at. What ever he showing me now, I don't want to make the same mistake as your friend.

Posted by Clareisa
Would you rather be pursued or do the pursuing?

I like both, I think all people like to feel desired and wanted. Some get it from being chased, others get it from positive reaction to their chasing. As long as I am seeing the right signs from the other side I think both people should chase.

Ok, Thanks LibraSid. I can see he likes me, but he's having a hard time saying he does. Then he tells me, we are just friends. I was like ok friends then. We happen to be at the same club, never come up to me that night. His buddy and him just keep stareing at me the whole night like a hawk. Omg he confusing me now and I don't like it! I guess I'm going to wait and see, but I'm not waiting to long.