Libra ex acting strangely :S

me and my libra boyfriend broke up about a month ago because we both knew that we just werent compatible with eachother but at the same time i was very heart broken and disapointed by the relationship.

Lately hes been acting very strangely. He always looks upset and only answers me very vaguely. When i asked him why he is upset he would just say "you know why...we broke up we were darlings and now we are just friends".

When we are on msn messenger he always asks me whether i have a boyfriend and he asked me when was the FIRST time i ever kissed a male, when he asked me that question i misread it and thought he ment when was the LAST time i kissed a male, so i said a few years ago. He then got angry at me and said you liar you said you were 13 when you did. I said that ok look i misread your question you are right i was 13 and also if you knew the answer why even bother asking!!—

when i asked him why he asked me this question he then had the nerve of saying "you are a female this is not correct behaviour for you to kiss in young years" i felt really angry when he said that to me, he made me feel bad about it. He also had his first kiss at 13 so i said that the same applied to him he was young to. He just answered by saying "yes but i am a male" :O i thought libras where ment to me fair 😢

i just dont get him, why is he acting so strangely? why is he asking such personal questions?😢 is he testing me? do librans like to test people?

I know he is my ex and you may be thinking why should i care but deep down i still hav feelings for him, the wound is still fresh i guess

cut the chord

^Yeah. They always keepin score about the mostly useless shit you make you lose your mind. Tell him to shut the fuck the up. Lol.

Yip. I have some lovely Libra Girlfriends. The men- STRANGE... not all of them though. I know some real sweethearts.
Sorry to hog your thread.

My ex- libra brokeup with me 2 years ago. For a long time we had friends with benefits thing going for me. Finally early last year I just had enough. We have bumped into and talked to each other . I am in a relationship now and so is ex- libra. He is trying so hard to be my friend and to be in my life. But I just can't have a tight relationship with him.

We have not spoken in a while. So, much to my surprise. He called last night. These were his exact words
— I forgot to tell you . I am selling my house?? I asked your beach house and He said — No, the house I shared with you??.
I don't know why he is doing this. But I know from my experience with him that he is up to something until the next best thing comes around. And thank God??_ now I see right through him and am not playing along anymore.

((absolutely no contact. ))

Tried that. Then he rocks up at my house unannounced.
I have done some stupid things with this Libra, totally threw my dignity away. It took me a long time to get him out of my system.

^^ some truth in that

"just relax....go shopping, stare at yourself in the mirror or ignore the women that love you while you fantasize about all the women who don't want you! HA!" Hahahahahhahahahahahahhahaahahah!!!! She got you there man. She got you there. Ah.

Hehe, diddy🙂

Posted by AquariusGoddess
"libra learn to let go by seeing the others move on."

ummmm...no.
MoonShine, At least in my experience the more you move away from a Libra man the more he'll try to get close to you. Libra men (NOT the women) are VERY shallow individuals---> just look like crap when he comes around, that should keep him away! lol.

Diddy just relax....go shopping, stare at yourself in the mirror or ignore the women that love you while you fantasize about all the women who don't want you! HA!

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*claps* oh my AquaGoddess sounds like you and I have had a mutual experience (or two) hehe

YES. Libra men DO cling to those that treat them like BS. My bestfriend is a Libra man, my son, my step father, and my EX are also libras. (lol@ my chart) so I can relate.

Aqua is absolutely right. The inability to identify and be 100% secure with who they are IS a major character flaw. These guys are routinely depressed, self-centered, and can even self-loathe quite a bit.

When my ex described his first love as 'someone who never quite loved me back, but was always there for me'.. i knew it would be trouble. His mom, sister, cousins, exes, ALL walked all over him at some point. Same goes for my bff, and my dad.

also, i had to lmao@ shopping and staring at themselves in the mirror. ahhh yes. the look. they sure do have a love/hate relationship with themselves. my ex would go shopping with me, and get lost in the men's fashion dept for HOURS.

not only was he totally obsessed with his image- he took forEVER to make a decision on what to buy!

I agree. Like a few other astrological signs out there (mine included unfortunately, Cancer) Libra's are lovely on the outside. Mostly because they hate the thought of people not liking them, and they can't stand confrontation. But internally, they can be a torrid swirl of hurt, regret, guilt, etc. My ex had insecurities that I never knew he had until things got bad between us, and the deep talks started.

I stepped back and thought... wh0a nelly.... here we g0 ;x

Hahaha @AG ur doll🙂