What are the obvious signs...

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by thelibran on Sunday, January 4, 2009 and has 21 replies.

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@thelibran
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when a saggi girl is checking out a libra guy— I have been getting this weird feeling for a while and got a bit confused if its just me or if there is something going inside her head. What are the usual things you gals do when you are checking out a libra—

thanks

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

"I thought your "superior air-thinking mind" could handle such a simple task. Im rather disappointed by you, I guess the arrogance of mind stops when there's kitty involved huh? the female formula..too complex for you huh?"

Lol. I was thinking exactly the same thing...

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@thelibran
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Thanks Ashley. Sounds way way familiar with the series of situations i have been through. But i wasnt remotely interested in her at that point of time. Well.. never really identified anything from a romantic angle since i was interested elsewhere. Then someone questioned me and i ended up digging further into the possibilities. thanks again.

Shaks, the video has been removed from youtube. anyway i hv the link to the lyrics
http://www.oldielyrics.com/lyrics/john_lennon/how.html

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

"cause sags girls tend to get a little shyer when they have serious interest in someone." For real. That is the golden ticket right there. Thats how you know. If she flirting her ass off with everyone else and around but when it comes to you acts coy and shy it's cause she wants to come off as a lady wants you to see her in a respectable light.

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@thelibran
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((Strange how you even gave it some thought.))

Not until her flatmate asked me if am in love with her after she saw some pics i took. She was drunk but still it triggered some thoughts inside my head where there were none.

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@SageTree
18 Years

"sag girls HATE it when someone they thought was just a good friend suddenly confesses to be in love with them, it feels like betrayal to them."

So true, but it's more like "why do you have to mess with a good thing".

If it was meant to be just friends, leave it alone! When I like a man I will give him a long gaze directly in his eyes. I always use my eyes to let him know what I'm feeling, but it's kind of hard to turn that off at times, my eyes start to do it even when I only intend to be on friendly terms.

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@SageTree
18 Years

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Maybe you did start to like her but didn't know it until this moment.

I've caught myself behaving as if I liked a Libra male even when I found him not so attractive for my tastes, but then it hit me I did like him. I liked a lot about him that I hadn't really noticed until someone brought it up.

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@brianafay
19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

""cause sags girls tend to get a little shyer when they have serious interest in someone." For real. That is the golden ticket right there. Thats how you know. If she flirting her ass off with everyone else and around but when it comes to you acts coy and shy it's cause she wants to come off as a lady wants you to see her in a respectable light.""

I didn't want to give you insider info as another poster suggested, haha. But I have to agree with my other Sags here.
We all do this apparently. (Good to know I'm not the only weirdo.) 😛

I "accidently" flirt with everyone. It's an accident because wooing them is not my intention. I can't help it I'm charming. 🙂
But anyways, if I realize I like a guy I will not flirt with them anymore. I don't really know why either. Because in my head I'm like "okay, just play it cool." "treat him like you always treated him." "don't act wierd." Hahahaha. But I always end up getting all shy, and actually end up "flirting" more with everyone else when they're around. & I'm not even doing it to see if they'll notice or care...I think I just do it because I'm nervous and I'm trying to get comfortable or atleast look like I'm comfortable.

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@xross_S
18 Years

This is a very interesting thread!! and i learn lots bout Sag girls..

Nw i'm really curious.. why theres 2 sag ladies in my ofc. which butterfly everyone in ofc.. but when i have time to chat with them.. they seems pretty quiet down, soft and very different from what i see they are with others.

Anyway 🙂

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

"But I always end up getting all shy, and actually end up "flirting" more with everyone else when they're around. & I'm not even doing it to see if they'll notice or care...I think I just do it because I'm nervous and I'm trying to get comfortable or atleast look like I'm comfortable. " OH MY GOD YES. Lol. Saggie girls have a bit of anxity in them haha🙂

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@Sagittarius89
17 Years1,000+ PostsSagittarius

"they seems pretty quiet down, soft and very different from what i see they are with others."

I think it's because we can act loud and stupid and crazy around are friends cause we know they won't judge us. But we don't know if you will and we like to impress😉 But once we get comfortable with you will see that side of us. I did that with leo, my crazy/kinky side too soon. Hit and miss!

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

hahahaha Libran, Sags are too unpredictable for obvious signs... wouldn't spend much time thinking about it, if it's gonna go that way, it'll slide in sooner or later...

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@krysrenee7
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Well the question is, do you always trust your instincts even when you don't want to or do you only ignore your instincts when the bad instinct is about someone you like alot? Before the Sagg. & Libra stuff, just remember that in any relationship, you were given instincts for a reason. Sure, you might be insecure & might feel that every woman/man you meet is always checking someone else out & you merely have these feelings out of your own self-consciousness or due to your secret need to feel that you should be the only one looked at (or in other words possessiveness: When I'm with her/him, they should only be giving ME the eye).

BUT
If that's not the case, then I'd say go ahead & observe very closely. There must've been something he/she's done to bring out those suspicions in you (and I say that with the assumption that you aren't the jealous or insecure type with everybody). Don't overanalyze your own observations but then again don't completely ignore them or let those instincts pass just because you like someone because hey, you'll lose more by ignoring them when they could've been right. Sagg. women are very flirtatious & free women. Sagg. women can have "roaming eyes" & appear to be unfaithful, disrespectful & unacknowledging of that very fact but in their heads, even though they still do this (they do this because it's simply who they are & not necessarily because they are trying to piss you off) they still might love and/or care for you just as much as if they only kept their eyes on you. Sagg. women cannot be tamed in the beginning of a commitment because it takes time before they really find it in themselves to settle down with you in particular. And a Sagg. might be particularly interested in a libra because of the bold charm Libras spell out to them. Libras carry a secret & silent swagger with them that Sagg. women notice quickly, because it reminds them of themselves. And Libras kind of represent the "calm & 'sit-down'" style that Sagg. need to work on more so the attraction will naturally be there because of the "yin-yang" theory.

Find out: Does she/he know this Libra on a personal level or is this Libra merely just a stranger? And if so, how well. The answer to that question might merely be the answer to your own question.

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@krysrenee7
18 Years5,000+ Posts

And if your Sagg. doesn't necessarily already know the Libra then ask yourself these questions:
1. Is there something you can point out about the Libra that you personally don't have OR have but just haven't offered her yet? (rather it's muscles, deep conversation, or physical appearance period-Sagg. & Libras are very physical creatures).

2. Has your Sagg. recently made any random comments about the Libra or ever find ways to talk about the Libra?

3. Does your Sagg. keep trying to tell you that she feels something in the relationship is missing? (because if that's the case, you should be more worried about your Libra giving the eye to anyone, not just a Libra-that happens when women/men are not satisfied in their relationships-they look elsewhere & sometimes stay with the "boring" person until someone else effectively takes them from you)

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@thelibran
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Hi Kysrenee... long time no see. you kinda disappeared and took away all your beautiful posts with ur old id. 🙂

Random comments— Yup yea. but then its confusing as well since libra brain process it both ways.