Libra help

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christina
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11 Years

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I have been talking to this libra guy for about 2 weeks now. We have seen each other around during university for about 5 years and knew of each other but never acknowledged anything.

Now i messaged him the first time. we spoke. and after 1 month he began messaging me on his own, and we had a lot to say to each other. Its back to back texting day and night everyday. No flirting and nothing just talking of our interests and incidents. Doesn't text me during work at all.

Then suddenly he began calling me and talking. the first time he called I was so taken aback "i said its funny how we randomly start texting peopl??, and sometimes after a couple of weeks we completely just stop"and he goes "funny that you say that, because i find that happening with me often". After having spoken for an hour I told my friend about how me and him were talking ( because we found him adorable during university), and she teased jokingly, so i retorted "dude he finds you cute "and shes like "what? he asked his friends to hook him up with you and that he finds you really goodlooking"

but no signs of this were expressed in our conversation. I jokingly tease him with my friend and he even blushes and says shes cute, etc. No mention of me in any way.
As of yesterday it was about two weeks of texting and suddenly i dont know how but the conversation got really personal about our personal conflicts . He told me about his story and mentioned he is very bad at being the crying shoulder and stuff, i told him my story ( but felt it was too early). And then he said I find you really interesting and I dont know if this sounds weird but I love how i get morning messages. To that I said "' for me its mroe about being able to talk of other things with someone, i find it hard to relate to most individuals"'. After all of this , this morning we began messaging and he confessed he lost track of the personal and emotional conversation I made. And i agreed and said it was too early for me too, i didnt expect you to keep up. And he said "its not that im not sensitive but for me you are a lot of fun, and i love talking to you, but i dont know if we should be talking about all these other serious things" and i felt the same way too and agreed.

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christina
@sushmitais4eva
11 Years

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I have been talking to a libra male for 2 weeks now. We have known of each other and seen one another around for 5 years, but never really spoke.

I messaged him details of a friend first. After a month he messaged me back and now for 2 weeks we text back and forth. He even calls almost every other night.

the first time he called i was so shocked because he seemed rather distant via text. we spoke for a while and I brought up "its funny how we message people for weeks together and suddenly we just stop, it happens with me often"and he says it does with me too and i think i initiate it.
After speaking to him for the first time, i told my friend about him ( me and my friend found him very cute while we were in university) she casually teased me with him. And i retorted back saying "dude mary( his best friend) told me he thinks you are cute, so shutup" then my friend said "excuseme ? I was told that he wants to be setup with you and finds you really attractive". I was really shocked to hear this as we never flirt we just talk a lot about other things.

Now when he called yesterday, things got personal, we spoke of each others personal conflicts. and he expressed how its hard for him to be sensitive and offer a crying shoulder.
I felt somehow it was toooo early for me to open up about my personal information. and while we spoke of other things he mentioned he really loves the fact that we wakeup and text one another, and it makes him feel goodand that our conversations are very interesting.

I said i feel good about talking about all the random things in the world and can relate to him.

this morning however, he brought up how it was hard for him to follow through my motional difficulties and felt that maybe we should wait before we share our emotional difficulties because he is enjoying the fun side more which he wants to know more. I agreed and said its tooo early for me too. ( and no where in this conversation did i imply or communicate with regard to a relationship). Also, i tease him with my friend and he casually blushes about how cute she is ( but shes engaged and he doesnt even make an effort to talk to her or add on facebook, the way he did with me).

however he doesnt compliment my looks or anything, and talks of other girls he has found goodlooking.

As a therapist, i think I allow people to open up to me, and thats what might be happening with him where in he tends to open up and then backs off.

can someone explain his po