Libra is acting hot and cold.

Hi

We met about 2 years ago at party. We had an instant attraction and ended up having sex at his place. We met a few times after that, but then he made it clear that he did not want a relationship at that time. However, he has always told me that he enjoys my company very much and tells me that I am an intelligent girl, and that he likes that i am so laid back and so on...

Well I moved on and made some big changes in my life. Among others I moved into a new dorm. Then after a year we bump in to each other one night and he his all over me again.
He invited me to his place, I accepted but made it clear that I was being very cautious (not wanting to get hurt again). I did not sleep with him, we just slept next to each other. He gave me his pillow and his duvet and took a blanket himself.
The next morning he said that he was very happy that I went home with him and said that we might need to talk about what this meant to us. I told him ??let's just take it easy?? and brushed the conversation off (I have regretted that ever since). The time just wasn't right for me (personal problems).
We met each other in the street one time after that. He had a big smile on his face and told me ??thank you for being with me the other night ?? and I said ??you too??, but then we just talked about regular stuff.

The holidays came and after that I was hoping to meet him at the next party, but unfortunately he had hooked up with another girl who I know he has been seeing a couple of times and actually considered starting a relationship with her. —Anyway, something went wrong and now he his not talking to her anymore. I know this from a close friend.

After that, I met him once again in the street and said —hi??, but he nearly looked at me and just mumbled —hmmm??.

He and I have been to the same parties ever since, but he is acting weird. It seems like he is avoiding a conversation with me and at the same time he stares at me from a distance and always walks through and interrupts while mumbling something when I am talking to another person...one time he just gave me a kiss on the cheek and went on. —Why is he doing this?

He too has moved to another dorm and he wanted to talk to me about it when he was thinking about doing so. Among others he said that he wanted me to be prepared that he might move into another dorm. Why is that important to him that I am prepared for that? is he trying to tell me something?

Please help me with your

Simple. If a libra is hot and cold with you, he doesn't like you. If they aren't. You mean something. The end.

Haha thanks darlings🙂

Thank you very much for your replies. I needed that, and it won't be hard for me to forget about him, as I am actually fed up with the situation and the way he is treating me.

I guess I just wanted to be 100% sure that I had not misinterpreted the situation and that I have not done anything in particular that might have made him made at me.

What might have mad him mad at you is your decesion to stop being intimate maybe he wants more and more intimacy which is essentially harmless something that you can enjoy also so what?? go for it, intimacy does not have to be perceived as some sort of cementing process in your mind so get over it.

"If a libra is hot and cold with you, he doesn't like you. If they aren't. You mean something. The end."

Eets not so simple. Hot and cold means like and dislike. Probably they like you, but something about you they're not used to, or dislike. If I am hot and cold with someone, I am testing out the waters. It just means unsure. When will Libra be absolutely sure, is when they are fully committed.

Yep got to agree also with spica and libscorp, it means not sure, still weighing up those scales. In time it'll either be all HOT or QUITE COOL (no real emotion or response)

I was dating a Libra 2 years ago, he was in tears every day crying that i dont love him and it made me feel really cold and mean. He was obsessed and possessive and fell in love with me the second we met and wanted to take me ring shopping and get married and move in and pick out furniture. My moon is in piscies so I believe in the whole love at first sight and fairy tale thing...(that relationship lasted 3 weeks of me leaving and him sucking me back in with his sexy blue eyes before i couldn't take it anymore and crushed him)

Last month i met another Libra. This one was different... Hot right at the start then he pulled back said he didn't want commitment, which I never asked for anyway. So technically i got dumped/rejected without putting myself out there(very damaging to a leo's pride and ego). Anyway, i think he assumed that i had picked out the dress and planned the wedding after the first date or something... I'm the Leo, but i think this one might be more self-absorbed than i am?

So that is a typical Libra depending on which way the scales have been tipped. Hope this gives you all a better understanding of how confusing a Libra relationship can be.

Librans are charming, attractive and oh so dreamy... I think Libra guys are not supposed to be understood and i don't think there is any way to make sense of them... I don't know what they want or need but i'm sure if it is meant to be then it would be, and it would make sense and women would feel secure and confident in their relationship. Not confused and like they're losing their minds.

I will date a Libra if the opportunity comes up again, i hope the next one is balanced and not one of the extremes. I don't know what it is about them but they can make your heart melt with a single smile and the feeling is amazing beyond comprehension.

hot and cold doesnt mean that libra doesnt love. ?? do that unintentionally always.

Honey I am dealing with a Libra man who is hot and cold myself...All I can say is try to keep sane!