Libra men: How do I make him fall in love with me

I'm sorry to hear your story. I think he has made it clear that he's just not that into you , In my experiences Libras and Scorps don't really jibe and think rather differently .It looks like he has figured that out on is own . It's been nearly 2 yrs and if you both had a more compatible connection it would have manifested by now. You should give him one more heart-to-heart talk and if nothing comes out of it, it might be time for you to move on.

Posted by Rituv13
Pls tell me what should I do

This one is real complicated...

How do I put this?




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Posted by Rituv13
he said he thinks of me only as a friend and again gave the same reason

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Not only has he thought about this, but he has thought about it AGAIN. He even came up with the same reason both times. He doesn't want anything more than a friendship. Which, by the way, is almost impossible if one of the friends wants more. This is why he is distant. He sees that you are looking to find someone and knows that "it" is not him, (whether you want it to be or not, you can't force some one... well... you can... but you get in trouble for that) so he is getting out of your way.

I knew when I read the title of the thread my response would be simple, you can't make anyone fall in love.


P.S. I am normally not so blunt and mean but this guy you are asking about has tried telling you softly and you ain't listening.

I get what you are saying about returning favors. But you can't just follow someone around waiting for a chance to repay them... With friends you're just around a lot anyway so you just help when the opportunity arises. I think that is what friends are for, to help each other out. The world is rough, find some people who you enjoy spending time around and who have similar minds and life style s and get through it as a group. It's not about trying to get stuff from people (although too many people are like this) it's just taking the time to get to know people and caring about them. In my small circle of real friends, if I have something it is theirs too. My door is always open to a friend.

As to your question of what do you do from here... that is up to you. The first thing you should do is ask yourself if you are really okay with just being friends, pretending to be okay with it while you wait for him to change his mind does not count. It is friendship or nothing. For me personally, that choice is always "nothing". If I want more, I can't be a 'real' friend. Some people can (at least they claim they can), most can't. I'd rather "it" be real even if "it" is nothing. From what you said about the jealousy and the missing him, I don't think you could either... at least not right now.

imho, you should just let it be.

I think what you say is true, indeed you do.

the amount of time i have been spending lately thinking about it and feeling bad that I spoilt our friendship by asking him how he felt about me, or rather telling him my feels makes be feel worse, but then I am satisfied that I know where I stand rather that getting more attached to him.

and your right, friends are always there to help, so if he really thinks of me as a friend, he would come back and ask for help whenever he needs me, as it is even though we talk, he never actually asks for help or accepts my offer to help,

So its better that I am not talking to me and helping myself move on. I still love him and miss him though 😢

Posted by Rituv13
I think what u say is right.

So what do i do now ? Stop all contact with him or just be as I am, talk to him only when he calls. Either ways I am miserable and I miss him a lot.

He helped me a lot when i needed some1, stood with me like a rock, I cant keep any1's favors, i want to return it back or possibly be with him in his difficult time - of course as friend now since he doesn't feel anything for me.

But I am not sure if he will ever approach me during his difficult times.

Its like a burden on my heart / head. I just can't take or keep any1's favors.

Forget about it! Libras are kind hearted and like helping people.

Now that you realize that he is not romantically interested in you, since he has been kind enough to be honest and upfront with you instead of leading you on and letting you hang on to false hope and fantasies... and that his kind gestures meant nothing more than just what they were...stop reading into it!

Let him be your friend if you miss him and are miserable without him in your life.
But seriously, for your own peace of mind...let it go. He told you it's not gonna happen, don't delude yourself into thinking maybe one day....

You can't make someone fall in love with you

Yeah true, thanks a lot, this really helps.

Even if you could..why would you want too? You want someone there with their whole heart, not some mindless twit.

OP- you are fucking crazy, and im pretty terrified of you. you cannot make someone fall in love with you...and someone who does try...is fucked.

1 word... Swag