Libra mums (or mom if your american :p )

Hey everyone. As I always do took a about a year disappearance but I always end up coming back 🙂

So what are your opinion of Libra mums?

Since I have recently become one I would love to sit here and call them great but everyone I know with a Libra mum dislikes them and I dont mean just normal annoyance and not gettimg on etc but really hates them!

My two closest friends are Libras. One isnt a great mum and the other said she doesnt want kids and she knows she wouldnt be a good mum as she doesnt want to have to put someone elses needs before hers. So whats your ecperience with Libra mums or if you are one do your kids hate you yet? haha

My children love me but I have often heard them say that I expect too much from them. I expect them to work, find a partner that works and they work together for a future before children. Help me out when needed...I don't think it's much to ask but I do see that they want the same life I have given them but want it handed to them...that ain't going to happen.

My daughters are Taurus (we always always fight)
Leo, get along better with her but she has a loser bf who won't look for work and sits on playstation while she works full-time.
Cancer, still young and unattached and living at home.

I know that I have always excepted most of what they do but I always warn them when I see where they are heading, probably because I have been there and done that. I'm also not blinded by rose coloured glasses. The Leo takes on board what I say more than the other two.

I believe I am not stern enough and this would be my biggest downfall when raising them, their father didn't have much input and that didn't help. Children need to be guided by two parents that stand strong together. If one says no, and they go to the other the other will always back the first decision! Otherwise they will divide and concur!!!

welcome back LS and Congrats 🙂

libra sun,

Because libra's are well known as Social Butterfly and indecisive.

I guess everyone has its own negative traits not just Libra. The point here is how you deal

with that negative traits you inherit. I am surrounded by Libra people.

Just an input.

I'm a libra mum!! My sons are Libra and Gemini, but it's too early to tell what they think of me, they are only 3 and 4!! Im obsessed with a good education and good manners. Im probably tooo strict sometimes, but i prefer they learn respect and consideration too early than too late. Anyways, no mother is perfect, you can only do your best 🙂

My mom is a Libra. I don't dislike her at all. She's a good kind-hearted person. If I had to point out difficulty, it would be that I'm more the parent than she is. Also, if there's tension or conflict within the family she shys away instead of confronting the problem.

So it seems with the Libra mums they t strict enough, too loud/quiet) My grandma is a Libra and my Cancer dad hates her she was too busy partying and just let her kids do what they like growing up. My friends libra mum was an over protective control freak who couldnt even let her breathe without wanting to know why or telling her that she was doing it wrong!

Me and my husband are both Libras so hoping we will balance eachother as usually we alternate between good cop bad cop as if one of us is angry then the other one stays calm and if one of us is feeling stressed the other will be chilled, if one of us is being indecisive the other will randomly suddenly be able to make a decision for the both of us so our kids will have no idea which one of us to try and appeal to as we are forever changing lol.

Our son is a Virgo but has a few Libra placements (moon, venus) so hopefully we will all get along 🙂

That should say libra mums tend to be extremes (too strict/not strict enough, too loud/quiet)

Is there still not an edit button on here?!

I'm a Libra mum and my rainbow baby is a Sagittarius (born the year of the dog) we do get along BUT my Sag is very strong willed and determined so I've learnt to be strong willed and determined as well.

I've had people tell me that in one breath I spoil him then in the next breath I'm too strick with him. I want him to have manners, be polite at all times and do well at school, if that makes me too strick ce la vie.

We have our moments were we stand toe to toe with one another but my rainbow baby has taught me not to let people walk all over me.

I call my Sag baby my rainbow baby because he came after a full term stillborn baby, my Angel baby was a Cancer, so I was blessed to be luck the 2nd time round to have a baby that survived and I think some days that this plays a lot into my parenting, over compensating and all that jazz.

As Deep78 said at the end of the day I am the BOSS and my rainbow baby does get this, but man oh man does my Sag like to test the waters.