Libra the brat

This topic was created in the Libra forum by GiftfromVenus on Thursday, August 29, 2013 and has 19 replies.

Are Libras Naturally Bratty or Just Confident?

Libras are known for their charm and desire for fairness, but some may exhibit bratty tendencies when seeking attention or control. It’s a common trait linked to their indecisiveness and need for balance. Recognizing these traits can help understand and manage them better.

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@GiftfromVenus
13 YearsLibra

I'm a Libran and I'm a brat! I admit that whole heartedly. I always get what I want.. It's bad and I feel bad.. Just a confession! Do any other Librans feel me on this?

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@pixie242
13 Years

I feel the same way 99.9% of the time... Sometimes I get bored and look for a challenge just to see if i will succeed in getting it... Once I get it I usually get bored and look for a different challenge..and this can be in any area of my life (relationships, work, school, material things, etc.) I guess I dont really feel bad about it though...I like getting what i want it seems so right.. i dont really focus on material things though...anybody can have material things.. *shrug* thats just the way i am...

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@pixie242
13 Years

Posted by WaterCup
Who do you guys deal with? You all should meet me, I specialise in disappointment & my favourite word is NO!

Lol! I like that word to! I like people who use that word often it is especially satisfying too get you guys to do what i want. I feel all happy and especially generous afterwards!

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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by aquasnoz
No is just another form of yes WC, you'll see πŸ˜‰ You can't possibly say no to us in the long run πŸ˜‰ πŸ˜‰ jokes jokes!

LOL. There's this one The Simpsons episode where Moe parked his car at the mall on a busy day. Each time a hopeful driver approached him & asked if he is about to leave, he gleefully said..NO!..even thou he had a key in hand & looked like he was about to speed off. His reason was that, he likes creating disappointment in people. To watch a hopeful smile turn into a frown is bliss πŸ˜„

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@WaterCup
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by pixie242

Posted by WaterCup
Who do you guys deal with? You all should meet me, I specialise in disappointment & my favourite word is NO!

Lol! I like that word to! I like people who use that word often it is especially satisfying too get you guys to do what i want. I feel all happy and especially generous afterwards!

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Hahaha. Well I'm sort of like a libra in that I like balance..in scorpio terms we call it getting even (I'm an aqua but I have scorp planets)..I don't mean revenge, I mean like, if I say yes 3 times then sorry, but I'LL HAVE TO say no 3 times otherwise I wont feel okay. I enjoy saying my noes, especially when I feel yes is expected. So enjoyable!

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@GiftfromVenus
13 YearsLibra

Posted by pixie242
I feel the same way 99.9% of the time... Sometimes I get bored and look for a challenge just to see if i will succeed in getting it... Once I get it I usually get bored and look for a different challenge..and this can be in any area of my life (relationships, work, school, material things, etc.) I guess I dont really feel bad about it though...I like getting what i want it seems so right.. i dont really focus on material things though...anybody can have material things.. *shrug* thats just the way i am...

That's sadly so true! and true about not caring for material.. They say the first step is accepting your flaws..

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

And this is why I made the comment that I made in the other thread. I could just tell from your hissy fit about the Sag and your profile pic.

Not being snide about it, just was my observation. Not surprised though, the way Libras idealize and are shallow, it's kinda a given. :p

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@suebee
13 Years

heyyyyy , i'm a libra , and although I can agree that we are quite good at being convincing , I am not shallow for sure ....honest , direct , just charming and persuasive

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm sure there are ones out there who don't fit that mold.

It's just been a trend in the a lot of the ones that I've known. I think life would be much simpler for those who fall victim to such qualities, tbh. You'd probably see a lot less threads about what dicks Libras can be. But I blame the frequency on society. Society is encouraging and breeding immaturity. Nobody wants to be an adult and they hide from it. Kinda sad.

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@theGrinch
13 Years

I could do it all the time if I wanted, but most of the time the feeling after is the biggest factor in my decision of what I do. I hate the feeling of "man I shouldn't have done that" so I don't. I swayed things my way often enough at the costs of others that it ate away at me. It makes me partly think that karma is paying me back a bit for it now. I will say, though, I have found a good use for this ability. I am a master a bringing people together and at bringing people to their full potential. People often don't see the best parts of themselves and what they have to offer, but I do πŸ˜‰

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@arletteleigh
13 YearsAries

Using your powers for good, not bad is probably the way to go. I have a Libra moon but I find it difficult to "use" people in that way. I don't really think that's fair, lol But I find most of the time I try to convince others instead of backhanded manipulation. It almost NEVER works because it comes off as bossy and lecturing. (Aries Sun) I'm learning to tone it down because it never gets the result I want. Libra moon though gives me the ability to help others see what's fair and let THEM decide for themselves. I love that

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@Alisiyaabcd
13 Years

So horribe peoples.... To get what you want and then to disappear, it means you use peoples ! and peoples hate you then ! Change this miserable character ! You are all the same !