Libra Stalkers

Is it just me, or are libra men pretty good at stalking the object of their affection? Lately, I've noticed that libra men can be quite aggressive when they are persuing their love interest.

Yes that's also true. Of course it would also depend on other factors in the chart. . . but I think generally speaking, MOST libra males would fall into the stalking category (especially when persuing their love interest); at least the ones that I have known.

What of it!?

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Nothin' zjv; I just wanted to know people's opinion on this board about if they think Libra guys are stalkers. Not a bad thing, let me tell you. I mean I don't mind being stalked by a hot libra man, but you always here of how Libras are so laid back, they don't like to chase, and they're lazy and this and that. Well, based on my experience, it seems like they LOVE to chase and can even be a bit aggressive when interested in someone.

Im a Libra and a stalker lol, think its more my Scorpio Venus that causes it though, as most Libra's I have met dont stalk. I prefer to call it investigator though, stops the restraining orders 🙂

I was just kiddin'

On a serious note though.

Yeah what the fuck is up with people hating on Libras callin them lazy and shit? Totally not true for me. I have a wicked level of energy and positive aggression in terms of both a relationship and my work ethic... I don't think Libras are lazy, rather they're just difficult to motivate.

I'm pretty laid back, but I'm willing to put up a chase for the right person. Thing is, most people don't impress me nearly enough to motivate a chase. However, when someone manages to catch my eye and I feel they're worth it... I'm a total man on a mission.

Further. I feel that a lot of times Libran good nature is mistakenly confused with being a flirt. As a result, I like to be direct and aggressive in chasing someone I care about so my intentions are crystal clear.

Also, stalking sounds negative ;( How bout we call it a "rigorously undeviating pursuit" instead? Haha.

Same thing with a job, task, or responsibility. I'll happily work my balls off if I think it's important/worth it. If not.... *yawn*

Posted by zjv
I was just kiddin'


Also, stalking sounds negative ;( How bout we call it a "rigorously undeviating pursuit" instead? Haha.

Ooh I like this description lol, if I recall correctly dont you also have a Scorpio Venus?

Not sure Libras like to stalk, I have never done it.. but I have been stalked myself.
It's pretty unnerving..

Posted by libra sun

Posted by zjv
I was just kiddin'


Also, stalking sounds negative ;( How bout we call it a "rigorously undeviating pursuit" instead? Haha.

Ooh I like this description lol, if I recall correctly dont you also have a Scorpio Venus?

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Rising 12 Degrees Taurus

Sun 17 Degrees Libra.

Moon 04 Degrees Gemini.

Mercury 11 Degrees Scorpio.

Venus 00 Degrees Scorpio.

Mars 01 Degrees Libra.

Jupiter 25 Degrees Aries.

Saturn 16 Degrees Sagittarius.

Uranus 23 Degrees Sagittarius.

Neptune 05 Degrees Capricorn.

Pluto 08 Degrees Scorpio.

Really though. I think it sounds less maniacal that way.

I've been Libra stalked, they stop eventually though. It's somewhat flattering but it can become smothering if there's too much.

i can be a little stalky, but i blame the scorpio, esp venus in scorpio, in my chart. it's not a libra quality at all. libras i've known without strong scorpio influences weren't like that at all.

as for the love of the chase, i'd look at the mars placement. this is also not a very libran characteristic. at all. libras tend to be passive, not big on chasing. or even being chased, for that matter.

though, i guess there are a lot of crazy people out there who imagine that normal libra behavior is something it isn't, because they're desperate to believe the libra is playing hard to get or something.

Posted by curious visitor
i can be a little stalky, but i blame the scorpio, esp venus in scorpio, in my chart. it's not a libra quality at all. libras i've known without strong scorpio influences weren't like that at all.

as for the love of the chase, i'd look at the mars placement. this is also not a very libran characteristic. at all. libras tend to be passive, not big on chasing. or even being chased, for that matter.

though, i guess there are a lot of crazy people out there who imagine that normal libra behavior is something it isn't, because they're desperate to believe the libra is playing hard to get or something.

I agree with this. My bestfriend is a libra scorp. And the way she chases her boyfriend is sickinig. Im a libra with moon piscies, and a leo venus. Libra/Virgo cusp sun sign. So chasing a man seems ubsurd to me, especially if he knows about it. I will definitely do my homework on him, like study him, but he will NEVER know i did it, or doing it until after he's already falling in love with me. When im in love, or like someone im always paying attention to everything they do, and making a mental note of it. Its my way of wieghing if i truly want the person, or does it just stop at looks, or does looks even matter, and i go beyond looks. But my libra/scorp friend, i hate the way she chases her boyfriend, she doesn't make him do ANY of the work in the relationship. I have more libra in me and ALOT of leo in me in matters of relationships, since leo is my venus. I think everyone should look their best and bring 50/50 to the table. i mirror my partner, if they slow down, i slow down. If they chase me, i give them a little chase in return. It be like that sometimes ya feel me...lol

Posted by QLIbraMale
i'm still tripping off Libra Lazyness lol. I'm far from it I go to gym 5days a week & workout 4-6hrs a day lol. than go home a walk round block few times. if anything i have amazing energy & stamina lol. so this so called Libra Lazyness baffles me lol.

eh. i love working out too. not big on walking unless i've got a place to go, in which case i walk FAST, as do other libras i know. i remember one time walking with a libra male and aqua male friend, and the aqua, yards behind us yells at us "are you in a hurry?" and the two libras turn around, all chill, like "huh? no. why are you walking so slow?"

i'm not lazy physically. i'm lazy when it comes to doing something about something that requires some sort of action.

and i'm also pretty lazy if someone asks me to do something. yeah, i'll do it later. then later comes, and it hasn't gotten done because i forgot.

lazy is the stereotype. it's more like a combo of absent-minded, indifferent, or afraid to act, depending on the situation.

Posted by QLIbraMale
ohh well i'm not that either i love holding doors for women, helping them in anytime of need, and helping strangers to the best of my ability lol.

It would be nice if more men were like this. It's called being a gentleman. :-)

Mine holds doors open for me and will open my car door for me. I'm not used to this and must say it's very impressive.
It's just a kind gesture that goes a long way!!!

Posted by QLIbraMale
ohh well i'm not that either i love holding doors for women, helping them in anytime of need, and helping strangers to the best of my ability lol.

but again, that's not what i mean. i mean something you have to get off your ass to do, something that requires you to say to yourself "ok. i'm standing up now." usually the legs just won't work in that situation for poor libra. libra will say "oh, sorry. i'll do it later."

with opening doors, of course you do that. you're in the area. you love women. lol. and etiquette is one of the libra keywords. we're all about it. one libra i knew, one of the big strains on his relationship with a scorpio was that she would insist on opening her own doors and paying her own way. then she'd complain that he was too passive in bed. and it's like, wtf do you expect? even just as friends, he always opened doors for me, and i don't remember ever pulling out my wallet in his presence. applies actually to several libra guys i knew. it's just how libras are.

and we're always ready to jump into action if there's some sort of crisis. it's another libra strong point. we'll sit around looking lazy, then somebody calls us to come pick them up or something, and bam, we're there. or if someone gets hurt, it's always a libra that'll step in, calm under pressure. that's just part of being a libra.

but i can take the trash out later and of course i can finish this 10 page paper before class tomorrow. lol. (i don't actually have this paper. but it's happened). and the fun thing is that "lazy" libra usually can pull this stuff out of their ass at the last minute, which only pisses other people off more.

i have way too much pride to stalk a woman, do you know what kind of power that would give her if she caught you? thats just embarassing.


Now follow them even tho they dont want me to, yea i will do that tho